Messy on Purpose

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha shows up dressed as a banana — because honestly, why not? Life is heavy enough. The world is serious enough. And sometimes the best thing you can do is laugh at yourself, find the humor in the chaos, and stop taking every little thing so personally. This episode is a reminder that humor can lighten even the darkest tunnel. It does not fix everything, but...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with Lee for a deeper conversation about one of his biggest passions: film . Lee opens up about where his love for film started, what storytelling means to him, and how his journey in the film industry has shaped the way he sees creativity, people, and life. From the emotional connection movies can create to the work that happens behind the c...

This week on The Weekly WTF , we’re talking about something simple: being a decent person. Put your cart back. Put things back where they go. Clean up after yourself. Don’t leave your mess for someone else to deal with just because you don’t feel like taking an extra 15 seconds to do the right thing. Because honestly, the shopping cart says a lot. It’s not about the cart. It’s about basic respect,...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into the idea of what happens when “the party” ends… or whether it actually ends at all. What does it mean when people say the party is over? Does that mean growing up? Slowing down? Changing priorities? Or does the party simply turn into something different? Fylisha and Lee explore how the meaning of “party” can look different for everyon...

Las Vegas traffic is already wild… but distracted driving is taking it to another level. This week on The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee are calling out the crazy accidents, reckless drivers, and people who cannot seem to put their phones down behind the wheel. And let’s be real — being on your phone is not just texting anymore. It’s TikTok, Instagram, games, videos, messages, scrolling, posting, an...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee talk about the mindset shift that can completely change how you experience life: Going from “Why me?” to “What can I learn from this?” They dive into why even the darkest, hardest seasons can carry lessons—if we’re willing to stop, look inward, and be honest about what life might be trying to show us. Sometimes the same situations keep repeatin...

On this episode of The Weekly WTF , Fylisha and Lee dive into the messy side of social media — unnecessary comments, oversharing, and the way people invite public opinions into private situations. From people saying things that should have stayed in their head to posts that probably belonged in a journal, this conversation is a reminder that what you put out there matters. If you want better energ...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee sit down with David Monhtalvo , author of Shabbat in Chicago , a heartfelt book written to honor his incredible mother and preserve her story for generations to come. David shares the inspiration behind the book, the life and strength of his single mom, and the powerful impact she had on her family, her community, and everyone who knew her. Thi...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into the wild, dark, and unsettling side of Hollywood after Fylisha watched Hollywood Demons . They talk about the craziness behind fame, the strange stories that come out of the entertainment industry, and how the spotlight isn’t always as glamorous as it looks. What starts as a conversation about Hollywood quickly turns into a deeper dis...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee discuss the recent talk around a new cruise ship virus and the bigger question it brings up: Are we headed toward another “here we go again” moment, or have people learned to pause, think, and question what they’re being told? This conversation looks back at the COVID years, the fear, the confusion, and the moments that still feel hard to belie...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into emotional responsibility and the hard truth that people can’t always know what we’re feeling unless we communicate it. They talk about how two people can experience the same situation completely differently—and how what feels hurtful, frustrating, or obvious to one person may not register the same way for someone else. This conversati...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee are back after a couple weeks away from recording for a casual catch-up conversation. They talk about recent travels, getting back into routine, food hacks, Costco finds, and simple ways to fuel your body without making health feel complicated. From fitness to travel meals to random side conversations, this episode feels like sitting down with...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into a truth that hits hard: 👉 just because you’re busy doesn’t mean you’re productive. A full calendar, nonstop tasks, and constantly being “on” can feel like progress… but is it actually moving you forward? They break down the difference between being busy and being intentional , and why so many people mistake constant motion for real p...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee get real about a hard truth that many people avoid: 👉 no one owes you anything. It doesn’t matter what you’ve been through. It doesn’t matter how hard you’ve worked. It doesn’t matter how unfair life has felt. The world is not going to hand you what you want just because you want it. This conversation dives into: The difference between expecta...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into the idea of closure — what it really means, what it doesn’t, and why it looks different for every person and every situation. Sometimes people think closure has to be a long conversation, an apology, or a perfectly tied-up ending. But does it? This conversation explores: Why closure means something different to everyone How relationsh...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee break down one of the biggest problems in fitness: 👉 people overcomplicate it. From endless workout splits to “secret” formulas, trendy diets, and complicated routines, the fitness world often makes simple things feel impossible. But the truth? Fitness does not need to be complicated. They dive into: Why some people intentionally make fitness...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into the tiny everyday annoyances that somehow send us over the edge. What starts as a conversation around everyday business annoyances quickly turns into a deeper discussion about communication, efficiency, and the messy reality of running and working in business. You know exactly what we mean: 📅 meetings that should’ve been emails 📞 ph...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down again with Michelle MacNeil to talk about something that can completely transform your life— systems . Not just in business… but in your everyday life. Michelle shares how she built her business around helping others become more efficient, less overwhelmed, and more in control by implementing systems that actually work. This isn’t about being...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into one of those weirdly universal things we all experience but rarely talk about: 👉 why does it feel so awkward to just… stand there? Whether it’s being in an elevator, standing in a group of people, waiting in line, or sitting in silence, there’s this almost automatic urge to grab your phone, look busy, or avoid eye contact just so it...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with Mitchell Levy — Global Credibility Expert, 2x TEDx speaker, bestselling author of over 60 books, executive coach, and one of the world’s top leadership voices. After interviewing more than 500 leaders worldwide and building 20 businesses in Silicon Valley , Mitchell shares one powerful truth: 👉 credibility is not built on perfection — i...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee dive into something we all do—but rarely think about: 👉 Saying things we don’t fully mean… and understanding what’s actually being said underneath. From phrases like “that’s crazy” to “we should keep in touch,” they unpack the hidden meanings behind everyday conversations and why we sometimes choose comfort over honesty. But as always, the con...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with entrepreneur and co-founder of DANK, Enel Soeson , to break down a powerful shift most solopreneurs never hear: 👉 You don’t need more clients… you need better ones. Enel shares what he’s seen after working with hundreds of creators, coaches, and service providers across Europe and the U.S.—people who are talented, driven, and capable… b...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee sit down again with Lisa Latimer for a deeper, more personal conversation around body image, healing, and protecting your peace . Lisa and Fylisha open up about their experiences with body dysmorphia, eating disorders, and the complicated relationship many people have with their bodies . They talk about how fitness became more than physical—it...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha sits down with therapist, author, and resilience advocate Stacy Schaffer for a heartfelt conversation about healing, growth, and the real-life lessons that come from both personal experience and two decades of supporting children and families. Stacy shares the inspiration behind her book With Love from a Children’s Therapist: #lessonsihavelearnedalongt...

In this episode of Messy on Purpose , Fylisha and Lee bounce through a wide range of conversations that are equal parts thoughtful, funny, and honest. They talk about the different ways men and women experience safety , like how something as simple as walking through a parking lot can feel completely different depending on who you are. They explore why women often have to stay hyper-aware while ma...