Love On Command

Welcome back to Love on Command! If you're a successful, accomplished woman who has mastered your career but still feels like dating elite, marriage-minded men is harder than building your business, this episode is for you. For years, I've been searching for an etiquette expert who truly understands the world high-achieving women navigate, and I finally found her. In this episode, I'm joined by El...

In today's Porch Conversation with CJ , we're diving into one of the biggest misconceptions about money, love, relationships, and personal growth. Does the Bible really say money is the root of all evil? Why do so many successful women wait until they're in pain before they seek guidance in love? Is marriage something we should prepare for before we ever say "I do"? And how can parents nurture the...

Have you ever experienced something that couldn't be explained... but you knew it changed your life forever? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I have one of our deepest conversations yet. We explore miracles, healing, faith, intuition, and what it really means to step into the power God has placed within each of us. I share some of the most personal moments of my journey—inclu...

What if the reason love, money, or abundance hasn't arrived yet is not because it is not coming… but because the water has not turned on yet? In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we talk about patience, manifestation, surrender, money, love, receiving, and becoming prepared for the life you are asking God to give you. CJ uses the metaphor of a water slide to explain why forcing the outcome...

What if the thing that broke your heart was actually the thing that set you free? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I explore one of the most powerful lessons in life: your perspective determines your reality. Most people spend their lives focused on what's missing, what's wrong, and what they've lost. But what if every setback contains a blessing? What if rejection is protect...

What if the very qualities that helped you build your success are also the things keeping you exhausted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from love? In this episode of Love on Command , I sit down with Dr. Michelle Brown , enterprise-wide business strategist, leadership consultant, author, and former SWAT operator, to have a powerful conversation about what happens when ambitious women become trapped...

I believe one of the greatest misunderstandings in personal growth is that people think they're searching for love when they're actually protecting themselves from it. In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we dive deep into what I've spent years teaching women around the world: the very thing you desire most may be the very thing you're unconsciously blocking. CJ shares profound wisdom on c...

What if the biggest thing blocking you from love, abundance, and happiness isn't what happened to you... but the identity you've built around it? In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we explore childhood programming, love blocks, manifestation, quantum entanglement, self-worth, trauma, and why some people remain trapped in cycles of pain while others completely transform their lives. CJ sh...

What if the relationships you attract are not random… but reflections of the frequency you're vibrating at? In this deeply powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we explore prayer, manifestation, love blocks, emotional pain, trauma, vibrational frequency, and the spiritual patterns that influence love, abundance, and healing. One of the most profound things CJ said: "Prayer doesn't work with what yo...

What if the reason you haven't manifested the love, money, or life you desire… isn't because it's unavailable to you? What if it's because you haven't yet become the version of yourself who can fully hold it? In this deeply powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, my son CJ and I talk about lucid dreaming, alternate realities, meditation, manifestation, feminine energy, love blocks, and why so many su...

In this Porch Conversation with CJ, I share one of the biggest discoveries that changed the way I understand love, heartbreak, healing, and the feminine nervous system. For years, women have been told they're "too much," "too emotional," "too guarded," or "too broken" to receive healthy love. But what if the issue isn't weakness… What if the pain of heartbreak, rejection, abandonment, and emotiona...

In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, I sit down with my son as he shares his wisdom on love, energy, timelines, manifestation, and Awakening the God Within. CJ explains how our thoughts, beliefs, emotions, and environment can shape the reality we experience — especially when it comes to love. We talk about love blocks, money blocks, mirror manifestation, the golden light bubble, and why hi...

In this Porch Conversation with CJ , we're having a real, honest conversation about something most people don't fully understand— love blocks. I asked CJ a question that so many women are silently struggling with: Why is it so hard to love yourself when you weren't loved growing up? And what he shared… changes everything. Together, we break down how your thoughts, behaviors, and beliefs create a s...

In this episode, CJ and I have a deep and thought-provoking conversation about reality, energy, and the power of your belief system. We explore how the way you think and what you believe shapes the life you experience, especially when it comes to love and relationships. I share how many successful women become so used to doing everything on their own that it starts to block the very connection the...

In this episode of Love on Command: Porch Conversations with CJ , we are having one of the most fascinating conversations yet. We talk about reincarnation, the purpose of life, soulmates, and why so many people feel stuck, unhappy, or blocked from the love and life they truly want. CJ shares such a unique perspective on what it means to be here in this human experience. We talk about life as if yo...

In this powerful episode of Love on Command , I sit down with CJ for a raw, eye-opening conversation about what really keeps people stuck in life, love, and the patterns they keep repeating. This is the kind of conversation that makes you stop, reflect, and look at yourself differently. Together, we explore the deeper truth behind identity, pain, visibility, self-worth, and what it actually takes...

This episode is for the woman who feels like she's been doing everything right… and still ends up in the wrong situations in love. Let me talk to you for real—because a lot of what you've been through, you didn't choose. You didn't choose the environment that made you question your worth. You didn't choose the criticism, the emotional absence, or the instability that shaped how you learned to rece...

Ladies, let's talk about something real — there is a science to attraction. If you start dating from a place of loneliness, desperation, or just wanting someone, you're already out of alignment with the kind of love you say you want. The way you start is usually the way you finish. In this episode, I'm breaking down the three steps to mastering ethical seduction and how your feminine energy natura...

Beautiful Boss Divas… In today's episode, I'm breaking down something that every woman needs to understand if she desires lasting, powerful love. Too many women are looking at relationships from the outside and creating fantasies in their minds about what they think love should look like. We put couples on pedestals. We attach our hope to images. And when things fall apart, we internalize fear. Bu...

In today's episode of Love on Command , it gets REAL—and honestly, it's a special one. I'm Shay, your Love Diva , and today I'm sitting down with Jamil Damji —and let me tell you… this episode is a FIRST. Because Jamil isn't just a guest… he's the fiancé of one of my clients , and he is living proof of what happens when a woman is willing to do the inner work and call in real love the right way. W...

Ladies… let's be honest. Most women are out here dating completely backwards. You're asking yourself, "How do I get him to like me?" or "How do I finally find my person?" —but what if I told you the real answer isn't more dating… it's understanding the science. Because love is not just magic. Love is biology. Love is predictable. And when you understand what's happening biochemically in the attrac...

Ladies, we need to talk. If you are successful in your career, disciplined in your life, and powerful in every room you walk into—but somehow keep attracting emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or weak men—this episode is for you. In this conversation, I'm breaking down the real reason dating keeps hurting you, and it has nothing to do with you being broken. It's about your patterns , your stra...

There are a lot of Build-A-Bears in this world. Loud men. Raggedy men. Men who never learned how to stand on their own two feet because they're still emotionally nursing from their mother. And yet… there are still GOOD men here. Masculine men. Provider men. Men who want to lead, protect, and commit. So why do so many women keep attracting the wrong ones? In this episode, I speak directly to the wo...

In this episode, I'm breaking down the top dating mistakes that keep powerful, intelligent women stuck in cycles of disappointment instead of in the arms of a high-value man who can truly love their soul . I'm going to lovingly—but directly—call out the patterns that sabotage love, including: Believing a man's words instead of his actions Moving too fast with the wrong man and skipping proper vett...

How many of you feel like the clock is ticking? You want marriage. You want a family. You want children. And yet, when you look around at the dating pool, you feel the pressure of time and the frustration of settling for less than you deserve. In this episode, I speak directly to the women who come to me every single day — successful, beautiful, accomplished women who are tired of attracting emoti...