Messy on Purpose

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into the tiny everyday annoyances that somehow send us over the edge. What starts as a conversation around everyday business annoyances quickly turns into a deeper discussion about communication, efficiency, and the messy reality of running and working in business. You know exactly what we mean: 📅 meetings that should’ve been emails 📞 ph...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down again with Michelle MacNeil to talk about something that can completely transform your life— systems . Not just in business… but in your everyday life. Michelle shares how she built her business around helping others become more efficient, less overwhelmed, and more in control by implementing systems that actually work. This isn’t about being...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into one of those weirdly universal things we all experience but rarely talk about: 👉 why does it feel so awkward to just… stand there? Whether it’s being in an elevator, standing in a group of people, waiting in line, or sitting in silence, there’s this almost automatic urge to grab your phone, look busy, or avoid eye contact just so it...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with Mitchell Levy — Global Credibility Expert, 2x TEDx speaker, bestselling author of over 60 books, executive coach, and one of the world’s top leadership voices. After interviewing more than 500 leaders worldwide and building 20 businesses in Silicon Valley , Mitchell shares one powerful truth: 👉 credibility is not built on perfection — i...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into something we all do—but rarely think about: 👉 Saying things we don’t fully mean… and understanding what’s actually being said underneath. From phrases like “that’s crazy” to “we should keep in touch,” they unpack the hidden meanings behind everyday conversations and why we sometimes choose comfort over honesty. But as always, the con...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with entrepreneur and co-founder of DANK, Enel Soeson , to break down a powerful shift most solopreneurs never hear: 👉 You don’t need more clients… you need better ones. Enel shares what he’s seen after working with hundreds of creators, coaches, and service providers across Europe and the U.S.—people who are talented, driven, and capable… b...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee sit down again with Lisa Latimer for a deeper, more personal conversation around body image, healing, and protecting your peace . Lisa and Fylisha open up about their experiences with body dysmorphia, eating disorders, and the complicated relationship many people have with their bodies . They talk about how fitness became more than physical—it...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with therapist, author, and resilience advocate Stacy Schaffer for a heartfelt conversation about healing, growth, and the real-life lessons that come from both personal experience and two decades of supporting children and families. Stacy shares the inspiration behind her book With Love from a Children’s Therapist: #lessonsihavelearnedalongt...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee bounce through a wide range of conversations that are equal parts thoughtful, funny, and honest. They talk about the different ways men and women experience safety , like how something as simple as walking through a parking lot can feel completely different depending on who you are. They explore why women often have to stay hyper-aware while ma...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with hobby-farming business coach Michelle MacNeil , who traded city comfort for rural chaos — and learned everything the hard way. With zero farm experience, a busy toddler, and two businesses to run, Michelle and her family dove head-first into homestead life in Canada, powered by grit, determination, and a lot of YouTube tutorials. Michell...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about something we don’t do enough of— laugh . After a night out in Las Vegas that didn’t involve drinking, clubs, or the typical nightlife scene, a group of friends found themselves front row at a live comedy show at Wiseguys Comedy Club —arguably one of the best comedy spots in Vegas. What followed was a night full of genuine laughter an...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into a conversation that gets real, passionate, and a little heated — because when art changes, emotions show up. They unpack why characters from old movies, TV series, comics, and books can feel deeply personal… and why dramatic reboots or reinterpretations sometimes trigger strong reactions. Is it nostalgia? Identity? Creative vision? Or...

In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with Leticia Francis , whose story is one of survival, awakening, and reclaiming personal power. At just 14 years old, Leticia entered a relationship with a man twice her age — a path that led to years of painful cycles, trauma, and ultimately a life-threatening moment that changed everything. But her story doesn’t end in survival —...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee sit down with Lisa Latimer —trainer, bodybuilder, mom, wife, and business owner—to talk about the life-changing moments that shaped who she is today. Lisa shares how fitness became her anchor, what led her to helping others transform their health, and how she now empowers people not only through coaching, but by helping them get certified as pe...

Burnout doesn’t always look like falling apart. Sometimes it looks like still functioning… just without feeling alive. In this episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Ashleigh Grave —holistic nutritionist, author of Navigating Dementia Together , and burnout recovery guide for high-achieving women—to talk about what burnout really looks like when you’ve been pushing for far too long. Ashleig...

What if the things that irritate you most about other people are actually invitations to grow? In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into the real, unfiltered work of self-growth—gratitude, mindset shifts, self-awareness, and the uncomfortable moments that force us to look inward instead of outward. This conversation isn’t about pretending to be positive or spiritually bypassi...

What happens when a chef decides it’s time to tell his story? In this episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Roy Black —chef, podcast host of Sippin’ and Trippin’ , and now first-time author —to talk about what it really looks like to turn your life into a book before you feel fully “ready.” Roy opens up about: What inspired him to finally write his first book The emotional experiences from...

What does it really take to make a fight scene look believable on screen? In this episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Anthony Giovanni Elias —martial arts expert, actor, and stunt professional—to break down the fascinating intersection of martial arts and film . From teaching actors how to move for the camera to understanding why the most realistic move isn’t always the right move on scr...

What if your turning point doesn’t look inspiring… but it saves your life? In this deeply honest episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Andreea Tanase , founder of Heal Thrive Prosper , to talk about what healing really looks like when you’ve lived in survival mode for most of your life. Andreea shares her story of surviving childhood emotional abuse, sexual assault, and intimate partner vi...

What happens when you stop betraying your intuition — and finally act on what you know ? In this unapologetically bold episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Leela Black , a powerhouse entrepreneur and advocate for women backing their inner knowing — even when it costs them comfort, approval, or relationships. Leela shares the real, messy truth of her journey: Walking away from her mum, her...

Parenting doesn’t come with a guidebook — until it does. In this powerful episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with Siah Fried , parent coach, health educator, and family wellness advocate, for an honest conversation about breaking generational patterns while raising children in real time . Siah grew up in a family where eating disorders, dieting, overachieving, and self-criticism were normali...

Is AI killing creativity — or exposing just how creative we’ve always been? In this episode of Messy on Purpose , I sit down with my friend Lee Cummings — film producer, director, videographer, and photographer — for an honest, grounded conversation about creativity in the age of AI . There’s a lot of fear out there. A lot of resistance. And a lot of misunderstanding. We break it all down. Lee and...

What happens when the person who was supposed to protect you becomes the source of your deepest wounds? In this week’s episode of Messy on Purpose , I’m joined by Mary Fields , a woman whose story is equal parts heartbreaking and incredibly inspiring. Mary grew up in extreme abuse, bounced between children’s shelters, and at just 12 years old , her mother left her alone in a house to raise herself...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Tim shares how that breaking point led him to invest everything—literally—to understand his mind, his emotions, and ultimately, himself. From flying to America on a $10,000 loan to learn from Tony Robbins, to spending over $65,000 on mastery with leaders like Eckhart Tolle, Richard Bandler, and Blair Singer… Tim rebuilt who he was from the inside out. Now he t...

In this episode, I sit down with Director & Producer Lee Cummings — also known as Zell Astin — for a raw, unfiltered conversation about what it really takes to “make it” in your craft. Everyone sees the final product… But no one sees the years of unpaid work , late nights after your 9–5, the small paychecks, the self-doubt, the missed opportunities, the “is this even worth it?” moments. Lee op...