No Contact

Madison Sinclair comes on to discuss her surprise lesbian wedding, her weirdo father, brother and other MAGA, multiple stalkers, peeping toms, and why she can never go to New Zealand. Madison gives some scary tips her mom learned using burner accounts, shares about the final Thanksgiving that made her cut off her family, how she caused Jelly Roll’s divorce, her wife’s therapist ex terrorizing her...

Jade is a community organizing socialite and trans affirming care nurse with both a f*ck ass ex AND f*ck ass father. We talk about ex’s hitting on your friends, discovering a secret spicy Twitter, and dating ex gay Mormons. Jade then tells the story of discovering her father’s affair, and the last conversation she ever had with her father. We discuss dating cis people, coming out to your parents,...

Michelle Murphy comes on to talk about the ex that made her swear off dating for 10 years and bonus story at the top about a workplace she had to go no contact with (she refused to sign the NDA and we love that for us). We discuss how her ex broke up with her over email, how spiritually bypassing white dudes get into meditation after breakups, I probably dish too much about my ex giving his mom my...

Salma Zaky (Don’t Tell Comedy, Comics Unleashed) is one of my oldest friends in comedy and also she knew my stalker ex. We talk about her appearance on Netflix, money trauma and then discuss her lifelong battle with gay men, and the high school friend that started it all. Salma looks up their no contact high school friend on IG, and Hay opens the episode with an update on a new shared stalker with...

Skyler Higley (Help Me Be Black podcast, Oscars, Conan!) is a DSP Podcast sibling and comes in to talk about going no contact with his adopted Mormon daddy. We talk about emotional incest, cheating fathers, reconnecting with bio family, being sealed to his family he’s no contact with in he Mormon Temple and therefore eternal heaven, building hammers, and adult abuse from their children being a rea...

Hannah Jones (Don’t Tell Comedy) is one of my oldest friends in comedy and comes on to roast my ass to death and talk about how her dad just never really fuct with her like that. We talk about daddy’s eating disorders, queers running coffee shops and thrift stores across America, how her last 5 flings have ended the exact same way, and Hay keeps putting their foot in their mouth and blames their 1...

Rachel Pegram (SNL) comes on to tell a story about getting cut off by a horse girl in middle school, and encourages Hay not to put so much of their current drama on the Patreon… yet. Hay unfortunately relates to Rachel’s middle school opp, Rachel shares the way ex’s will always find their way back to you via email, and we read an instantly legendary listener letter about a guy who loves Zyn.

Maxwell Esposito (Learn the Words B!tch) is a socialite and he’s Italian. He comes on to briefly mention cutting off his mom, stepmom, dad, but then really get into how he’s no contact with a lot of people he’s lived with. We talk about how he thoroughly knows the characters discussed in our previous ep with Danielle Perez (his show LTWB is a centerpiece of her story!) and what is means to be LA e...

Jessica Michelle Singleton is an incredible 5’3 standup comedian and card carrying member of the no contact meth daddy club. She comes on to tell the story of her daddy going no contact with her at 8 years old at a Waffle House and how their relationship developed (and didn’t) throughout adulthood. We discuss fantasizing about buying our childhood homes, wishing we were raised by Reba, being dragg...

This is the most fagg*ty episode yet. Dylan Adler (The James Corden Show) comes on to tell a story of a former roommate at NYU who cut him off - but before that we laugh for 45 minutes about a mutual drag queen friend in Tokyo, and after that we stop crying laughing to cover an actually very intricate multilayered human story about standing up for yourself in a majority white comedy environment in...

Ruby Karp (Veeps) is a multi-talent but I guess just not signing according to her… she comes on to share her experience at the world renowned performing arts school LaGuardia and what some might consider abusive (but effective….) tactics used on children to get the best emotional performance out of them. I never thought it was that hard to make a 14 year old cry personally but it’s great to hear h...

Peter Kim (A Nice Indian Boy) comes on to talk about going no contact with his dad for being a scrub basically. We talk about asking for your parents to divorce for Christmas, being gay in San Francisco during the Great Recession, seeing a psychic that went him to a volcano in Hawaii, the way we both came out on stage, how to handle the funeral when your no contact parent dies, and producer Anya g...

