Modern Day Bae

Is love supposed to be unconditional, or does reciprocity matter? 👀On this episode of Modern Day Bae, we’re talking about reciprocity and resentment—the complicated space between showing up for the people we love and wondering if they would do the same for us. Because sometimes, resentment isn’t about what someone didn’t do. It’s about how often you’ve had to show up, how rarely you’ve felt consi...

We’ve all seen the potential. The vision. The person they  could  be, the relationship you  could  have, and the future you can practically see if they would just get it together. But here’s the thing about potential:  it comes with no promises. This week on  Modern Day Bae , we’re talking about the danger of falling in love with who someone could be instead of accepting who they are right now. Ho...

Why do we treat “no” like the beginning of a negotiation? In relationships, friendships, dating, and even family dynamics, we’re often taught to explain ourselves, soften the blow, and make our boundaries easier for other people to accept. But sometimes,  no is a complete sentence—and it doesn’t require a presentation, an apology, or a second chance to convince you. This week on  Modern Day Bae ,...

The 50/50 conversation in dating has become one of the biggest debates in modern relationships—but what are we  really talking about when we say we want things to be equal? In this episode of  Modern Day Bae , we’re unpacking the controversial idea of going 50/50 in relationships. Does splitting everything down the middle actually create a healthy partnership, or can “equal” sometimes look very di...

What does it really mean to be empowered in your relationships? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we’re talking about the difference between wanting to be chosen and knowing that you have the power to choose, too. Self-empowerment isn’t about being independent to the point that you don’t need anyone—it’s about knowing your worth, trusting your voice, honoring your boundaries, and refusing to aban...

On this episode of Modern Day Bae, we’re going beyond sex and exploring what intimacy really means, why it’s essential to a healthy connection, and why it doesn’t always happen naturally. From emotional vulnerability and physical affection to communication, quality time, trust, and feeling truly seen—we’re talking about the many ways intimacy shows up in relationships. And because men and women do...

Are you emotionally secure...or just hoping nothing goes wrong? In this episode of  Modern Day Bae , we're unpacking one of the most overlooked qualities of a healthy relationship: emotional security. We discuss why security isn't about having all the answers or guarantees—it's about trusting yourself enough to handle whatever comes your way. Join us as we explore anxious attachment, o...

Do People Deserve Second Chances? Everyone makes mistakes. But does everyone deserve another chance? In this episode of  Modern Day Bae , we explore one of life's most complicated questions:  Do people deserve second chances—and if so, where do we draw the line? Forgiveness can be freeing, but repeated disappointment can be costly. We examine the tension between believing people can grow and p...

Has Healing Become Performative? Everyone's talking about healing. Everyone's setting boundaries. Everyone's "protecting their peace." But are we actually becoming healthier—or have we just gotten better at speaking the language of therapy? In this episode of  Modern Day Bae , we dive into one of the most thought-provoking conversations of our time:  Has healing become perfor...

Who should make the first move—and why are we still debating it? In this episode of  Modern Day Bae , we tackle one of dating's most polarizing questions:  Should women make the first move, or does that change the dynamic from the very beginning? Some believe confidence is attractive regardless of gender. Others argue that how a relationship starts can influence how it unfolds. We unpack the e...

Grace vs. Enabling: Where's the Line? When does understanding someone's pain become an excuse for accepting their behavior? In this episode of  Modern Day Bae , we're unpacking one of the most difficult relationship questions:  What's the difference between extending grace and enabling harmful patterns? Whether it's a romantic partner, a friend, a family member—or even ourselve...

Juneteenth Special: What Does Freedom Mean in 2026? What does freedom really look like when no one is physically holding you back—but fear, shame, people-pleasing, and self-doubt still are? In this Juneteenth special,  Modern Day Bae  explores the evolving meaning of freedom in 2026. We honor the legacy of those who fought for our liberation while asking the harder question:  What are we still car...

This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-hostKing MVP, as they discuss the ins and outs of sacrifice and who sacrifices most in relationships. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged...

This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Top Badge King of Diamonds, as they deep dive into the value of being transparent but not over-sharing when dating. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclus...

This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Top Badge Vetty, as they deep dive into the aftermath of cheating in a relationship. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host:...

This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Top Badge Carmel, as they deep dive into the difference between compromise and settling for less than you desire. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusiv...

This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Top Badge Fame, as they deep dive into how important physical attraction is in a relationship. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged a...

This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Virgo the Vixen, as they deep dive into what causes a loss of respect in relationships and if lost, how can be gained back. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST...

This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Kind Hearted Babe, as they discuss what it truly means to love unconditionally. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host: ELLE...

This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-host Top Badge Casper, as they explore which is better: love, or loyalty. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host: ELLE The Druggg...