Petrify the Patriarchy

I spoke at a conference. Full room, smart people, and the room went flat. Not hostile—flat. This episode is about why, and what I figured out afterward. Because white supremacy gives you a nod. Christianity gives you a spectator seat. Patriarchy gives you neither. You cannot stop being a gendered body in a room, and neither can a man—who gets to be a work in progress forever instead of accountable...

Can you compliment a woman's hair or shoes without it landing wrong? A spark episode on why "nice shoes" can read as a micro-aggression, why women with trauma around their looks flinch at praise, and whether the fix is consent—asking before you comment.

What if the most dangerous moment in a woman's life is the moment she tries to leave a relationship? In this raw, unflinching, and deeply personal episode, I expose the 'Exit Trap'—the terrifying reality that no matter who initiates the breakup, the woman pays the price. We explore the two sides of the same dangerous coin: the 'Vanishing Act' of a man who leaves you with financial and emotional wr...

In this episode, I'm deconstructing the very foundation of our moral code. I compare the 10 Commandments—a list of 'don'ts' designed to manage a deity's ego—with the 7 Tenets of Satanism and the 13 Guiding Principles of Black Lives Matter, which are guides on how to be a better human. We'll explore how Christian Nationalists are using this ego-based morality as a political weapon to undermine our...

In this episode, I sit down with one of my best friends and collaborator of nearing a decade, Manuel Cadenas, the brilliant mind behind Solutions by Cadenas LLC. We have an unscripted, heart-centered conversation about a topic at the core of both of our work: how the simple, profound act of peacemaking is one of the most radical and rebellious things we can do in a world built on patriarchal confl...

"Hope is for the lazy," they said. And for the first time, it resonated. Because I’ve spent my life chasing a word that felt like smoke—something I could never grasp, something that always felt out of reach. I was stuck. I felt stagnant. I was doing the work, but I wasn't leveling up. I thought the problem was me. But the problem wasn't me. The problem was the word. Today, we are talking about why...

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Warning: Suicide and suicide ideation are discussed. Please listen with care for yourself. The Savior/Supporter Audit: In your own life, are you the person who is amazing at supporting others through their pain but feels completely lost when it comes to your own? Do you use your ability to hold space for others as a way to avoid sitting with your own grief? Who is holding space for you? Allow Your...

Turning off the open relationship bait and switch. Absolutely no shade to those in open relationships who are thoughtful, conscientious, and kind about your communication with everyone. Thank you for being up front about how you date. This is for those who try to sneak it in...let's dive into that. The Clarity Audit: Options vs. Priorities The 'Cool Girl' Scan: Where in your current dating or soci...

Creation is a fundamentally, undeniably, deeply feminine attribute. Men participate in the Divine Feminine when in the act of sex because of the possibility of creation. Let's dive into why. Clarity Audit: The Extraction Scan: Look at your current relational or digital interactions. Where do you feel a pressure to provide emotional, spiritual, or physical access based on what a partner has financi...

What happens when a woman’s biological survival instincts are completely hijacked by her social conditioning to be a "nice girl"? In this episode of Petrify the Patriarchy , Jo B. dives deep into the architecture of compliance, using an unforgettable—and terrifyingly funny—dating story as a case study for what happens when our "animal guts" scream one thing, but our socially trained brains force u...

Let's talk dating, language, and hidden message. In this episode, I’ll be talking about how women experience either an “ick” factor when meeting a man, or that slog through innuendo and vague language. Here’s where we need to stop and take stock: The Shallow Compliment: It’s an evaluation, not a connection. It sets up a hierarchy where he is the judge of your value. The Ambiguity Play: Why men use...

https://movingmaxim.com movingmaxim@gmail.com The Medusa Audit: Checking Your "Snakes" The Temple Test: Where in my life am I still acting as a "Priestess"—giving away my "Being" to keep a system running that wouldn't protect me in a crisis? The Mirror Check: When I look at my own fatigue or "atypical" symptoms, am I seeing a "Monster" (The Patriarchal View) or a "Firewall" (The Sovereign View)? T...

Visit me at https://movingmaxim.com or message me at movingmaxim@gmail.com . The Default Gaze Audit 1. The "Standard Human" Productivity Check The Question: Am I judging my energy levels against a linear, 24-hour cycle of constant output? The Audit: Do you feel like a "failure" when your cyclical needs (hormonal shifts, perimenopause, or health flares) prevent you from matching the "standard" 40-h...

Find me here: https://www.movingmaxim.com/ Or message me here: movingmaxim@gmail.com A self -audit: 1. The Utility Test (Utility vs. Sovereignty) The Question: Do the people in my life (bosses, partners, family) primarily praise me for who I am or for what I provide ? The Audit: If your "value" in a relationship or job is tied to your resilience, your "Strong Woman" capability, or your emotional l...

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The final episode in My Story series. The how, what, when, where, why of how I left my secure job and have jumped into a completely new, unpredictable, scary life. Go to https://www.movingmaxim.com/ to grab my free framework and/or reach out for UN-learning coaching or consulting opportunities. Let's keep UN-learning together!

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Charlie Kirk is a vicim of what he spewed: patriarchy. Let's break it down. Using some of the research I've done, I'm breaking down some larger bullet (no pun intended) points of patriarchal culture characteristics. Go to movingmaxim.com to get a free copy of my framework.

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