Now That You Ask

Getting older is a fight I know I am losing but still there is a part of me that is in denial about it. I'll admit it is getting harder and harder to deny it especially when my body is trying its best to tell me the truth. I might just need to rethink my thoughts about aging. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky....

'Tis the season to indulge in sweetness and even sweeter memories. Lately, I have been basking in appreciation for this season and all the memories and people I cherish. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey through her writing and experience with life’s...

What makes an ordinary life interesting and rewarding? I believe part of the answer is cultivating a deep understanding of who we are and seeking out shifts in our perception. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey through her writing and experience with...

I recently experienced a double shot of secondhand happiness while celebrating a friend's success and at the same time, getting to let loose a part of myself I had no idea was there. Listen in to hear all about it! Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey t...

It seems my denial, or "selective procrastination" as I like to call it, is wearing off and I am feeling my age more and more these days. Most notably, I have observed that I have become invisible to a large portion of our population. Will I let this stop me from enjoying my age? Knowing me, what do you think? Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and...

When I am feeling distressed or overwhelmed, I easily default to anger, sadness, helplessness, and fear. I am also prone to wanting immediate gratification. What does not come naturally to me, is asking for help and to pause ... wait. Over the years I have cultivated my own creative and powerful approach to asking for the help I need at any time. While I still may struggle at times with asking par...

What part of nature nurtures you? Personally, I love how the ocean air heals and how big, old trees leave me in awe. But I truly appreciate how diamonds remind me of my inner brilliance. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey through her writing and exper...

Until recently, I was pretty sure I hadn't met a cheese I didn't like. To be fair, the cheese currently in question used to be a favorite of mine. Now, I find it uninspiring to say the least. Of course, both life and cheese contain a full spectrum of experiences. Therefore, in cheese terms, it can't all be Manchego and Brie. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death...

Absurd situations can really teach us about ourselves. This is a story about my first real job, being in a little over my head, and handling it with as much grace as I could muster. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey through her writing and experience...

I seem always to have been seeking my place in the word. The process has brought me to many spiritual ideas and practices and to many different places on the globe. Here is what happened when I stumbled across a deep truth in a poem. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes liste...

I've always had my own sense of what's right. Most of the time it serves me. Sometimes it gets me in trouble. This is a story about birthday rituals, my personal sense of justice, standing in my truth, and a Golden Chair. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a jo...

Have you ever put something in a "safe place" only to realize you also made it safe from yourself? I recently had such an adventure with a missing garage door opener. What did I find when this item went missing? And what did I learn? Listen to find out. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halse...

What do you do when people start treating you like you're old? I know I've reached a certain age and I'll admit there's a kind of freedom and peace that comes with aging but I don't want to feel like I have passed the point of no return. Maybe I am just a rebel at heart but I refuse to be defined by a number. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and f...

Despite our differences my mother had quite an impact on me including a love a beauty and entertaining. My father always knew the right thing to do but he also had a wild side to him. Their legacy lives on in me and I feel lucky to have grown up when I did. Doing the right thing just because, being kind to people, and always looking for ways to bring more beauty and joy into the world - this is a...

If you could write your own obituary, what would it say? In my mind, I've had an uncommon life for a woman of my time with the ultimate prize being my own affection for who I have become. Yes, at long last I have found myself. But even after all the years, I am still finding and surprising myself with new adventures ... like this podcast for example! Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at top...

Humans are complicated and the world is a messy place. This is a story about how my faith in humanity was recently restored. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a journey through her writing and experience with life’s most persistent questions. Thank you for lis...

There is something about silver. It dresses up a table with its simple sparkle and implies something out of the ordinary is about to happen. More than that, silver reminds me of sweet celebrations and even sweeter people. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host, Akasha Halsey as she takes listeners on a jo...

Beauty astounds me. It is truly everywhere, even where I least expect it. It is in the small things and the big moments. It has the capacity to change the way I feel and bring me into the present. I feel deep appreciation for the beauty that surrounds me and the presence to be aware of it. How do you view beauty? Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, a...

From the young age of 16, I knew I needed to leave home. The South has many good qualities that I speak of often and fondly, but I still felt the undeniable push to get out. And that I did. This piece is about my exploration and adventures beyond the comfort of home and my Southern roots. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downr...

On the previous episode about Cemeteries, I made a reference and shared a little bit about someone named Kitty. Now I am going to let you get to know this special person in a more formal and intimate way. Kitty made me feel like a million bucks. She showed me the joy of knowing and loving myself and made me feel like I can do and be whatever I want. Please allow me to introduce you to my beloved G...

Cemeteries hold a special place for me. I especially love visiting my Aunt Kitty's family plot and her pink marble headstone. When I visit her I am flooded with memories which, along with her grave site, I visit happily. I enjoy walking through cemeteries and find them tranquil and beautiful. I am familiar with a number of them, which I have learned makes me a bit of a taphophile, a person who lov...

It's my birthday month. This, of course, got me thinking about presents. I'm a big believer in birthday and Christmas celebrations and I put a lot of thought into the presents I give. As for the presents I receive, well, I have had some truly wonderful presents given to me and also some that have made me wince. But they all left an impression! Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics tha...

When I was in my teens I loved watching a TV program called The Millionaire in which the host, John Beresford Tipton, would award a worthy person $1 million. I have my own version of this. While I don't have millions to give away, I have collected, inherited, and purchased many items that are unusual, beautiful, and one-of-a-kind. They're all very meaningful to me and if I select you as the worthy...

I miss my daddy. I miss our morning walks. I miss lots of things actually. It is times like these I like to bring him close to me by indulging in memories and by reminding myself of the many gifts he gave me. From genetics to life lessons, he will always be with me. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downright whacky. Join host,...

An earthquake woke me up at 5am. This is not a metaphor. Although it does get me thinking about metaphors, mortality, and whether or not I am prepared for "the big one." It is a strange thing to prepare for catastrophe. I suppose the alternative is to choose to be in denial about it all together. This piece is about finding a healthy level of denial in order to stay sane. Now That You Ask is a pod...