Jordan Candlish Podcast

Is having sex before marriage a sin? It’s a question that comes with a lot of different beliefs, expectations and interpretations — especially when faith and relationships are involved. In this episode, I share my personal perspective on sex before marriage, my relationship with God, and what I’ve learned from 11 years with Amanda. We dive into why I believe the deeper message behind spiritual tea...

Do you ever wonder why the sexual attraction in your relationship has started to fade? You love your partner, but maybe the spark, desire and intimacy just aren’t what they used to be. In this episode, I break down what I’ve learned from 11 years with Amanda about keeping attraction alive in a long-term relationship — and the patterns that can quietly kill that polarity. I’ll share the framework I...

Have you ever felt like you and your partner have slowly become more like roommates than lovers? You still love each other, but somewhere along the way, the fun, sexual tension and desire just aren’t what they used to be. In this episode, I break down what I’ve learned from 11 years with Amanda about keeping attraction alive in a long-term relationship — and the patterns that can quietly kill the...

There are certain patterns men carry from boyhood into their relationships without even realizing it. They can show up as shutting down, reacting instead of responding, seeking validation, playing the victim, or minimizing what your partner is experiencing. And the problem is, these patterns can quietly get in the way of the love, connection and relationship you actually want. In this episode, I b...

In this episode, I sit down with my fiancée, Amanda, for our first-ever podcast together. After nearly 10 years together, we finally sit down and have one of the real, unfiltered conversations we usually only have behind closed doors. We talk about the doubts we’ve faced, the hard seasons that tested our relationship, the moments we weren’t sure we were going to last, and what brought us back toge...

You can’t attract the love or life you want without first showing up as the person who can hold it. In this episode, I sit down with Kady O'Connel, a relationship and self-mastery coach for Part 2, to unpack what it really takes to create deep attraction, healthy boundaries, and a partnership that elevates both people. From navigating desire and standards to balancing love, parenting, and pers...

You don’t rise to the level of your goals, you rise to the level of your identity. In this episode, I sit down with Kady O’Connell to unpack what it truly takes to show up fully in relationships, life, and yourself. From stepping out of survival mode to designing your ‘new self,’ Kady shares how to navigate reactivity, cultivate presence, and create space for growth, so you can hold your own needs...

Discover the four-phase initiation that’s transforming how men lead in their relationships and life. In this video, I break down the roadmap I’ve used with clients and my own 10-year relationship to help men step into emotional clarity, build connection, and embody true masculine energy. From leading with direction, creating safety and connection, mastering embodiment practices, to communicating w...

What actually makes someone feel deeply attracted, safe, and fulfilled in a relationship? In this episode, we explore the energetic foundations of attraction- initiative, emotional leadership, grounded presence, and inner security. This isn’t about looks, money, or performance. It’s about becoming someone others can trust, relax into, and grow with. Whether you’re in a relationship or seeking a pa...

Feeling stuck even though you’ve made big changes? In this episode, we explore how “nothing happening” is actually the breakthrough phase where your new identity takes root, and how small daily practices can anchor your next-level self. Learn to trust the process, embody your growth, and let your reality catch up to who you’re becoming. WORK WITH ME🌎 Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlo...

You don’t rise to the level of your goals, you rise to the level of your identity. In this episode, I sit down with Alex Waters to unpack what it really takes to build wealth, freedom, and creative fulfillment without abandoning your nervous system or your truth. From collapsing money ceilings to hiring from joy and investing in rooms that stretch you, this is about becoming the version of you who...

Attraction doesn’t fade because you “lost the spark.” It fades when polarity gets neutralized and most couples don’t even realize it’s happening. In this episode, I break down what a man genuinely needs from a woman to feel devoted, confident, and connected in a relationship, without turning his partner into his therapist or his manager. We talk about the real essentials: trust, space to process,...

Most people think reality creation is about positive thinking, strategy, or trying harder. It’s not. In this episode, I break down the hidden law that actually determines performance, success, and momentum and why fear of failure doesn’t stop you by accident, it stops you through tension, over-preparation, and unconscious resistance. We explore how “big game pressure” shows up in business, relatio...

What if your future isn’t blocked by effort, timing, or strategy, but by how you’re relating to right now ? In this episode, I break down the overlooked connection between self-image, the nervous system, and the present moment and why most people stay stuck even while “doing the work.” We explore why ease, joy, and lightness are not rewards you earn later, but signals that you’re aligned now , and...

What’s up legends? In this episode, I sit down with Aaron Doughty for a deep, honest conversation about why so many of us lose ourselves in relationships and how people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and unexpressed emotion quietly drain attraction, polarity, and connection. We explore how childhood conditioning shapes adult identity, why tension isn’t something to avoid but a necessary catalyst for...

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Pursuing Purpose: The Secret to Thriving Relationships Apply to work with me: https://bit.ly/3HoAy5T FREE 5-Day Email Course - Get one specific, actionable shift each day that creates immediate results: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course What if your purpose was the key to creating a deeper, more intimate, and thriving relationship? In this episode, I share how pursuing your higher pur...

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