It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

First red flag: this man wanted to meet her in person. Second red flag: He was wearing Espadrilles (Abbie will elaborate if you're not a fashion chookie like us). It's the THIRD red flag that deems this as Abbie's ultimate holiday Nightmare Fuel. LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple...

In this episode, there is a mention of suicidal ideation. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at  https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Abbie is depressed. The trolls, the public scrutiny, and the trauma from the toxic ex are still issues she's battling with. This one is raw from the heart. LINKS Check out  @...

TWO stories from the HILARIOUS Josh Thomas such as how he ended up a d*ck cage and the ultimate 'who smelt it dealt it'. LINKS Find tickets to Josh Thomas' shows https://bit.ly/43lwJVJ Check out  @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainme...

It's easy to set goals but it's much harder to achieve and maintain new habits. Neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez has written a book about navigating change as you start your new year. Attention ADHD-ers: Lots of neurodivergent-specific advice in this one! LINKS Buy Alexis' 'How to Chase Change' audibook  https://bit.ly/3PwsEYH Listen to Alexis' podcast https://bit.ly/4h8jugT Check out  @i...

One of the bloodiest (and sluttiest) Nightmare Fuels you'll ever hear featuring the podcaster planning to steal Abbie's spot; Christian Hull. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instr...

One of the biggest podcasters in the world pops in for one of the best chats we've ever heard on It's A Lot. Author, LGBTQ activist and host of the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage, answers Abbie's burning questions and reveals intimate details about his life with his husband Terry. What does Dan consider the "cancer of a relationship"? What did Abbie do on The Bachelor that Dan is so proud of? What ad...

Author and Comedian Toni Lodge's flirting attempts at a house party have led to this week's HILARIOUS Nightmare Fuel.  LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to...

How can a conversation about a dead parent be so funny? Toni Lodge (of the Toni and Ryan podcast) LEGIT makes Abbie piss herself in this one. If any of the topics discussed are triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14. LINKS Listen to Toni's podcast Toni and Ryan http://bit.ly/3JPau2q Buy Toni's book "I Don't Need Th...

Abbie's been asking Cherylyn for a NMF for AGES and the time has finally come... LINKS Subscribe to Cherylyn's YT https://bit.ly/3DkUnJ3 Follow Cherylyn on IG https://bit.ly/3DkUnJ3 Follow Cherylyn on TT https://bit.ly/3ZKBW8a Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrent...

Why does a sense of danger make us horny? When is it time to leave a relationship? What to do when you feel ambivalent about your partner? Is there anything worse than being cheated on? Abbie chats to her icon (aka her Lord and Saviour): World renowned Psychotherapist, Esther Perel. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https:/...

Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie decided to give this positive update and deep dive (lol) into the world of dolphins. It's SCARY how much she knows about them. LINKS Visit Dolphin Swim Australia https://bit.ly/4gGdnQF Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainm...

If your family is being transphobic, fatphobic or bigoted, you're allowed to skip Christmas lunch you know. In part one of this episode, Abbie answers many of the questions you sent through. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Enter...

Part 2 of Xmas Advice is with ADAM!!! We start off by discussing what Christmas is like with divorced parents but by the end of this episode, we're all laughing our asses off about how risk-averse Abbie is. Prepare to be SHOCKED! LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @...

Ew ew ew ew EW! Ginger Doll's NMF is truly horrifying. We wanted a client story though, right? LINKS Follow Ginger Doll on IG https://www.instagram.com/katiaschwartz/?hl=en Follow Ginger Doll on Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@thegingerdoll Visit Ginger Doll's website thegingerdoll.com https://www.instagram.com/katiaschwartz/?hl=en Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH Buy ti...

What is it like being a deaf sex worker? How does fetishisation and ableism intersect? And what is Whore-archy? Deaf sex worker and disability advocate Katia Schwartz (aka Ginger Doll) is this week's podcast pick. LINKS Follow Ginger Doll on IG Follow Ginger Doll on Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@thegingerdoll Visit Ginger Doll's website thegingerdoll.com https://www.instagram.com/katiaschwartz/?...

When a listener told us her story about her "man on the run", Harrison James and Abbie HAD TO get her back on to find out more. LINKS Listen to the original NMF in full https://bit.ly/49ovEQg Review  the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to a...

What is the difference between a kink and a fetish? What are some problematic fetishes? What do I do if I'm new to kinky sex? Sex Expert Georgia Grace (GSpot) and Fat activist Demon Derriere sit down with Abbie to explore a world of fantasy and how intersectionality comes into it. LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal  https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH Read Georgia's new book 'A Modern Guide To Sex' htt...

Short one today but also one that emphasises the need for all of us women to listen to that voice inside us that tells us LEAVE HIM. So many toxic creatures out there. Some of them are smelly too. LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH Full out the survey for a chance to win $100 https://form.typeform.com/to/OPxDwjyF Buy tickets to Abbie's national Trauma Dump tour https...

The last time Abbie spoke about US politics on the podcast, there was hope that Trump would be the one losing. With him back in charge, expect more tariff rants, a chat about theocracy threat, mass deportation and the INSANE cabinet picks. LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH Buy tickets to Abbie's national Trauma Dump tour https://bit.ly/3ytG2Id Check out @itsalotpod...

Sex Worker and TikTok star Blue Eyed Kayla Jade returns for a Nightmare Fuel featuring a client she calls "Peggy Sue". Peggy LOVES to get pegged by almost ANYTHING. In one of the weirdest sessions with Peggy, Kayla was so ready to call an ambulance ASAP.  LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH Full out the survey for a chance to win $100 https://form.typeform.com/to/OPxD...

Sex Worker and TikTok star Kayla Jade (who goes by the name blueeyedkaylajade) has BLOWN UP on TikTok going from 900K followers to 1.4 Million in 2 weeks. People are obsessed with her client stories, her attitude towards her profession, and her opinion on what's going on around us. Abbie wants to know how Kayla charges her clients, how she takes care if herself and what she thinks of Bonnie Blue's...

We haven't received a Nightmare Fuel like this in a WHILE. In a decade-long romantic drama full of twists and turns, this listener gets with a man who ghosts her and then returns from the grave to haunt her LITERALLY. Advocate/survivor Harrison James joins us on this one. LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH Full out the survey for a chance to win $100 https://form.typ...

In this episode, we discuss child sexual abuse, mental health issues, and sexual assault. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 In a gradual erosion of his boundaries, child sexual abuse survivor and activist Harrison James endured traumatic sexual abuse at the hands of his stepmu...

This woman birthed this guy's condom and he had barely anything to say. Are we surprised??? LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH Full out the survey for a chance to win $100 https://form.typeform.com/to/OPxDwjyF Buy tickets to Abbie's national Trauma Dump tour https://bit.ly/3ytG2Id Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review   Follow LiSTNR Entertai...

This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. MAGA on economics, christian values and all of our result predictions. LINKS Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH Buy tickets to Abbie's national Trauma Dump tour https://bit.ly/3ytG2Id Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainmen...