Luminous Life Force with River Roaring

This tool helps us release the noise in our head! The word “Mitote” means “noise in my head.” Most of us have way too much noise in our head for our own good. From the moment we wake up, through work interactions, family interactions, often the noise continues straight through our massages, our sound baths, our meditations …. and even when we’re in those intimate moments with our lovers. This tool...

In this episode, I share the biggest secret in all of humanity at this time! A lot of people talk about embodiment. Not that many people share exactly how to cultivate it. As they say .. thems that’re knowing ain’t sayin’ and thems that’re sayin’ ain’t knowin. 😉 I will share a sacred practice with you called Waking the Hands. Experiencing sensation through the skin of my hands. As a way to wake u...

My young-adult niece just went on her first plant medicine journey. A guided weekend retreat. She expanded so much and found a new part of herself. She experienced her magic in a whole new way. … I experience her magic in a whole new way too! 🥰 I’m overjoyed that plant medicine is becoming more popular. From doing mushrooms for the first times out in nature, under trees, in the living waters of t...

After 30 years of classroom teaching, Bluebird has developed a profound new way to show her students they are innately powerful creative beings. It all changed one day in her junior high reading lab class. A class for kids who are falling behind. They slumped and rolled their eyes with their usual “can’t do” attitude when she announced their next assignment. And then she did something revolutionar...

The new political change is fun, sexy and local!!! ✨💝✨ It all started with an annoyance at Flock surveillance near her home. She posted an open letter to the community in her town-news Facebook group. Then like a tornado the issue took off and just weeks later after lots of provocative conversations flying over the wires left and right … The Bastrop City Council not only cancelled the Flock con...

Ease of flow of resources, financial comfort, is such a beautiful space of freedom. Yet our culture encourages us to let it become the ultimate destination. This episode is about what’s possible when we follow our heart’s desire. Including simple steps you can take today if you feel called. ❤️ Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitato...

Does it ever seem like your loved one is - judging you - nit-picking or correcting you - worrying about you - shutting you out - pressuring you into future plans - trying to “save” or heal you, or - trying to solve your problems for you? Have you ever considered that this might be their way of showing you love? Let’s help one another out. Let’s see if we can perceive love underneath whatever else...

Our sexuality was not meant to be repressed and ignored. Nor was it meant to be empty or unsatisfying. Nor was it meant to put us into performative servitude. Or endless searching for “the one” … or endless drama spirals. These may all seem like external issues, but they are internal. They are inside you. Sharing sacred sexual union is simply the highest I’ve been in my lifetime. These encounters...

You know how some people - repress sex? - have lots of unfulfilling sex? - have good sex and then … drama blows it all up? Fortunately, there is a simple, but not easy, path out of these knots to freedom and flow. In fact, I’ve watched hundreds of people take the journey away from these persistent challenges successfully. I just initiated a new sexual exploration with someone, and I feel clear, op...

How did I become a … sexual healer? What does that even mean? In this episode, I share how it all started and how I developed my special sauce. I share about how we face the monsters to get to the magical land. If you are my client, we begin with your dream. And then it’s “wings in the air” and “feet on the ground” as you expand your ability to experience ever more intense pleasure experiences, br...

Why do you eat? Why do you eat what you eat? Why do you eat when you eat? … every time you choose to eat … why? The Standard American Diet (SAD) is indeed sad, as it’s full of toxins and poison and addictive chemicals. What we are told is “food” in our groceries and restaurants is not actually nourishing, and thus not really “food” for the human body. The exciting news is that every day millions o...

This is my highest form of bliss.  My peak erotic experience. In this episode I share my own path from disembodied trial attorney to a person who enjoys the highest form of sex and intimacy. What is divine union? Is it possible to actually worship in the bedroom (not just a role play)? What is that like? And more importantly … how do we do it? 😇 There’s a longer version of the journey, and there...

