Relationary

What is the difference between a Greek and Hebraic mindset for Christians? Phil discusses with Andy and Robin some of the main hallmarks of the Hebraic way of thinking, and how this might impact how Christians engage with their Bibles and a more relational way of living. This episode explores how a different worldview can impact our relationships. Some of the resources mentioned in this podcast ar...

The following is Andy’s presentation of the Big Story of the Bible that was part of a wider discussion in a recent webinar. Andy explores how the story is one of bringing humanity back home again. This episode explores the driving narrative of the Bible through a lens of relational theology. Andy Parnham, after years working as a doctor, turned to community work in inner London, during which time...

Pastor Seyi Olusile looks back on his long and eventful life with Andy.  Coming to England from Nigeria as a student, he was dazzled by the bright lights and found himself pursuing a random and destructive life – until he bumped into a childhood friend, who drew him back into life with God. Thus began a sometimes tumultuous but rewarding life. Enjoy his story. Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and...

What happened at this year's Relational Theology Day?  Andy and Robin discuss their experiences and thoughts on this year's Relational Theology Day. Want to find out more? Follow this link. Watch out for sign up for next year's RTD. This episodes dives into the topics discussed this year, with a special emphasis on Ephesians 4, Microchurches, Deconstruction and Relational Theology. Robin, Phil and...

How can we grow in wisdom? Robin discussed with Andy and Phil, the experience of practically growing in wisdom. This episode explores the holistic nature of wisdom, and its implications for every area of life. Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to...

How do we navigate fractured society? Jide Ehizele and Andy, discuss Jide's story. This episode explores questions of identity, and how this influences our posture in society. Jide Ehizele, is a Christian thinker and writer focusing on faith, identity and cultural renewal. In his Substack, Southeast London Psalms , Jide wrestles with faith, politics and community from the perspective of a Black Br...

What gives you life? Long-time friends, Corin Pilling and Andy, explore what it means, and some practical considerations, of pursuing a flourishing life. This episode explores how flourishing is deeply linked to meaning and connection. Corin Pilling, is a Vocational Flourishing Officer at the Methodist Church. You can connect with him via https://www.instagram.com/corinpilling/   Find out more on...

What is the connection between happiness and purpose? Andy speaks with Robin and Phil about the nature of happiness, in connection to a purpose-driven life, fuelled by relationships. This episode continues a conversation around Andy's book: Lasting Happiness: In Search of Deeper Meaning and Fulfilment .  Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in...

What exactly is wisdom? Robin unpacks with Phil and Andy what the Bible teaches about wisdom. This episode explores a broader definition of wisdom that goes beyond merely an intellectual capacity. Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formation, and leadership. Relationary is a joint project to promote and e...

How do you define the good life? Andy explores with Phil and Robin a subject from his book, Lasting Happiness , where they consider how to deal with the fragmented, compartmentalised and incoherent difficulties in life. This episode dives into how we try and deal with these struggles to attain the good life.  Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experienc...

How can we make the best contribution to any team? Robin and Andy discuss the bestselling book, The Culture Code: The Secret to Highly Successful Groups by Daniel Coyle . This episode explores how individuals can play their part in building culture within teams.  Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, community formati...

What is happiness? Andy dives into his book, Lasting Happiness , and discussed with Phil and Robin the link between the nature of happiness and relationships. This episode explores how the moments of sheer exuberance and delight in life often comes when we connect with others. Robin, Phil and Andy are friends and family, with combined training and working experience in medicine, theology, law, com...

How do you find others to pursue a purpose with? Long-time friends, Phil Stokes and Andy, explore the lessons they have learnt, finding other people to build together with, for lasting impact. This episode explores how to identify and explore core values within a community setting. Phil Stokes, avid jazz fan, and founder of REACH London, has 38 years of urban pastoral ministry.  You can connect wi...

Why should I bother developing relational skills? Phil and Andy discuss with Robin about whether it is possible for anyone to learn how to have better emotional intelligence. This episode explores how the Biblical wisdom tradition helps in the quest for community. Robin Plummer is the Pastor of New River Baptist Church.  You can connect with New River Baptist Church via https://www.instagram.com/n...

What are the parameters for seeking successful relationships? Robin and Andy discuss with Phil about the opportunities and traps that come with trying to make relationships central to your worldview, and your faith. This episode dives into the inherent tensions in trying to do right by others, while having living from a sense of right and wrong. Phil is a specialist in supported housing (exempt ac...

What do healthy relationships, happiness and the Bible have to do with each other? Robin and Phil discuss with Andy about why he feels it's so important to talk about relationships that he was up for starting a podcast with them. This episode explores the evidence of how relationships drive happiness, and how they are at the heart of the Biblical story. Andy Parnham, after years working as a docto...