Mess to Badass

In this powerful episode of Mess to Badass , Pam dives deep into the infamous phrase that has haunted generations of women: “Calladita te ves más bonita” (You look prettier when you’re quiet). This seemingly innocent saying is rooted in machismo and has been used for centuries to silence women, forcing them to prioritize appearance over self-expression. Pam unpacks the history behind this mindset,...

It’s 2025, besties! New year, same chaos—but this time, we’re flipping the script. Forget the guilt-ridden, impossible resolutions that fizzle by February. Instead, we’re diving into something way more badass: being unapologetically you. In this episode, we’re calling out the toxic “New Year, New You” narrative and tossing it straight in the trash. 🗑️ Why? Because you don’t need to be “fixed”—you’...

🎙️ Mess to Badass is back with a brand-new season! 🎉 This time, we're diving headfirst into adulting—how hard it can be, how messy it gets, and how to turn that mess into your ultimate superpower. 💪✨ 💌 Wanna be part of the show? Hit me up at pam@embracethemess.co with your gossip, burning questions, or messy life dilemmas. I’ll bring in an expert (or a badass friend) to tackle it together. Mes...

Martha Ramos is an amazing woman who had a corporate job making six figures, and an amazing lifestyle until she realized how unhappy she was even though she had amazing opportunities through her corporate job. In this episode, she talks about some personal struggles she has gone through since she was a teenager, from emancipating from her parents to being broke to make her dream come true of havin...

This is A MUST LISTEN episode specially if you are having a shitty day, we will make you smile and bring some joy to your day. This might be one of my favorite episodes. I am interviewing one of my fave women, Jess Wilson is a remote photographer and founder of JWilsonPix. There are going to be tons of laughs and giggles. I promise you will enjoy it. Jess likes to call herself “An Organized Hot Me...

In this episode, we talk about the reasons why people that work from home and entrepreneurs are struggling with depression and loneliness. We also talk about the difference between remote work and working from home. Lastly, we talk about 5 tips that can help you overcome depression and loneliness. If you are looking for a community where we celebrate your wins, keep you accountable, and keep you c...

Meet Casey Jourdan, a podcaster, self-trust coach, veteran, and absolute badass! In this episode, Casey talks about her battle with anxiety, depression, and infertility. The realization is that not everybody fits the traditional method of coaching because they target a specialty, and many multi-passionates do not fit in that mold. How diversifying and having "more tools in your toolbox"...

We had some technical difficulties during this recording and per usual I am giving you all for you to meet Danielle, the founder of Her Messy Bun shares tons of lessons about her entrepreneurial journey, the shitty moments, and moments that she hasn’t shared with anybody before. Check her website , her program Burnout to Breakthrough, and her community Consciously Creative . Use code "PAM&quo...

I am on my own in this episode and extremely nervous so bear with me. In this episode, I talk about being a messy entrepreneur, the reason why we should stay messy, and how to learn from it.  This episode has some background noise because I moved my desk and didn't realize the microphone was going to pick up on everything in the back, so next time I'll have it all figured out and it will sound bet...

In this episode I have Souligna Stone, the owner of Stone Media Source, she is known as the strategic Brand AcceleratorTM an expert in corporate marketing, sales, employee relations, communications, social media, and leadership development. Souligna knows how to get your people and products/services noticed in your marketplace to produce massive results. Souligna is also a mom and an awesome frien...

This is my first interview episode. Luckily it was done with my messy bestie Shaina and her crazy baby giggling in the background.   However, I was still super nervous and learning how to interview people while still being me and letting my guest feel like they can be themselves with no judgment. Shaina is a mom, messy entrepreneur, manifesting generator, and my messy bestie. say “she works t...

The first episode that I have been dreaming of and working toward for the new year is finally out! If you're an entrepreneur who has been struggling to find their dream business and feel like you can't relate to all the entrepreneurs you see on social media, this podcast is definitely for you. It's time to get messy, to be imperfect, to just be human, and above all, to be yourself! In this episode...

Starting a business or having a job can be pretty shitty and we are not talking about it.  In this podcast, you will hear women talking about their messy entrepreneurial journey and how they became badasses.  Get ready for Spanglish, and curse words, and everything will be unedited.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/messtobadass/support