Peas In A Podcast

And just like that… we’re wrapping up another year of the podcast season🥹 Before we take a little break until 2027, we’re sitting down for one last catch-up. We’re talking about what we’ve been up to, some of our biggest moments and lessons from the year, the things that surprised us, and what we’re looking forward to in these last few months. We’re definitely sad to say goodbye for now, but we a...

Better still remains… but sometimes it’s hard to believe that when you’re looking at what everyone else has. 😭 In this episode, Tosan and Moyo reflect on the seasons they’ve overcome, the things that actually did get better, and how they’re learning to stay hopeful when life doesn’t look exactly how they imagined it would. They get into a slightly uncomfortable conversation: jealousy in friendshi...

In this episode, we’re joined by Toronto-based makeup artist Dami Babz for a conversation about all things beauty, creativity, and wellness. We get into her journey as a makeup artist, what it’s really like to build a career in Toronto, the pressure of beauty standards, and how our relationship with beauty can shape how we see ourselves. We also talk about pursuing holistic wellness and finding co...

We’re back with a little catch-up! In this microsode, we’re talking about what we’ve been up to this summer, from dentist appointments and Jays games to getting back into our routines and taking care of ourselves. And, as always, somehow the conversation turns to love and dating. We get into whether love is a gamble, what it means to really be down for someone, and why dating in the GTA is… an exp...

"It takes a village"... but what does it actually cost to be the village? In this episode, we're unpacking the realities of showing up for the people we love. We kick things off with a fun rapid-fire game, deciding whether we'd make the sacrifice in different "villager" scenarios. Then we dive into the three biggest costs of being there for others: finances, time, and emotional capacity . We also...

Everyone talks about the proposal and the wedding day, but what about everything that comes after? This week, we're joined by one of our closest friends to unpack the journey from singleness to marriage. We dive into the expectations we had, the myths we had to unlearn, what wedding planning was really like, how friendships changed through the transition, and why honest conversations about sex in...

We’re back with another unfiltered catch-up, and this one gets a little chaotic🍹 Before we get into the drama, we spend some time catching you up on what our summer has looked like so far, what we've been up to, and everything we've been enjoying lately. Then it's time for the main event: Love Island Season 8 . From the couples we were rooting for to the decisions that had us questioning everythi...

After a little recording break, we’re back with a summer catch-up ☀️ In this episode, we share what we’ve been up to over the last few weeks — from completing a 5K run, to exploring DO West Fest, enjoying an Afro Jazz night, and taking summer trips to Quebec and Collingwood. Along the way, we reflect on the joy of trying new things, creating memorable experiences, and embracing all the different p...

Unfiltered series is back 🎙️ We’re catching up on what the past few weeks have actually looked like, which includes: what’s been shifting, what’s been challenging, and the little things that have been taking up space in our lives. We also get into our thoughts on Michael Jackson’s movie and what stood out to us. From there, the conversation naturally moves into something deeper. We discuss how maj...

Ever felt lost in your career? You’re not alone! In this episode of Peas in a Podcast, we dive into career pivots and the uncertainty that comes with them. Our special guest, Tobi Adekeye, shares her journey of trusting herself when the path isn’t clear. We discuss how to navigate and embrace seasons of life that feel anything but linear.  💡 Let’s talk about making bold decisions. FIND...

We’re back with a proper catch-up 🎙️ In this episode, Moyo and Tosan spend some time talking through what the past couple of weeks have actually looked like, what’s been going on, and the little things that have been taking up space. Then the conversation shifts (as it does 😭) into something we’ve all probably thought about… our relationship with social media and AI. Are we just online… or are we...

In this episode, we dive into The Art of Loving by Olivia Dean 🎶✨ We break the album down into four themes— self-love, dating, the complexities of relationships, and healing & growth —and unpack the songs through each lens. From soft, affirming moments to the lyrics that hit a little too close, we’re getting honest about what resonated with us and why. Of course, we’re also sharing our favou...

We’re backkk 👀 After disappearing for a little minute (okay… since August 😅), Moyo and Tosan are finally back behind the mic to catch up with you all. In this episode, They are getting into everything -- from how 2025 wrapped up, to what’s been taking over their screen time lately (because why are we all chronically online??), and the headlines that have them talking. They also share how Q1 of 2...

