Messy on Purpose

This week on The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are diving into a wild story about a man who allegedly posed as a 49ers football player and used that fake identity to scam multiple women. Fake name. Fake status. Fake football career. Real victims. We’re talking about how scammers use social media, attention, trust, and a little bit of fantasy to manipulate people into believing something that is not...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about reliability and how rare it feels to find people who actually do what they say they’re going to do. Whether it’s friendships, relationships, family, work, or business, reliability matters. Showing up, following through, communicating clearly, and being someone people can count on should be basic—but somehow, it now stands out when yo...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are talking about how every single thing you buy now apparently needs an app. You buy a light. Download the app. You buy a camera. Download the app. You buy a scale, a watch, a speaker, a toothbrush, a thermostat, a printer, a vacuum, or literally anything with a button. Download the app. At what point did buying something turn into managing a wh...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about how toxic it can be to live only for the weekend. So many people spend Monday through Friday counting down, waiting for life to feel good again once Friday hits. But the truth is, we are not promised Saturday. Wednesday matters. Tuesday matters. Every normal, ordinary day matters. Fylisha and Lee discuss why only looking forward to a...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are talking about couples who share one social media account… because seriously, what is that? A joint Facebook page. A shared Instagram. One profile. Two names. Zero personal space. Is it love? Is it convenience? Or is it really just a full-blown lack of trust with a profile picture? We’re getting into why couples accounts feel less like relatio...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into victim mentality after a conversation sparked by Fylisha and her husband watching My 600-lb Life . They talk about the hard truth that while we cannot control every single thing that happens to us, we are responsible for how we respond, what we allow, what we change, and how we choose to move forward. Fylisha and Lee discuss how easy...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are talking about one of the most irritating parking lot mysteries of all time. You park far away on purpose. No cars around you. Plenty of open spaces. A peaceful little corner of the parking lot. Then you come back… and somehow, someone parked directly next to you. Why? There are forty open spaces. There is an entire parking lot. Your car was c...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee catch up on some big life updates, new ventures, and the doors opening in their lives right now. Lee talks about his film ventures, the projects he has in the works, and his decision to keep pushing forward toward what he knows is his true calling: being a film creator. From creative ideas to real opportunities, Lee shares what it looks like to...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are talking about one of the most backhanded phrases people love to throw around: “must be nice.” Because let’s be honest… in almost no context does “must be nice” actually come off well. Someone builds a business?“Must be nice.” Someone improves their life?“Must be nice.” Someone has a healthy relationship, a good career, a supportive family, di...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about one of the most common lies we tell ourselves and everyone around us: “I’m fine.” Sometimes we say it because we don’t want to inconvenience someone. Sometimes we say it because we don’t want to upset anyone, start a hard conversation, admit what we’re really feeling, or face the thing we already know we need to do. But “I’m fine” ca...

This week on The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are talking about the need to film everything. Every meal. Every workout. Every concert. Every vacation. Every “candid” moment that somehow took seven tries. At some point, you have to ask… are we enjoying life, or are we just collecting footage to prove we did? But we’re also asking the other side: why does it bother people so much? If someone is shari...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee talk about how easily people can turn one part of their life into their entire personality—whether it’s a political party, sports team, religion, job, lifestyle, or group they belong to. They discuss why people do this, how identity can get wrapped up in labels, and why it becomes dangerous when something outside of you starts making your decisi...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are talking about tipping culture and how it has officially gotten out of hand. At some point, tipping went from showing appreciation for good service to being asked for 20%, 25%, or 30% before anything even happens. You grab a coffee. Tip screen. You pick up your own food. Tip screen. You buy something at a counter. Tip screen. You do half the w...

In the 100th episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about life changes, busy seasons, and the relationships we sometimes let slip because we assume there will always be more time. Life moves fast. People get busy. Priorities shift. And sometimes we think about reaching out to someone, but we don’t—then we wonder why they didn’t reach out either. Fylisha and Lee discuss why depending on...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are talking about one of the most unnecessary daily struggles: people choosing the wrong form of communication. Some phone calls absolutely should have been a text. A quick question, a simple update, a yes-or-no answer — we do not need to turn that into a whole meeting. But some texts should have been a phone call. If it takes 12 messages, three...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about fighting your inner bitch voice—the weak voice that wants to make excuses, play the victim, and convince you that every hard season means you’re failing. They dive into how bad seasons are often lessons, not signs that you’re on the wrong path. Sometimes life gets uncomfortable because something needs to change. Your mindset, your ha...

This week on The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are calling out one of the most annoying gym behaviors: obnoxious grunting over absolutely nothing. You know the person. Every rep has a soundtrack. Every set needs an audience. Every lift sounds like a life-or-death situation. And then you look over… and it’s baby weights. We’re not talking about real effort. We’re not talking about heavy lifts. We’re...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about knowing when it’s time to call it quits—not just in relationships, but with hobbies, jobs, habits, routines, and anything else that may no longer fit the life you’re trying to build. They discuss how letting go doesn’t always mean something was bad. Sometimes it simply means it no longer aligns with where you’re going. Lee shares how...

This week on The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are talking about FOMO marketing, limited availability, and the cinnamon rolls Lee has been trying to get his hands on. Because nothing makes people want something more than being told they might not be able to have it. Limited spots. Sold-out drops. Waitlists. Preorders. “Only available this week.” “First come, first served.” Suddenly everyone is pani...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into relationships and what really makes some worth fighting for while others are easier to walk away from. They talk about the foundation of strong relationships: communication, trust, empathy, and understanding. Whether it’s romantic relationships, friendships, family, or any meaningful connection, keeping a relationship good takes more...

This week on The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are talking about people who give strangers dirty looks for absolutely no reason. You know the look. The judgment. The stare-down. The random attitude from someone you have never met in your life. And most of the time, it has nothing to do with you. It is insecurity, envy, projection, or someone being mad at their own life and aiming it at the nearest p...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about the importance of making time to take care of yourself before life makes the decision for you. They dive into why exercise, eating right, self-growth, and daily habits are not just things you do when life is easy—they are the foundation that helps you handle life when it gets hard. Fylisha and Lee discuss how the choices we make now...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are talking about scammers — because they are not just sketchy emails from a prince overseas anymore. Scammers come in every form now. Phone calls, texts, emails, fake websites, social media messages, job offers, bank alerts, delivery notices, romance scams, fake support reps, and even people pretending to be someone you know. And the scary part?...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about the importance of having hard conversations and why avoiding them can slowly damage the relationships that matter most. Hard conversations are not just necessary in romantic relationships. They matter in friendships, family dynamics, work environments, business partnerships, and every space where trust, respect, and communication are...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF, Fylisha and Lee are talking about food delivery services and asking the real question: is it even worth it anymore? Cold food. Smashed bags. Missing items. Wild fees. Random delays. And let’s not forget the part nobody wants to think about — your food riding around in someone’s car that may or may not be clean. We’re getting into the convenience of delivery, the...