La Vita

In this life, as a mature adult, there must be at least ONE TRUSTED person in your corner who can access your financial information, “just in case…” Think about it. 🎧

BACKFIRE 101 : I once thought I was clever enough to run a secret operation on my boyfriend, as master strategist wey I be… 🤣🤣🤣 A funny story about youthful insecurity, uncertainty, trust, and what happens when you go looking for answers in ways that can hurt you. Sometimes, the person setting the trap is the one who gets caught. Well… the trap worked. Just not the way I planned. 😂

“She’s like a sister to me!" "Relax, he’s my childhood friend!" “We’ve always been this close, you can’t come into my life and change that.” Do these lines ring a bell? 😂😂😂 …If your partner has to constantly explain why their bestie is “nothing to worry about,” but their behaviour keeps giving you reasons to worry, you’re not insecure, you should be worried.

Life@42 & what I see…

Before you pray / visit a Prophet, listen to this! Is your problem spiritual or you’re just irresponsible and you lack accountability?

Dear future Nigerian, if your Nigeria is better than ours, if peace finally found you, remember…

At this point, Nigeria no longer feels like home anymore. You can do everything right in this country and still end up in bandits’ den. How can a country be this terrifying to its own citizens? May Nigeria not happen to us…

Some people hear bad news of death and reach for their phones before their hearts, to turn grief into content; forgetting that before the RIP posts and captions, somebody just lost their whole world. We need to learn how to be human again.

You don’t have a child at your age? Do you want to die lonely? Who will take care of you when you’re old? Are children anti-loneliness medications to childless adults? Should a child be born to solve an adult’s emotional panic?

How did a dead marriage become a celebration? Is a divorce party really liberation, or is it just rebranding failure as empowerment?

Are you preparing to be a Wife or Bride?

Single at 40:  “Failure or Consequence? Bad luck or Bad Decisions? “Too difficult. Too picky. Too much. Too career-focused.” Well, this episode breaks it down…

If you found out your baby would be born with extreme abnormalities & lifelong challenges, what would you do?  Music: Sovereign by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)   Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0   http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/

Most FATHERS must stop having s3x with their biological DAUGHTERS

There are other things to say to someone who’s grieving. There’s no competition or ‘who came first’ in pain. If you can’t help with the appropriate words, please SHUT UP. No pun intended 😀

Have some dignity and pay me my money. I am not BEGGING! I either did a job for you, or you borrowed from me. I will not lose my peace chasing what is mine. PAY UP, please oooo Ehen!

There’s a strange thing we humans do! There’s this quiet lie we all buy into. It whispers to us every other day. It says, “Wait! You still have time.” …

Why were we born only to d!e? Is it like some soul evolution?…

Nigeria, where cost of living don cost pass life, where survival is a struggle.  Dear those in power, our frustration has risen above hope, our patience is running out. What most of us have left is packaging, and the skill of suffering and smiling 🥲

Sometimes you’re not sick! Sometimes what you need is not medicine. That constant chest pain may be as a result of…

I just love being a woman! 😀😀 Happy International Women’s Day to every woman out there. 🫶🏽🫶🏽

Kill the urge of trying to be in everyone's good books; accept that no matter who you are or what you do, not everybody will like you and that's OKAY

The danger in See Finish, over familiarity and being too accessible

Does having money equate happiness? How much money do you need to earn or have to be happy? 

Waiting for marriage? …for that job? …that money? DESTINATION ADDICTION