Now That You Ask

Horse people are a community unto their own. My dear friend Nancy, a passionate horsewoman, is the one introduced me to the world of horses and riding about 20 years ago. It's quite remarkable how much there is to learn and master when it comes to riding and Nancy loved every aspect of it. Despite my initial apprehension towards horses due to a childhood incident, I have found joy in witnessing Na...

Memorials are a beautiful way to honor and remember loved ones. They come in various forms like statues, gardens, or services, each holding a special place in our hearts. Attending a recent memorial service for a dear friend brought unexpected comfort and uplifted my spirits. Witnessing the love and memories shared by family members and friends painted a vivid picture of a life well-lived. Despite...

I find myself torn between conflicting aspects of my personality. Despite enjoying action-packed movies and occasionally feeling frustrated with others, I strive to be kind-hearted and helpful. I acknowledge the importance of self-preservation but also the joy of being of service to others when opportunities arise. At the end of the day, life's unpredictability offers me hope that I can continue t...

As I navigate through the everyday nuisances that life presents, I find myself entangled in a web of frustrations that range from unexpected moisture on my body parts to the challenges of organization and memory. Join me on a reflective journey as I unravel the comedy of errors that make up my daily life. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from...

You've probably heard the expression, "They're doing doing the best they can with what they've got." In this episode, I find myself reflecting on the concept of doing my best and exploring the depths my values and traits. Through this exploration, I uncover aspects of myself that I often overlook. Acknowledging my strengths, I strive to be true to who I am and embrace the qualities that shape my i...

I'm on a quest for stability in life. I'm starting by focusing on strengthening neglected muscles at the gym. From my ankles to my core, each part of my body presents its own unique challenges and victories. As I push myself to improve and grow stronger, I am also finding a deep sense of fulfillment and pride. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and...

I am a quitter. I never thought I would write those words but I find myself "quitting" things like being a strict follower of commitments and instead allowing myself the freedom to turn away from things that don't resonate with me. In this episode, I share experiences from my past, and my thoughts on the importance of honoring my inner voice and prioritizing personal well-being. Now That You Ask i...

I have a long-standing tradition of visiting the farmer's market, where I support hardworking farmers and enjoy the quality of their just-picked fruits and vegetables. There's Eddie and his exceptional fruit selection and then there's the market's corn booth, where the sweet corn reminds me of Alabama's produce. But I especially love "bossy produce" that captivates me with its flavors and insisten...

The names I give myself have evolved over time, from self-criticism to self-empowerment. Embracing solitude and self-care has been essential in helping me navigate through the self-doubt and writing has become a therapeutic outlet, allowing me to reflect on life experiences and cherish the journey towards self acceptance. At this stage of my life, I aim to document my unique adventures and thought...

Laughter has had a profound impact in my life. It is a transformative force that uplifts spirits, strengthens friendships, and brings a sense of gratitude and lightness. I believe genuine laughter is vital in creating intimate connections and finding joy in life's unpredictable moments. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondrous to downrig...

I find it amazing how quickly my mood can shift. From moments of anger and sadness to finding myself amidst a full-blown storm of emotions, I realize that change is inevitable and that I have the resilience to navigate through life's unexpected turns. By acknowledging my ability to adapt and grow, I learn to appreciate the journey of self-discovery and embrace the shifts that shape my existence. N...

What do you do when you're feeling overwhelmed and disconnected? Seeking support, I recently opened up to a friend about my deepest fears and anxieties and I found solace in their listening without judgment. Embracing vulnerability, I discovered the power of self-acceptance and reaching out for help. This experience helped me navigate towards self-discovery and gratitude and I found a sense of dir...

What daily conveniences are you most grateful for? I can think of plenty. From hot water and coffee to light and air-conditioning, each convenience enhances my daily experiences and adds to my gratitude. There was a time when maybe I couldn't say as much and that only makes me more grateful - for both my past experiences and how they've led me to where I am today. Now That You Ask is a podcast tha...

My understanding of what it means to truly find where I belong is always evolving. In my relationships, career choices, and self-acceptance, the quest to find my place has been an enlightening journey and has lead me to fully embrace my unique quirks and qualities. These days, I celebrate the sense of contentment and fulfillment that comes with accepting myself and finding peace in where I am in t...

I love finding a loophole and thinking that I can cheat the system just a little bit. Over the years, I've become quite good at identifying ways to do less and still achieve the same result. However, I've also learned that there are some areas where there are no loopholes. As I've grown older, finding loopholes has become more challenging, and the consequences seem more significant. Despite this,...

I am deeply saddened by the sudden passing of my friend. Her death has left me grappling with the grief, questioning why her and why now. As I navigate through the hole her passing has left, I am confronted with the loneliness that we all may experience at some point in our lives. The truth that there is no certainty about what's next resonates with me, urging me to make the most of the present. A...

What happens when a baker is preparing for a colonoscopy and has to make do with jello and popsicles? Making the jello was easy however, eating the jello turned out to be a messy and challenging experience. Overall, the experience was unpredictable and unpleasant but it was an adventure nonetheless. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and from wondro...

As an Alabama football fan, I share the bittersweet emotions surrounding legendary coach, Nick Saban's retirement, and find myself reflecting on the impact he has made on the team and the fans. Through his philosophy of excellence and personal growth, Saban reminds us that happiness is not just about momentary pleasures or achievements, but about the meaningful contributions we make to the world a...

This year I spent Christmas with my adopted family. The house was beautifully decorated, with multiple trees, gingerbread houses, and adorable handmade gifts from the children. It was a wonderland filled with laughter and imagination. The highlight of the holiday was when the little girl in the family received a very special surprise present. The joy and excitement on her face were truly priceless...

I love hot dogs. From the hot dogs served at baseball and football games to the ones from carts in New York City, I have a particular fondness for their flavor. And there is nothing quite like the unique satisfaction of having a hot dog handed over by someone at a game. Join me as I share my love for hot dogs and the significant role they play in my football-watching rituals. Now That You Ask is a...

As I contemplate the road ahead, I find motivation in the challenge of taking action and starting something new - specifically, in writing a book. I find the prospect quite intriguing. What will I learn about myself this time? I know I have a desire to be unique and resist conformity (surprise, surprise), as well as the need to begin before the universe can provide assistance. I know I must r...

I see myself as a special kind of mystic, embracing the unexplainable mysteries of life. I believe a mystic possesses a strong sense of self, calmness, trust, curiosity, and acceptance. Through various experiences and moments of connection, I have glimpsed my mystical self and felt the vastness of being alive. Now That You Ask is a podcast that looks at topics that range from death to desire, and...

Did you know that I was in a beauty contest? It's true. It was called the Maid of Cotton contest. It all started when my mother decided it would be a good experience for me to participate. Reluctantly, I agreed and went through the rigorous preparations for the contest. To my surprise, I won the first round and had to continue to the next level. However, as the pressure built up and I faced catty...

Lately I've been asking myself "What is going on with me?" I am a little worried about myself to be honest. I have always loved the holidays, but this year I am really struggling with the social aspects. Of course, the pandemic shaped my perspective on solitude and I now delve into the joys and challenges of being alone, but what is going on with me? Join me as I explore the complexities of my emo...

If you were born in the South, say, 50 to 60, 70 years ago, you were baptized with an unquenchable love for college football. In this episode, I share my personal story of growing up in Alabama and being immersed in the passionate world of college football fandom. From the fierce rivalry between Alabama and Auburn to the exciting game-day parties with friends and family, football became a part of...