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Featuring Attachment Style:  let's be clear you can not live in this world without disappointment. But not all disappointment is equal, and some forms of disappointment cause heavy tension and usually a breakdown in a relationship, but it doesn't have to. I want you to know that you can predict dissatisfaction from many people in your life by their behaviour. I am not saying that people can n...

I watched Dahmer, and I think Evan Peters did an excellent job channelling him. It was lacking lustre, almost like it was missing something. Other than the gory crimes and the beer not sure what else happened. I will give credit where it's due and say that one thing this film achieved was making a point that he got away based on three things sociological,  racial and homosexual. Sociologicall...

What can I say about this movie? First, I think it was well done, and Ana De Aramas was fantastic. She portrayed Marilyn in such a powerful way. The film told a story about a girl who grew up with a mentally ill mother, who battled her demons from abandonment to being unloved to being insecure. It portrayed a famous actress who had everything anyone could want. But honestly, when your mind goes, e...

Stop asking other people, and believe in yourself. It is your life, and only you can live it; therefore, asking other people's opinions is stupid. Most of the time, if you think about it, what you are seeking is validation about your choices from other people. But they are not you and don't live your life; what is crazy for other people is a new start for someone else. People also have bad intenti...

Working on yourself is essential; it doesn't matter what is happening around you, but you must always work on yourself. Transition and change are very different, and people seem to miss that. A transition is more lasting than a change because you can not quickly transition into anything. You can change into something, but a transition takes more time; it takes more building to work. Anybody can ch...

People have a nerve; well, small businesses have a nerve ... When you run your business, it is essential to note that your character is everything. These days there is no such thing as a unique business. Anything that you do, someone else, I say this often because you are working almost 24 hours representing your brand as a business owner. And no business can be without customers; it isn't a thing...

Are you active or passive in playing? The funny thing is that we all think we will be here forever or have time. The funny thing is we have no time, and that life is constantly happening; all that matters is how active you are when it comes to that. As in, what are you waiting for? It is like if you are sad and go on vacation and have a miserable time. You had a miserable time because the vacation...

Thank you so much for being here! I am pleased to be back podcasting! Life has been crazy. I have been on an up and down rollercoaster, and whew, chile, it's been difficult. But I believe that life can throw challenges at you, and all you have to do is accept and move on. The truth is the adventure of life only starts when you are being challenged and have a greater calling. I have gone through so...

How do you see yourself? I believe that life is filled with valleys and peaks. You will be on both sides at points in your life. But I believe this is because as you grow you are supposed to evolve. But evolution does not happen immediately nor does it happen when your life is going amazingly. I believe that while you are in the valley is when the process starts. You learn about yourself, the thin...

Who do you need to L? I hate to write this, but I have to be honest sometimes; for your peace of mind, you need to “take an L.” I hate to lose and certainly hate to take an L, but at this point in life, I see a necessary reason to take one. Let me explain; if you were given 24 hrs to live, would the annoying arguments and the frustration be worth pursuing in that 24 hours? As in that person who ow...

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Do you think heartbreak has changed you? I believe heartbreak can make or break you. During heartbreak you can experience a heightened experience of growth. One thing you can not do is let it make you bitter or cynical about love. For a long time I let my anger and bitterness take root, I now challenge myself to let heartbreak change me positively. 

There are times where you just need to be quiet and still. As a person I can be very combative, but I have learned that sometimes the best thing to do is nothing. To live and maintain your peace you just have to keep still. Sometimes what some people want is a reaction, that is how they get off in life to provoke other people. But falling in that trap will only disturb your peace not there's.&nbsp...

Do you ever say No and then change to a YES?

Ya I am done with that energy! Let’s chat about people thinking that they are ultimately better than you. And let me remind you, the person who believes that is usually way worse than you. You probably don’t have time for those thoughts because you are drinking water and minding your business. There is nothing worse than a clown hopping out of their clown car and speaking down to you. The enlighte...

I know how much you guys want the business podcast to come back, and I promise it will. But I decided to do a podcast about nasty emails because I think it's something that we really need to talk about. Suppose you run a business or you are the head of a company. In that case, you really need to practice this because email etiquette is crucial. This will have people not support your business if yo...

How do you feel about losing? There can be winning in losing. The best kind of win is winning yourself back. I read that losing is freedom, and I never thought about that. I never aim to lose; I try my damnedest before I do. This concept was complex to grapple with. I had to think deeply about this, and I dove a bit further and focused on the relationship that I had to win. Dumping him, although s...

I don't think it comes as a surprise that Blac Chyna did not win her case. I believe that she might've had a more substantial chance had she stepped off-line for a few years, and nobody had seen how she was spending money or what she was buying. However, the jury has decided that the Kardashians are not in the wrong. Do I agree? Well, listen and find out. I really do like Blac Chyna, and I feel li...

What drives you? Are you waiting for motivation? This is for you. Motivation is not a thing; it is not sustainable. And often, you like me use it as a crutch. However, you generally have to motivate yourself, and you need passion to do that. Notice when you are passionate about something, you are quick to do it. A whole part of psychology is called the psychology of motivation because motives make...

Never let someone run there program of you, in you

I used to really like Blac Chyna and I still do. I admired her hustle for many years until well I guess she fell off. I think she had multiple opportunities to make money but some of those shows really damaged her "celebrity status". The world we live in today, people are very involved with our lives, yelling and screaming will turn people off from you. I do think that she has been through a lot,...

Seriously? Can we be honest? You and I are a catch. It is a little insane that someone would not want us. But, okay, we are perfect. Lol Okay, no, we aren't, but have you ever been rejected? Has it ever made you feel sad? Have you ever taken it personally?  Rejection is never easy; I did an entire podcast on it. But I am reframing the question of How do you not want me? To you don't deserve me. Al...

Hit the snooze, reset and approach the issue again.

Everyone wants to give up, so don't feel special. Life gets complicated and presents some tough challenges that sometimes we have to go alone. People don't understand what we are going through, and it can feel very isolating.  I am here to tell you that the obstacle you face is the real way. Think of your life and something you never thought you would overcome, and you overcame it. No one is encou...

My thoughts: I do not in any way condone violence. However, I also don't condone trolling either. I believe that Chris Rock did not deserve to be publicly slapped by Will Smith at such a powered event. Especially winning an Oscar for such a touching film. A film about a black father that trained his daughters to become the most outstanding female athletes, commanding respect when they entered the...