Men, Explain

After multiple seasons of unpacking gender debates and sharing unapologetically honest takes, Sonia and Avery sit down,  just the two of them  to reflect on the journey of Men, Explain. From first impressions to the evolution of their dynamic, they revisit the episodes that sparked the biggest reactions, the moments that changed their perspectives, and the unexpected ways the show shaped...

Mental health struggles don’t look the same for everyone. In this episode, we examine how men and women experience, express, and cope with mental health challenges differently. Through expert insight, lived experience, and recent statistics, we explore why some people seek help earlier than others, why certain signs go unnoticed, and what it really takes to support someone before they reach...

What happens when equality meets expectation and modern dating becomes a balancing act between independence and tradition? In this episode, we dive into the tension between wanting to be treated as equals and still appreciating gestures of chivalry. From who pays on the first date to how gender roles shape our daily interactions, we unpack whether women truly want equality, chivalry, or something...

Weddings are meant to be joyful, but behind the florals, speeches and “perfect moments,” things don’t always go as planned. In this episode, we sit down with Michael and Ming Hwee, two wedding photographers, to react to real wedding horror stories — from gate crashes gone wrong to emotional blow-ups and unpack what they reveal about the pressure, traditions and expectations...

What happens when Avery boldly claims he can “explain women”? In this episode, Sonia puts that statement to the test. From relationship dynamics to communication breakdowns, we explore why men think they understand women — and where it all goes hilariously (or painfully) wrong.. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does loneliness look like when we stop pretending it doesn’t exist? In this episode, the hosts dive into the so-called “male loneliness epidemic” — exploring how societal expectations, culture, and modern pressures shape the way men connect (or struggle to). From Western perspectives on friendship to Singapore’s own mix of stoicism, army bonds, and workplace stre...

What does it really mean to travel solo — and does gender change the journey? In this episode, we unpack how men and women experience solo travel differently, from safety and freedom to preferences like city hopping, nature escapes, and shopping sprees. Our guests, Jaedyn & Rifqi share personal stories, horror moments, and the lessons learned from navigating the world alone — provi...

 What does it look like when love doesn’t follow the script? In this episode, Marcus and Gladys join us to unpack what it means to break away from tradition and define a relationship on your own terms. From their decision to forgo a wedding ceremony to the unique ways they navigate their partnership, the two share candid insights into challenging cultural and societal expectations. See...

“Do what you love” sounds great — until life gets in the way. In this episode, we talk about what happens when passion meets practicality. For one, it’s about building a career from the ground up; for the other, it’s about creating stability for a family. We explore how men and women weigh risk, responsibility, and purpose differently and what “chasing your drea...

“Do what you love” sounds great — until life gets in the way. In this episode, we talk about what happens when passion meets practicality. For one, it’s about building a career from the ground up; for the other, it’s about creating stability for a family. We explore how men and women weigh risk, responsibility, and purpose differently and what “chasing your drea...

Men, Explain has always delved into men’s thoughts, feelings, and relationships. In this special episode, we go behind the scenes with an ex-producer to explore the evolution of the show and its most memorable moments. From early lessons to lasting insights, we reflect on what producing years of conversations about men has taught us, and test how well we really understand them. See omnystudi...

We all know kids should just be kids — but what about the ones who end up acting like parents? In this episode, Sew and Rainier sit down with us to unpack the struggles of being the “parentified child.” From growing up too early to the subtle differences between sons and daughters carrying that weight, we explore how those childhood roles shape identity, relationships, and adulth...

We all know the stereotypes—boys are louder, girls are more soft spoken, but how much of that comes from the classrooms we’re placed in? From learning styles and academic performance to social pressures and confidence, we explore whether separate classrooms set students up for success or just reinforce old divides. In this episode, we unpack the debate between co-ed and single-gender s...

We all know the basics—trust, communication, respect—but what about the unspoken rules that shape real relationships? In this episode, we dive into the grey areas couples actually fight about, from tracking your partner’s phone to mismatched financial goals. With guests Dyce and Ce, we explore emotional non-negotiables, love languages, and the quiet compromises that define modern...

In Part 2 of this special crossover episode, Germaine and Sonia turn the tables, putting Avery and Joakim in the hot seat to answer their most burning questions about men. When you have a best friend of the opposite gender, you get a rare, unfiltered look into how they really think — and this time, nothing’s off-limits! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special crossover episode, 987 Radio DJs Germaine Tan and Joakim Gomez join their radio partners Sonia and Avery on Men Explain for some brutally honest BFF banter. Having a best friend of the opposite gender means rare, unfiltered access into how men and women really think, and this time, nothing’s off-limits. From burning questions to hilarious debates, both duos puts their friends...

Married life is never easy. Through the challenges of living together, building a family, balancing careers and keeping the romance alive, it can often feel like the two of you against the world. But maybe that’s the beauty of it. In this episode, guests Adrian (Xiao Ming) and Xin Lei open up about what nine years of marriage have looked like for them and what they believe is the key to maki...

While cohabiting before marriage might be the norm in many parts of the world, it’s still far from common amongst Singaporeans. In this episode, we chat with guests Edwin Goh and Rachel Wan about what it’s really like to live together — from discovering each other’s quirks to navigating the fine line between closeness and codependency, this is an unfiltered look at love und...

Everyone has something to say about gender—but what happens when you're the ones making the content that sparks all the debate? In this episode, we sit down with Chow Jiahui and Nicholas (Hargaohunk) as they unpack the realities of navigating misandry, misogyny, and viral hate. From dating hot takes to dealing with stereotypes, they share what it’s like being at the center of the conve...

They say don’t mix business with pleasure—but what happens when your business partner is also your life partner? Are decisions truly 50/50, or is it a constant battle over who gets to wear the business pants in this partnership? In today’s episode, we’re joined by Jaime and Justin from The Paper Bunny, to break down the unique dynamics of couples working together. They&rsqu...

Have you ever found yourself saying, "Sorry, just a quick question..." or "This might be a dumb idea, but..." at work? If so, you're not alone. Many women unconsciously over-apologize, over-explain, and self-censor in professional settings—but why does this happen, and how can we break the habit? In this episode, we explore workplace communication habits with Nic and Siyu, uncovering why som...

Society has a lot to say about love and marriage—but do men and women feel the pressure to settle down in the same way? In this episode, TSL Amanda and Bolin join Sonia and Avery to dive into the unspoken expectations surrounding relationships. From the double standards of being single to whether marriage is still seen as the ultimate goal, they’ll break down how these pressures shape...

What does it mean to be the “right” kind of idol—and who gets to decide? In this episode, WhyLucas shares what it’s like joining an idol survival show - ChuangAsia and how talent isn’t the only thing that matters. We dig into how the idol industry defines worth, the unspoken rules around beauty and masculinity, and what it really takes to survive in a space that rarel...

Everyone talks about the hustle of starting a business—but what happens when you’re a Gen Z boss leading a team that’s just as young (or even younger) than you? In this episode, we sit down with Dewy Choo & Rayyan as they get real about the struggles of being a young entrepreneur. From where the money comes from to how to break into the industry —they share what it real...

Leadership isn’t one-size-fits-all, especially when you're balancing the demands of work and home life. In this exclusive episode, we sit down with Singaporean politicians Jamus Lim and He Ting Ru as they share their personal experiences navigating leadership in two very different worlds. How do their leadership styles shift between the boardroom and the dinner table? When do they take charg...