Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole

This Summer, Don’t Let Screens Raise Your Kids What if the “golden idol” in your home glows… and fits in your child’s hand? This week on Needed Conversations, Ryan & Viktoriya Cole unpack one of the most urgent topics facing families today: how to reclaim your kids from screen time and reset your home around God’s presence this summer. With school out and devices calling louder than ever, most...

In this week’s powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole tackle one of the most sensitive issues many couples face: setting healthy boundaries with extended family. Whether it’s in-laws overstepping, family drama leaking into your marriage, or blurred lines of emotional dependency, learning how to protect the spiritual atmosphere of your home is critical. With biblical exam...

On today’s episode of Needed Conversations, we dive deep into how worship can recalibrate your heart, your home, and your marriage. Too often, we allow distractions, busyness, and even our own pain to shift our focus. But Scripture reminds us that we become what we behold. If your eyes are constantly fixed on problems, comparison, or negativity, your spirit will grow weary — and your marriage will...

What if the most spiritual thing you could do right now… is rest? In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole unpack a revolutionary truth: you were never meant to live from hustle to exhaustion, from pressure to burnout. You were designed to work from rest—not for it. Before Adam received his assignment, God introduced him to the rhythm of rest. His very first full day...

What does your social media algorithm say about the state of your soul—and the health of your marriage? In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya take you deep into the quiet war being waged right in your pocket. It's not just about screens—it's about desires, distractions, and the subtle erosion of intimacy. You’ll explore: How your algorithm is discipling your de...

It's time to reset. Your marriage needs your presence—not constant distractions. Welcome to a brand new 8+ week series on Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole — The Presence Pledge. In this first episode, we're laying the foundation for a relationship reset that prioritizes connection, restores rhythm, and realigns your heart with God and your spouse. In Episode 1: The Power of Pres...

Can intimacy grow again after betrayal, distance, or seasons of silence? In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole explore how intimacy in marriage—emotional, spiritual, and physical—is not just a moment, but something that must be cultivated like a garden. Drawing from the rich imagery of the Song of Solomon and personal stories, they invite couples to rethink inti...

In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, we discuss one of the most difficult topics couples face—betrayal—and how to rebuild trust after it's been broken. Whether you're dealing with infidelity, financial mistrust, addiction, or emotional affairs, this episode offers hope and practical tools to help you navigate the road to restoration. We unpack the crucial difference between di...

Sometimes apologies feel empty—either because they’re not genuine or because the pain runs too deep to move on. But in marriage, forgiveness isn’t optional. So how do you heal, rebuild trust, and truly reconcile after hurt? In this episode of Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole, we’re diving deep into: Why "I'm sorry" doesn’t always fix things & what a real apolog...

Part 1 from the new series "When Love Gets Tough." Do you and your spouse struggle with conflict? Do your arguments leave you feeling more distant instead of closer? In today’s episode, we’re diving into one of the most important marriage skills—fighting fair. Conflict is inevitable, but how you handle it determines whether it strengthens or weakens your relationship. We’ll cover:- The 4...

In this episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole explore how to enlarge your capacity for the next stage in life and marriage. They discuss the importance of exposure to new experiences and the power of building effective networks and relationships. Highlighting the significance of taking personal responsibility and aligning with God's purpose, they emphasize strategies for couples...

🚨 Are you operating with old strategies in a new season? 🚨 If you don’t learn the protocols of your next level before you get there, the very thing meant to bless you could become the thing that crushes you. Many marriages struggle not because of a lack of love, but because of a failure to adapt to the new challenges, responsibilities, and blessings that come with growth. In this episode of Need...

In this episode of Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss the importance of personal commitment within a marriage and how to navigate differing levels of discipline and commitment between spouses. They share personal stories, strategies for supporting your spouse, and emphasize accepting rather than trying to control your spouse. The episode also touches on how to set realistic...

Built To Last Part 1 | Needed Conversations In this first episode of season 7 of Needed Conversations, hosts Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss the importance of personal commitment and alignment with God's purpose as a foundation for a healthy marriage. They emphasize the necessity of creating intentional moments of silence, practicing self-discipline, and leading by example in your spiritual and em...

In this episode of 'Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole,' part of the 'Summer Shorts' series, we discuss the essential need for boundaries in marriage to foster healthy communication. We break down different types of boundaries such as personal space, communication, emotional, financial, and sexual boundaries, emphasizing their importance and offering practical advi...

In this episode of 'Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole,' part of our 'Summer Shorts' series, we dive deep into the nuances of nonverbal communication in marriages. We explore why spouses might say they're fine when they're not and discuss the impact of passive-aggressive behavior. We offer insights on understanding body language, facial expressions, and ton...

In this episode of the 'Needed Conversations' podcast, we talk about conflict resolution and communication for married couples. We review the foundational aspects of healthy communication—active listening, empathy, clarity, and prayer. Then the episode focuses on dealing with conflict by confronting the barriers of shame and condemnation through grace, mercy, and vulnerability. Register no...

In this episode of 'Needed Conversations' we kickstart our summer series, 'Summer Shorts.' In this episode 'Essential Communication Tips for Couples,' we're giving you practical advice to help improve communication between you and your spouse. We share insights about active listening, empathy, and clarity, emphasizing the importance of prayer in strengthening these skil...

In today's episode, we discuss the impacts of our mental health and behaviors on our children. We explore how our actions, more than our words, shape their future. We share personal stories about how our recent move has affected our kids, revealing the anxieties they face and how we're helping them adjust. We also discuss the challenges of parenting in a society that often pushes for mater...

Today's episode of Needed Conversations takes a heartfelt look at the subtle ways fear infiltrates our lives and relationships, particularly in marriage. We delve into how fears, often stemming from childhood experiences, shape our interactions and responses in adult life. Fear isn't always dramatic; it doesn't have to be the boogeyman or a sinister figure with red horns. More often, i...

Join us in this enlightening episode of "Needed Conversations" as we sit down with Trevor, the founder of the Art of Healing. Dive into a deep and transformative discussion on marriage, communication, and mental health. Whether you're navigating the complexities of marriage or seeking personal growth, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. What You'll Discove...

In the second episode of our series, "Marriage & Mental Health" we talk about depression and its root causes including the impact of social media and the role forgiveness plays in our mental health. We also talk about the journey of David in the Bible and his challenges with mental health. Finally, we discuss the one thing that a spouse can do to help their spouse during times of dep...

In this vulnerable episode, we tackle the complex world of mental health and how mental health can affect your marriage. Focusing on the impact of depression and anxiety we share personal stories and powerful insights to shed light on where depression comes from and how you can overcome. A key theme of our discussion is the influence of social media and modern lifestyle choices on our mental well-...

In this powerful finale of our "Power Couple" series, we are talking about how to manage crises as a married couple. From unexpected sickness to the stresses of moving and renovating a home, we share our personal journey of the last few weeks. What You'll Discover in This Episode:The hidden struggles behind the successes of a power couple. Practical steps for staying united and stron...

Our interview for the series Power Couple is Aaron & Jennifer Smith! They are not just the authors of the bestselling book "Marriage after God," but they're also the creators behind the powerful online ministry that shares the same name. Through their work, Aaron and Jennifer have inspired couples around the world to find a deeper purpose in their marriages, emphasizing the criti...