Mr and Mrs G - The Safeword Society

What happens when your scene ends? Have you joined our Patreon yet? 👀 https://www.patreon.com/MrAndMrsG 🛍️ Check out The Safeword Society merch: https://thesafewordsociety.myshopify.com/ In this episode of The Safeword Society, we dive into the importance of aftercare when it comes to kink, BDSM and everything that happens after a scene. We talk about what aftercare actually looks like, the diffe...

What happens when you try to turn your fantasies into reality? Have you joined our Patreon yet? 👀 https://www.patreon.com/MrAndMrsG 🛍️ Check out The Safeword Society merch: https://thesafewordsociety.myshopify.com/ In this episode of The Safeword Society, we dive into the difference between fantasy and reality when it comes to kink, BDSM and the things we imagine behind closed doors. We talk abou...

What does neurodiversity actually look like within the scene? Have you joined our Patreon yet? 👀 https://www.patreon.com/MrAndMrsG ALSO, Check our Merch shop: 🛍️  https://thesafewordsociety.myshopify.com/ In this episode of The Safeword Society, we dive into neurodiversity within the kink and alternative scene. We talk about the neurodiverse people we've met, our experiences with them, how a...

What does a 24/7 D/s dynamic actually look like? Have you joined our Patreon yet? 👀  https://www.patreon.com/MrAndMrsG In this episode of The Safeword Society, we dive into the reality of living a Dominant/submissive dynamic beyond the bedroom. Rules. Protocol. Expectations. Consequences. Communication. And what happens when the dynamic becomes part of everyday life. We talk about how 24/7 D/s ca...

Think being submissive means being weak? Or that BDSM is always about pain? Think again. Have you joined our Patreon yet?  👉 https://www.patreon.com/MrAndMrsG In this episode, we’re busting the biggest myths and misconceptions about the lifestyle. From the true strength it takes to surrender control, to the huge spectrum of kink that has nothing to do with pain, we’re setting the record straight...

Degradation and humiliation are a staple in BDSM, but how do you say horrible things, and do horrible things to the person you love? And more importantly, how do you make sure you don't mean them. Have you joined our Patreon yet?  👉 www.patreon.com/MrAndMrsG This week we're talking about the WHY behind psychological and degradation play, and the things we put in place to make sure the h...

What do you do when you and your partner aren't on the same page sexually? In this episode of The Safeword Society, we break down kink compatibility, exploring whether you should talk it through, compromise, give up your desires, or walk away. Have you joined our Patreon yet?  👉 www.patreon.com/MrAndMrsG KINK COMPATIBILITY: WHAT IF YOU WANT DIFFERENT THINGS? 🖤 Finding out you and your partn...

Patreons got an extra 15 minutes this week!! Get involved here: https://patreon.com/MrandMrsG This week is all about birthdays and BDSM. We all love to celebrate birthdays, but how do you celebrate a birthday while throwing a scene into the mix? We take you back and tell you all about MrsG's birthday scenes we've cooked up over the past few years, and most importantly, how we got to the...

Is jealousy an inevitable part of being in the scene, or can it actually make your dynamic stronger? In Episode 12 of The Safeword Society we dive deep into the real, raw emotions of dealing with jealousy in BDSM and lifestyle dynamics. From envy during scenes to navigating insecurities in open relationships, we share our personal experiences, honest advice, and practical ways to communicate throu...

Welcome back to The Safeword Society! This week we're diving into a topic that's caused plenty of debate in the BDSM community: toy vendors, Temu, and massive mark ups. We're discussing why some BDSM toys sold by independent retailers appear identical to products available on marketplaces like Temu and AliExpress, whether the prices are justified, and where the line sits between run...

Can one simple kink lead to something much more extreme? In Episode 10 of The Safeword Society, we're talking about what we call the kink spiral. How do people go from trying something relatively simple to exploring edge play? Using our own journey as an example, we discuss how we started with basic breath play before, over time, exploring water play. Not because we were chasing bigger thrill...

Did you know they give out awards for BDSM?  In this episode we're recapping our night at the Alternative Awards where we won BEST HOST and BEST DOM.  This episode is another chance for us to shout out our little community of amazing people that we're lucky to be a part of. From the people who took a chance on us and came to our events, to everyone who's supported us throughout this...

Welcome to Episode 8 of The Safeword Society! 🖤 This week we're talking about when BDSM goes wrong. What happens if you're not comfortable at an event, if you're touched without consent, or if you're just not in the mood? We roleplay scenarios that may occur at events to give you an idea of the best ways to handle these situations. This is the episode where we put the world to...

Welcome to Episode 7 of The Safeword Society! 🖤 Join us as we have an honest conversation around getting started in BDSM. If you think you're bad at something, yes you probably are, we all were at one point. PRACTICE 👏 MAKES 👏 PERFECT 👏  We share our experience of getting started in BDSM, the mistakes we made, and how much practice and trial and error it takes before scenes and fetish per...

Welcome to Episode 6 of The Safeword Society! 🖤 This week we're talking all about labels in BDSM. Are you a Dom? A Sub? A Switch? A Top? A Bottom? Or do none of those labels quite fit? We explore how your identity can evolve over time, why the role that fits today might not fit tomorrow, and why you don't need to force yourself into a box just to feel like you belong. We also share our...

Welcome to Episode 5 of The Safeword Society. This week we're pulling back the curtain on what our brand new event had in store and giving you a real look into what a BDSM event is really like. If you've ever wondered what a kink event is like, then this is the episode for you. We talk all about what went on, our feelings before releasing the tickets, and our thoughts after the event. We...

Welcome to Episode 3 of The Safeword Society. Thinking about going to your first BDSM event or swingers party? In this episode, we break down exactly what to expect at your first lifestyle event, from nerves and first impressions to consent, etiquette, and boundaries. We cover: - Our own first event experiences - What happens when you arrive - BDSM and swingers etiquette  - Do’s and don’ts for beg...

What starts as a conversation about dream BDSM scenes somehow ends up involving polar bears, penguins, and consensual non-consent. Welcome to episode 2 of The Safeword Society! 🖤 In this episode we discuss our dream BDSM scenes with the usual detours we are starting to be known for. From light hearted tangents to deeper conversations about kink, trust, communication, and fantasy, this episode giv...

Welcome to Episode 4 of The Safeword Society. This week we're exposing ourselves and talking about our kinks and fetishes. We want to display how everyone in this lifestyle is different and how your kink isn't my kink and that's okay!  We cover: - Our own fetishes and kinks - Stories from scenes gone wrong  - Boundaries and consent  - Free use - Fantasies and trying to make them com...