This is a very high level overview of … orgasm. Some of the questions we explore in this episode:  - What is orgasm? - Is orgasm the goal of sexual experience? - What if orgasm is my goal? - What if I love to “give them to” others? - What’s the difference between ejaculation and orgasm? - Are “the 11 types of female orgasm” real? - How long should it take me to orgasm? - What is the full body roll...

What Golden Age, you might ask! What New Earth? Why would you want your sexuality there? In this episode, we talk about the little matter of … humanity’s coming Golden Age! Millions of people around the globe are actively co-creating the New Earth, our very imminent Golden Age. But how many are bringing their powerful sexual energy with them on this epic journey? Let’s talk about our potential tog...

It’s more common than most people want to admit - a large percentage of Americans have experienced unwanted sexual contact as a child. If you or someone you know has had this experience, there is a path forward. A very tender, gentle, and beautiful process. As someone who has facilitated healing in this realm for 15 years, I have seen many people not only heal and recover from these traumas, but t...

“Darling, may I have you?” I asked the question. “May I have my way with you until this timer goes off?” He said yes. That’s when time stopped. The past dropped away. The future dropped away. And I entered the eternal now. That primal place where I can hear my soul. The sensory universe. Where all that exists is delicious sensory input. Skin warm against my hand. Hair tickling my wrist. Tingles ri...

That empty feeling after sex. That empty feeling after self pleasure. … That empty feeling that’s starting to apply to more and more of life. You’re not broken. … This culture is broken and you grew up in it. We are taught to follow other people’s desires, rather than to find our own. We are mostly taught that our own desires are bad and shameful. So we do things that we don’t really desire to do....

In this episode, learn about the far-away land where blonde people don’t get to raise their arms in the air. Nobody knows exactly how it started or why it is, but every time a blonde person raises one or both of their arms in the air, bad things happen.   First, everyone snickers, then busts out laughing, mocking, gossiping and ridiculing. It’s deeply shaming. So after hundreds of years and genera...

If you have a beating human heart, you have full capacity for glorious, nourishing, blissful sexual experiences. Each of us has a unique brand of sexual desire and expression. Each one of us different from the other. Like a totally unique puzzle piece, your sexual capacities and desires can fit together with your partner’s unique puzzle piece to make a divine piece of art! Unpartnered or partnered...

Our childhood emotional environment set us up for how we will relate emotionally with our partners. From the springboard of our youth, some of us will be on a life journey to seek sovereignty, among other quests. Others will be on a journey to curate connection at higher levels, among our other life purposes. Many people call these our emotional attachment styles. The two classic styles are played...

I’ve decided to do a podcast on the most boring topic in the whole world.  … Unless you find yourself in a family law case, such as a divorce, custody, or child support case. If you’re in family court or you know someone who is - this might be the most important issue there is. In this episode, I describe my past experience as a family law attorney who had my own law office by the courthouse in Au...

What if your body was made up of beautiful light waves that flowed all through and around you? And what if you could connect your magic light waves into the light waves of our mother earth and the rest of the cosmos? What if during heart-connected sexual union with your partner, the two of you could connect your super-duper bright light waves into the rest of the cosmos and gift other beings with...

Do you have a dog, or know a dog, who has room to improve? A canine who could be more relaxed, calm, happy, fulfilled, and obedient? … And what does this have to do with your life force and sexuality? Every single dog has the capacity to be calm, obedient, and loving toward you and others. And you have the capacity to have a relaxed, loving, relationship with your canine American. No matter how ou...

Desire has a bad name. As a result, we no longer live life in consent at all! Forget consent with sex - is your LIFE in consent? Are you letting life lead you around on a short leash? We did not come here to wake up to an alarm that we did not want to set. We did not come here to sit in traffic for hours that we don’t want to sit in. We did not come here to work in a toxic work environment for som...

Desire doesn’t disappear just because you’ve trained yourself to ignore it.  In fact, most people are tired not because of physical exhaustion, but because they’re constantly suppressing parts of self.  This applies to relationships as well. The number one reason that intimate relationships are failing is because we’re not taught to face our shadow so we suppress parts of ourself. So we can’t acce...