Danielle Perez is an actor & standup comedian who regales us with the era in which gay guys were constantly crashing on her couch. This former best friend no contact story touches on besties not paying rent, gay alcoholism, fashion design, RuPaul’s Drag Race, local drag, cops and LA Fashion Week catches some strays - and a surprise twist or two tbh. And we name names!!!! We also talk about pic...

OJ Stellar (Download Comedy) tells us about being visited in a dream the night before recording by her cannibal ex. She details meeting seeing a practicing warlock around town, to entering a relationship where he drank her menstrual blood, the spells he cast on her after their breakup, to having to get a restraining order against a him for being a cross-faded cannibal. There’s also a follow up tal...

Daniel Webb (Don’t Tell Comedy) is the funniest person in the world because and mostly cuz they’re gay from Texas. Daniel initially came on to discuss going no contact with MAGA family members, but also vaping their way into the emergency room, being on a gay cruise that got turned away at not one but TWO borders in the Mediterranean, which is also Trump’s fault, and being a gay witch in Texas. Pl...

New Zealand musician Christabel Williams gives us personal tell-all of meeting someone on Tinder, that turned into being a victim of underage s*x trafficking. We touch on female conditioning, how being victimized upon turns you against your own best interest, and the mindf*ck of believing you deserve to be hurt and how s*x negativity ultimately leads us to protecting our abusers. She details the p...

Charmeé (Good Bi podcast) has not one but TWO dramatic gay no contact roommate stories - one with a creepy white WeHo gay guy struggling with his own identity, and the other a classic homoerotic living situation gone wrong. We discuss tokenization, unchecked misogynoir in gay spaces, and how “The L Word” made her queer. Hay also shares some parallels about a creepy Berkeley Lena Dunham-ass former...

Top 3 straight dudes in Hay’s life Joseph Garcia (Don’t Tell Comedy) comes on to tell a story about getting in a fight with his childhood friend and then he died. We’re also recording on Father’s day because we both don’t talk to our dads. We talk about being young in trap houses, through which app Joseph discovered his friends’ death months after seeing each other, how they cure a body for a cask...

Jamie Shriner comes on No Contact to explain how a summer camp romance turned into a chaotic polyamorous Midwestern marriage and ended in a British divorce, and how it’s ultimately Trump’s fault. Jamie details the specific psychology of being emotionally abused by a British man who can’t discuss emotions, having couples therapy on Halloween, the cat related last straw, and then the polyamorous bul...

Solomon Georgio (Comedy Central!!!) and Hay talk about being teen runaways, the benefits of being tall and gay, somehow knowing our parents were wrong even when we were kids, and how we don’t talk to our dads anymore and we’re kind of chill about it. He shares about the haircut that sent him to the hospital, the elites of Fresno, the importance of lying your way out of homelessness. Solomon's IG:...

Danielle Tudahl (LA Raver) is a queer nightlife icon who’s created queer dominated rave spaces since getting wage thefted and surprise laid off from a corporate job at Pollen (there’s a documentary about it!) We trade our women stalker stories and what happens when someone goes beyond parasocial and onto the 86’ed list, safety in the rave community, and how Danielle is systematically clapping back...

Sheila Ajjie (Buzzfeed) tells her story of finally cutting her ex off after giving herself until the end of 2025 to “be dumb.” They both tell traumatic boat stories, what she found on his phone, his shocking response when she finally ended things, and we try to plan how to receive his apology gifts without her getting wrapped back in!! For bonus content & ad-free episodes subscribe to my Patre...

This is the craziest story we’ve ever heard and the most I’ve ever laughed on an episode. Matt Legrande is a standup comedian, actor and gay guy who took in an unhoused woman who went from being his best friend and sobriety partner to stealing thousands of dollars from him and so much more. He tells us a few of the incredible scams she ran in the ER and Hertz Rental Car facility, as well as readin...

Marita Prodger (Netflix: Queer Ultimatum) comes on to talk about the casting process of the Ultimatum and a little update on her ex from the show she’s now no contact with. We talk about attachment wounds, how she still watches the show for fun with her opaque goblet, how she wrote a song when she was 11 years old about everything that ended up happening on the show, and straight people love queer...

Christine Medrano (Bob’s Burgers, standup) talks about her scallywag dad pursuing multiple gambling addictions, running multiple businesses, getting arrested in multiple countries, and while she was doing his payroll as a teen. We talk about her becoming a World Series of Poker Player, how getting bobs led to all our opportunities in life, and we say “ding ding ding ding” a lot um so apologies for...