Modern Anarchy

On today’s episode, we have Aspen (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about deconstructing the narrative of single, bringing the romantic into the platonic, and how great freedom comes with great responsibility. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation...

On today’s episode, we have Claire Dore (she/her) join us for a conversation all about challenging the status quo of eroticism. Together we talk about learning to receive sexual pleasure, transforming jealousy into erotic energy, and how your community shapes the expansiveness of your fantasies. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a fri...

On today’s episode, we have Marcia Baczynski (she/her) join us for a conversation all about communicating your desires. Together we talk about chasing vs becoming available to pleasure, the vulnerability of claiming your desire, and liberatory vs oppressive hierarchy. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head ove...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Broderick Sawyer (he/him) join us for a conversation all about applied liberation psychology. Together we talk about integrating the woowoo into clinical psychology, tuning into plant logic, and the compassion avatar technique. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the...

On today’s episode, we have Monica Davis (she/her) join us for another relationship anarchy research episode. Together we talk about the life goal of fluidity, the power of sexual liberation, and the process of compassionate deconstruction. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link bel...

On today’s episode, we have sexological body worker Ellen Heed (she/her) join us for a conversation about the expansive mind body connection. Together we talk about the neuroplasticity of erotic pleasure, scar tissue remediation, and grounding in the presence of our breath. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, he...

On today’s episode, we have therapist Jordan Dobrowski (she/they) join us for a conversation about the power of psychedelics to deep intimacy with others, with ourselves, and with our collective healing. Together we talk about letting go of the higher dose, the commune retirement plan, and the importance of integration. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or shar...

On today’s episode, we have dominatrix Eva Oh (she/they) join us for a conversation about the never-ending adventure that is connection. Together we talk about doming yourself, the shifting winds of your erotic desires, and learning to lay back and just feel pleasure. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head...

On today’s episode, we have relationship anarchist Jase Brakoniecki (they/them) join us for a relationship anarchy research interview. Together we talk about moving beyond the one hug system, needing to find new pop artists, and the power of disruptive love. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then...

On today’s episode, I will be walking you through my book, The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide: Crafting Secure Non-Monogamous and Expansive Relationships. Together we talk about grounding in your body, exploring your set and setting, and connecting to your intention for expansive relating. Read the Psychedelic Jealousy Guide Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/psychedelicjealousyguide If you en...

On today’s episode, we have psychotherapist Jessica Fern (she/her) join us for a conversation about polyamory as a catalyst for liberation. Together we talk about learning to go low and slow with NRE, exploring the protectors of our hearts and the much needed updates to attachment theory. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To...

On today’s episode, we have author Staci Haines (she/her) join us for a conversation about collective liberation. Together we talk about feeling into the wisdom of our bodies, our inherent draw towards healing, and the connection between personal and systemic transformation. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn mor...

On today's episode, we have Jeff Parrett (he/him) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about owning our part in the speed bumps, moving into a world of co-creation, and reconfiguring our relationships to flow with change. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissert...

One today’s episode, we have psychologist Dr. Ido Cohen (he/him) join us for a conversation about integrating new archetypes of sexual empowerment. Together we talk about reconnecting with your wild eros, getting clear on your desires, and the vulnerability of play. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head o...

On today’s episode we have author Camille Sapara Barton (they/them) join us for a conversation about grief tending as a generative force for deepening our relationships. Together we talk about the power of tuning into your body, imagining a new future of collective healing, and learning to savor the small daily pleasures. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, o...

On today’s episode we have surrogate partner Katherine Yeagel (all pronouns) join us for a conversation about expanding our cultural imagination around sex work. Together we talk about exploring sex work for pleasure and the connection to solo-polyamory, submitting to the kinkiness of our interconnection, and how our relationships shape our reality. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please...

On today’s episode, we have Ren Cerebral (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about trying to explain relationship anarchy to your parents, the eroticism of intellectual alignment, and the power of a frame shift.       If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link be...

On today’s episode, we have Sex educator Tristan Taormino (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the queer sexual revolution. Together we talk about bottom at age 25 compared to age 52, transformative soul merging sex, and when a magnet hits you with timeless wisdom. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, h...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud (He/Him) join us for a conversation about letting go of erotic shame to embody your pleasure. Together we talk moving from infidelity to consensual non-monogamy, taking a multicultural view to our scripts around pleasure, and liberating your right to play. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcas...

On today’s episode, we have Psychiatrist Dr. Sam Zand (He/Him) join us for a conversation about finding your unique path to healing. Together we talk about building neuro plasticity through play, how community is medicine, and the impact of SSRIs and Psychedelics on sexuality. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn m...

On today’s episode, we have August Wolff (It/They) join us for a relationship anarchy research interview. Together we talk about finding the magic pill of security for my anxious heart, relationship anarchy’s connection to kinky play, and trying to fit relationship anarchy onto a bumper sticker. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, the...

On today’s episode, we have sex educator Jimanekia Eborn (She/Her) join us for a conversation about finding presence in the full range of life’s emotions. Together we talk about bringing pleasure to your biggest sex organ...your brain, the importance of laughter in sex, and finding healing in community. Psychedelic Jealousy Guide: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/groundinginjealousy If you enj...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Juliana Hauser (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the cultural shift towards sexual empowerment and pleasure. Together we talk about when your biggest fear is having to seduce someone, no longer whispering the word “clitoris”, and the freedom of embodying your pleasure. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this...

On today’s episode, we have anthropologist  Bia LaBate (She/Her) join us for a educational conversation about queering psychedelic healing and activism. Together we talk about ripping out the gendered ribbons, the intersection of our bodily autonomy, and how queers throw the best parties. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend...

On today’s episode, we have Kat Pfligler (They/Them) join us for another special episode of the relationship anarchist research series. Together we talk about and getting outside of the monogamy non-monogamy binary, finding your edge of deconstructing internalized systems of oppression, embracing the inevitability of change. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing y...