Modern Anarchy

On today’s episode, we have Justice Riveria join (she/they; ella/elle) us for a conversation about the collective liberation of our bodily autonomy. Together we talk about how compassion is better than punishment, deconstructing systems of oppression within our subconscious, and the need for both harm reduction and pleasure enhancement. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, lea...

On today’s episode, we have Juno Aventurine (they/them) join us for a relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about embracing the finitude of our humanness, learning to communicate our desires, and deconstructing the intimacy escalator. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then clic...

On today’s episode, we have Jaime Delgado (they/he) joins us for a conversation about the liberation of queer pleasure and community. Together we talk about exploring without a roadmap, reconnecting with the wisdom of our ancestors, and the sexiness of nuance. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to...

On today’s episode, we have Emily Royce (she/her) join us for a conversation about how all bodies can access ecstasy. Together we talk about embracing the big feels, the discomfort of growth, and the amazing gift that is curious lovers. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

On today’s episode, we are celebrating the four-year anniversary of the podcast with a special reflection episode. Together we talk about the intense learning curve of practicing non-monogamy, the eroticism of a shared vision, and liberating our pleasure. For today's reflection episode, Nicole is joined by her good friend and fellow therapist-in-training, Cait Gordon. If you enjoyed today'...

On today’s episode, we have Star Stewart (she/they) join us for a relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about learning to see the beauty in all of our relationships, finding creative  ways to reconfigure our connections, and deconstructing the intimacy escalator. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nic...

On today’s episode, we have Thickie Comrade (any/all) join us for a conversation all about reclaiming our pleasure. Together we talk about demonic nose piercings, rewriting the meaning of family, and planting trees for future generations. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

On today’s episode, we have Jessica McDuffee (she/her) join us for a conversation about how another world is possible. Together we talk about following your zest for life, creating mutually empowering relationships, and joining in our collective repair. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the we...

On today’s episode, we have Mike Margolies (he/him) join us for a conversation all about the crossover between psychedelics and sexual liberation. Together we talk about the need for kink integration circles, learning to embody peace, and embracing our interconnectedness. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more,...

On today’s episode, we have Jasper Brown (he/they) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about embracing our interconnectedness, moving at the speed of trust, and finding security in your community. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the lin...

On today’s episode, Nicole shares her Clinical Psychology Doctoral Dissertation results from the first ever research study of Relationship Anarchy.   If you are interested in reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   If you enjoyed today's podcast, then...

On today’s episode, we have Pamela von Sabljar (she/her)join us for a conversation about liberating our authentic sexual expression. Together we talk about following the zest of life, connecting with erotic rage, and the power of your narrative. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

On today’s episode, we have Ren DAuria (they/them) join us for a conversation about our ever-evolving connection to the erotic. Together we talk about making out in confessional booths, learning to receive, and creating expansive connections. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

On today’s episode, we have Mx. Flow (they/she) join us for a relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about balancing autonomy and community care, embracing the inevitability of change, expanding into deeper love. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below...

On today’s episode, we have Ifetayo Harvey (she/her) join us for a conversation all about the psychedelic transformation of trauma. Together we talk about examining systems of oppression, bravely imagining a new future, and the transformative power of vulnerability. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head o...

On today’s episode, we have Kelly Pastori (she/her) join us for a conversation all about embodying your right to pleasure. Together we talk about the transformative power of community, reconnecting with the wisdom of our bodies, and embracing the abundance of the erotic. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, h...

On today’s episode, we have David Cooley (he/him) join us for a conversation all about intentionally cultivating secure and dynamic attachments. Together we talk about moving through relational fluidity, waiting to attach until navigating conflict, and going down the rabbit hole of non-monogamy. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a...

On today’s episode, we have Miles Wilcox (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about shedding internalized scripts of normality, healing in community, and expanding our capacity for intimacy. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the li...

On today’s episode, we have Dr. Karolina Mikos (she/her) join us for a conversation about reconnecting with our healing wisdom. Together we talk about intentional drug use, getting curious about our triggers, and being present enough to experience pleasure.   If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the...

On today's episode, writer and activist Dean Spade (he/him) joins us for a conversation all about liberating our relationships from patriarchal and capitalist understandings of connection. Together we talk about building community outside of the nuclear model, choosing to be uncomfortable in order to live more, and feeling powerless to jealousy. If you are also interested in participating in the r...

On today’s episode, we have Lorie Solis (she/her) join us for a conversation about the revolutionary power of softening. Together we talk about healing intergenerational trauma, stepping into embodiment, and the transformation of belonging. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

On today’s episode, we have Absayonika Hone (they/them) join us for a relationship anarchy research interview Together we talk about the expansive wish to love and share, embracing our humanness, and how another world of relating is possible. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link b...

On today’s episode, we have Taune Lyons (she/her) join us for a conversation about expanding our capacity to feel love. Together we talk about how we grow in relationships, co-creating relationship agreements, and enjoying the inevitability of change. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website...

On today’s episode, we have Rahi Chun (he/him) join us for a conversation about the connection between erotic pleasure and our collective liberation. Together we talk about tuning into the language of the body, rewriting our sexual patterns, and finding the pleasure of presence. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn mor...

On today’s episode, we have Katie Sullivan (she/her) join us for an open-hearted conversation about transforming pain. Together we talk about the medicine of authentic connections, riding the waves of life, and finding your alignment. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...