We’re officially halfway through the year, so Moyo and Tosan are sitting down for a Mid-Year Review . We’re checking in on everything from finances and career to romance, social life, physical health, and emotional well-being. Each category gets a rating out of 10, along with the honest reflections behind those numbers. It’s not just a check-in; it’s a chance to pause, laugh at ourselves, and get...

In this unfiltered summer catch-up, Moyo and Tosan share what they’ve been up to — from day parties and food fests to Toronto Island adventures, pickleball games, and all the events we’re still looking forward to, like ISWIS Live and Caribana . We close the episode with our final thoughts on Love Island USA , focusing on how dark-skinned Black women were treated in the villa and in the conversatio...

What does self-care really look like when you strip away the social media aesthetics? In this episode, Moyo and Tosan sit down with Mikhailla , founder of I Deserve Gifting — a wellness-focused gifting brand that celebrates the eight pillars of self-care while uplifting Canadian, diverse, and women-owned businesses. Together, they get honest about: 💆🏾‍♀️ What self-care really is — and how Mikhai...

In this episode, Moyo and Tosan get real about their self-love journeys —the real, raw, and often nonlinear path to reconnecting with who they truly are. They talk about moments when they felt disconnected from themselves, the slow process of finding their way back, what it actually looks like to build confidence when the world is constantly telling you who to be and the lessons learned along...

In this episode we are diving headfirst into the delicious chaos of Love Island USA S7 (Episodes 1–19) — and yes, we’re already in too deep. From messy couples to master manipulators, this season has delivered nothing but drama. In this recap, we break down: 💔 The emotional whiplash of Huda & Jeremiah 🧠 Ace and his scheming mastermind energy 🎭 Nic , the smooth-talking player with too many l...

In this episode, Moyo and Tosan unpack how generational pattern—shaped by family dynamics, cultural norms, and unspoken expectations—can silently shape the way we show up in romantic relationships. From inherited emotional habits to the roles we unconsciously play in love, they explore how these patterns are formed, the signs that you're repeating them, and what it takes to break the cycle. Tune i...

In this episode, Moyo and Tosan dive deep into the layered question: "Are we Nigerian enough?" 🇳🇬✨ As two Nigerian women living in the diaspora, they unpack what it truly means to be Nigerian—beyond birthplace, passports, and party jollof. From identity struggles to accent insecurities, they explore how living outside Nigeria has shaped their connection to culture, language, and community. They a...

In this episode, Tosan and Moyo sit down with Bisola Adediji—a licensed marriage and family therapist-associate based in Texas—to explore the emotional and psychological impact of immigration. As a first-generation Nigerian-American, Bisola brings both personal insight and clinical expertise to unpack how immigration can shape a person’s mental health, identity, and worldview. Together, they dive...

In this episode of Peas in a Podcast , Tosan and Moyo explore the sometimes tricky, often beautiful world of adult friendships. From making new friends to learning how to nurture and maintain meaningful connections, they share personal stories, laughs, and lessons learned along the way. Whether you're building your circle from scratch or trying to keep old bonds strong, this episode is full of ins...

THE GIRLS ARE BACK!!!! In this episode of Peas in a Podcast , Tosan and Moyo dive deep into the beauty and power of sisterhood. From defining what sisterhood means to sharing the moments that made them grateful for their female friendships, this episode is a celebration of the women who hold us down. They reflect on how their view of sisterhood has evolved, brain-altering moments along the way, th...

As promised, this episode is a continuation of the Episode 46. Moyo and Tosan continue their candid conversation with Timilehin and Bisola—this time focusing on the expectations of being in your 20s, especially at 25. The group reflects on how their expectations for this decade have shifted, and discuss societal pressures like chasing six-figure jobs, marriage, kids, and ambition. They also tackle...

This episode is pure chaos—in the best way! Moyo and Tosan are joined by their close friends, Timilehin and Bisola, for an unfiltered, hilarious, and brutally honest conversation about dating. They dive into the struggles of navigating relationships after growing up in households where dating wasn’t allowed—but marriage is now expected. They also tackle social media’s impact on dating, the fine li...