Knowing Her Sexually

Chris is back! She joins J in this episode to talk about her husband and what's coming next with the Knowing Her Sexually ministry. If you can help Chris with funeral expenses for her late husband and through this period of transition, any amount would be appreciated! Two ways to donate: Online: Go Fund Me Mail: Chris Taylor  c/o Cullom UMC 103 E Van Alstyne St Cullom IL 60929 Resources Doug Taylo...

J is joined by an extra special guest (hint: "logical") to discuss and wrap-up this season of practical sex tips for husbands. We review past episodes but have fresh takeaways as well! And Chris will be back next time! Remember that if you can help her with funeral expenses for her late husband and through this period of transition, any amount would be appreciated! Two ways to donate: Online: Go F...

J welcomes Ruth Buezis of Awaken Love, to talk about three activities associated with female orgasm (and none of them is intercourse!). And a reminder: If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing of her husband, Doug. Any amount is appreciated and will help to defer funeral expenses and assist her with transition. Resources Awaken-Love (Ruth B...

J is joined by Bonny Burns, cohost of Sex Chat for Christian Wives and author of Unlock Your Orgasm , to discuss why wives struggle with orgasm and how to help her reach climax. And a reminder: If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing of her husband, Doug. Any amount is appreciated and will help to defer funeral expenses and assist her with...

J's back with guest host Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage to talk about personal lubricant—why a wife might need it, our recommended products, and how to use it to improve the sexual experience. If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the  GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing of her husband, Doug. Any amount is appreciated and will help to defer funeral expenses and assist he...

We address a wife's' body image and what a husband can specifically do to help her feel comfortable and confident in the bedroom. Resources Husbands, Help Us Feel & Be Beautiful - Hot, Holy & Humorous Silky Robe | Mentionables "Baby Doll" Lingerie | Mentionables Why Won't Your Wife Wear Lingerie? - Knowing Her Sexually Should You Buy Her Lingerie for Christmas? - Knowing Her Sexually Battery-Opera...

Let's talk about sex positions! Not just generally, but what we hear from wives about sex positions they like and don't like, and what works best for her. Resources Christian Friendly Sex Positions (now 300+ Illustrated Sex Positions!) Doggy Style Sex Position aka "Stallion Style": How to Do It, 4 Tips That Spice It Up (christianfriendlysexpositions.com) Packing the Suitcase Sex Position: How to D...

In our last episode, we talked about where to touch your wife. This time, Chris and J cover how to touch your touch your wife in ways that arouse, pleasure, and satisfy—all with the ultimate goal of wonderful sexual intimacy in your marriage. Resources Increasing Your Wife's Sexual Pleasure – Webinar Replay - ONLY $10 Episode 76: Where to Touch Your Wife Q&A with J: "His Physical Touch Is Groping...

Chris and J share where to touch your wife to help her feel sexually interested, aroused, and valued. You might be surprised by some of the places on her body that intrigue many women. Resources Increasing Your Wife's Sexual Pleasure – Webinar Replay - ONLY $10 Episode 40: Her Erogenous Zones How Do You Like to Be Touched? - Hot, Holy & Humorous 6 Kinds of Touch Every Marriage Needs - Hot, Holy &...

On this first episode of Season 2 (Sex Tips), Chris and J talk about setting the mood for your wife. What can you do to draw her toward the bedroom and away from what might distract her from sexual intimacy?   Resources Helping Your Wife Want to Have Sex – Webinar Replay - ONLY $10 Bull Durham kitchen table scene (NSFW, PG-13) Viking Revolution Men's Balls Wash for Men Caldrea Linen And Room Spray...

Are you ready for Season 2? It's a sex tip season!

On this wrap-up of our first season of Knowing Her Sexually, Chris and J discuss what the men in marriage ministry had to say about women's sexuality, including what surprised us and what we took away. Resources Kevin A. Thompson's personal website Change the Odds - Kevin A. Thompson's new website Intimate Covenant - Matt (and Jenn) Schmidt Gary Thomas's website Gary Thomas's Substack newsletter S...

