Not a Tiger Mom

In this episode, we sit down with Iris , a late-identified AuDHD speech therapist, mom of two neurodiverse kids, and fellow Asian American navigating identity. Topics we covered: Group therapy vs. one-on-one therapy, Iris' & Bettina's adult diagnosis story, cultural identity, social media, unmasking, and going inward If you’ve ever wondered: “Why doesn’t traditional therapy work for me...

Parenting neurodivergent kids can be isolating, but trying to do it all alone can quietly break you and your marriage. In this episode, the we open up about the invisible weight that "autism families" carry: the fear of trusting others to watch our kids. Finding (and expanding ) your village isn’t just about getting help.. it’s about keeping your relationship alive. We also unpack experi...

In this episode, we sit down with Daniella (@autism.conmigo) to talk about what it's like raising autistic kids at the intersections of culture, language, and neurodiversity. We go deep into breaking stigma in immigrant families, navigating faith and shame, and the power of naming autism for what it is. Daniella shares her journey from teacher to advocate, what inclusion in classrooms should l...

We’re back after several months! Welcome to Season 2 of Not a Tiger Mom ! In this first episode, we catch up on all the life updates: Bettina shares about her upcoming move to California, Jenny talks about her new part-time job, and we chat about our personal goals for our businesses. We also share what’s ahead for Not a Tiger Mom . We’re so excited to be back and hope you enjoy this new season wi...

For our final episode this season, we’re joined by our friend Chris, a father navigating life as an Asian American (1/2 Filipino & 1/2 White) parent of an autistic child. Chris opens up about his journey from receiving his son’s diagnosis and raising him within his family’s cultural dynamics. We dive into the challenges and reasons why autism dads are less visible on social media and discuss t...

In this episode, we dive into the transitions that come with the new school year. Jenny shares how her family's routine is shifting, while Bettina reflects on her first week of homeschooling her kids. Together, we explore the unexpected challenges of finding a community during these changes. This is an honest look at how we’re navigating this season as both parents and advocates. **NOTE: At about...

In this episode, we kick things off with a light-hearted chat about our heights and the insecurities that come with them in our culture. As we peel back the layers, we dive into the complexities of executive function and explore our dual roles as professionals and as moms. Filled with fun and laughter, this episode gave us a chance to just share more of our personalities. We hope you find as much...

In this episode, we explore the challenges of traveling as a family while addressing sensory needs and differences, all through the lens of unmasking. We discuss the importance of recognizing when to step back from certain activities during group outings—and embracing that it’s okay to do so. By understanding and accommodating our children's needs, as well as our own, we can easily unmask, accept...

In this episode, we delve into the stages of gestalt language processing, exploring how children learn language in chunks and progress to more flexible speech. We discuss the importance of child-led therapy, emphasizing the need to follow our children's lead in their learning and development. We also examine the role of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) in achieving communication goals, sharing exam...

In this episode, we address some of the significant questions we face as mothers of autistic children. We explore the considerations and decisions involved in having more children after an autism diagnosis, the complexities of returning to work following maternity leave, and the approaches we take when discussing autism with our families. Through our journey, we have come to understand that growth...

In this episode, we engage in a casual conversation about the history of ABA and explore what modern ABA should look like while honoring and supporting our clients' autonomy. We discuss how to create an environment that aids the learner and moves away from potentially harmful practices, focusing on neurodiversity-affirming approaches. We also emphasize the importance of collaborating with speech t...

In this powerful episode, hear the conclusion of our two-part series as we open up about our personal mental health and diagnosis journeys. From the initial steps of seeking diagnosis to navigating complex emotions of shame and vulnerability, we share our unfiltered experiences. We discuss the role of medications in our healing processes, and how we confronted and are overcoming societal and cultu...

Join us for a compelling two-part series as we delve into the personal journeys of two neurodiverse Asian-American families navigating the complexities of autism diagnosis. We'll candidly share how our families were affected by our children's diagnosis, exploring the emotional impact and the reactions we encountered along the way. Tune in to gain insight, empathy, and understanding. Terms to know...

Join us as we delve into the essence of our show, exploring our origins and purpose. We recount our serendipitous meeting, the fusion of two East Coast and West Coast mothers of autistic children, our neurodiversity affirming speech pathology and BCBA backgrounds, and how our shared values as Asian American professionals and mamas unite us. Additionally, we extend warm wishes for a happy Asian Ame...

Join us on this exciting journey as we delve into meaningful conversations, share valuable insights, amplify Asian-American and diverse voices within the parenting, neurodiverse, self-healing communities. We're looking forward to sharing more inspiring content with you. Stay connected and keep an eye out for our upcoming episodes! If you have any topics you'd like us to cover or questions...