Dave Barringer, pastor, podcast host, and author of Mosaic Marriage , spoke with us a while back about foreplay in and out of the bedroom. We revisit that episode with a few fresh takeaways in our season of talking to men in marriage ministry about women's sexuality. Take a listen! Resources Dave Barringer's website Launch Point  book site Mosaic Marriage  by Dave Barringer Marriage Monday with Da...

We talk with Stu Gray of the Stupendous Marriage Show, cohosted with his wife Lisa, about what he learned about himself and marriage while recovering from porn, what honesty can do for marital intimacy, and how women are different—in life and in the bedroom. Take a listen! Resources Stupendous Marriage Podcast Stu Gray's Links The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman, Ph. D...

We welcome Matt Schmidt from Intimate Covenant, a sex-focused marriage ministry and podcast. He talks with us about how he and his wife addressed her past sexual trauma, what the goal of sex really is, and why hubbies should attend to afterglow. Resources Intimate Covenant The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma, Bessel van der Kolk For Husbands of Sexual Abuse Sur...

Kevin A. Thompson is a husband, father, and marriage (and men's) pastor at Bayside Church in the Sacramento, California area. Originally from Arkansas, Kevin has been a frequent guest on Focus on the Family and Family Life. Chris & J talked to Kevin about why it's still important to pursue and woo your wife (first, heart; then, body). Resources I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either - Kevin A. Thompson...

Scott Means of Heaven Made Marriage began marriage ministry in his church and has now expanded to a website, books, and videos to reach more and more couples. Listen to his conversation with J and Chris about the bridal paradigm, intimacy, and vulnerability. Resources Heaven Made Marriage Scott's books The Bridal Paradigm - Heaven Made Marriage Pursue the Path of Intimacy - The Forgiven Wife Guy T...

Dr. Kim Kimberling has been married for 53 years and has counseled marriages for over 40 years! His ministry, Awesome Marriage, has reached even more couples with its honest, biblical, and practical insight. Listen in as Dr. Kim talks with Chris and J about sexual expertise, empathy, accountability, and more. Resources Awesome Marriage University Achieving Awesome Sex in Marriage: The Christian Se...

Gary Thomas, theologian and marriage author, joins us to discuss what he's learned about women's sexuality. What differences between men and women can help you cater more to your wife's pleasure? How can you unleash the power of the five senses? And what does "simmering" have to do with sexual desire? Resources Gary Thomas's Website Married Sex: A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love...

Brad Aldrich, marriage therapist and ministry leader, joins us to discuss what he's learned about women's sexuality. What does connection mean for wives compared to husbands? How do connection, curiosity, and past trauma impact sexual intimacy in your marriage? Take a listen! Resources Aldrich Ministries Still Becoming One Podcast with Brad & Kate Aldrich The 7 Year Itch (Episode 27) - Still Becom...

It's been a minute! Chris and J are finally back to explain their absence and the future of Knowing Her Sexually going forward. We plan to keep providing quality content intended to help husbands better understand their wives and pursue healthy, mutually satisfying sexual intimacy.  Resources Knowing Her Sexually Webinars KHS Ministry | Facebook KHSMinistry (@KhsMinistry) / Twitter Honeycomb & Spi...

Christmastime can create wonderful memories, but also a lot of to-dos and stress that keep couples from being sexually intimate. J and guest host Julie Sibert discuss how to have less stress and more sex in your marriage this holiday season. Sponsor Looking for a safe place to shop for marital aids? Check out Married Dance , a Christian-friendly sex toy store. Experience a nudity-free, marriage-ce...

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What role can quickies play in your marriage's sexual intimacy? We discuss what's good about quickies, why some wives don't like them, and how husbands can make the experience more enjoyable for her. Resources 5 Reasons to Love a Quickie - Hot, Holy & Humorous Showering and Bathing To gether: Why You Should Try It - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Tips for Shower Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous What a Quickie T...

Instead of "show up naked," how about using clothing to increase arousal and pleasure? Chris and J discuss why and how clothing can be sexy for a wife. Resources Why I Still Wear Lingerie (though My Hubby Doesn't Care) - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why Won’t Your Wife Wear Lingerie? 7 Ways to Make the Most of Your Lingerie - The Forgiven Wife Should You Buy Her Lingerie for Christmas? What Should Your Hu...