It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

We've got something a bit different for you! Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie and Aleks are unpacking an email from a chook who was after some advice about her relationship. LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Learn more about Aleks Trkulja https://linktr.ee/ThePleasureCentre Follow Aleks on IG @_thepleasurecentre Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and mo...

Today we have not one but TWO amazing episodes with sex, relationship, body image and trauma therapist (AND Abbie's dear friend) Aleks Trkulja! In this ep Aleks will be talking all about TRAUMA BONDS! What are they? Does it always mean you're in an abusive relationship? What can you do to break the cycle? If this episode has raised any issues, please know that help is always available. You can con...

Today we have not one but TWO amazing episodes with sex, relationship, body image and trauma therapist (AND Abbie's dear friend) Aleks Trkulja! In this ep Aleks will be answering some of your burning questions about navigating different sex drives, unmasking during sex, and feeling embarrassed about initiating sex. LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Learn more about A...

A short and not-so-sweet horror story about a woman who just won't leave this chook and her family alone!! LINKS See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review CREDI...

It's the end of another financial year, and for many it's the opportunity to restart working on money resolutions. It's SO important for young people, and especially young women, to take control of their finances and feel empowered about their decisions!! But where do you start? Well, luckily we have money expert Jessica Brady here to chat through spending habits and goals, money in relationships,...

We love a self-aware chook who knows when she is both in the Nightmare Fuel but also causing a bit of it. Let's go lesbians!! LINKS See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit....

The good news is, Abbie handed in the first draft of her book!!!! The bad news is, right as the extra brain space has opened up, Pauline Hanson did a speech at the National Press Club so now we have to unpack that... LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on...

The Jungle Giants frontman himself Sam Hales is in the studio!! Fresh off their hit new album, Sam made time to tell us some PEAK Nightmare Fuel stories with music legends aplenty. LINKS See The Jungle Giants on tour: https://www.thejunglegiants.com/tour-dates Listen to the album Experiencing Feelings of Joy https://orcd.co/experiencingfeelingsofjoy See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfi...

In this episode, we discuss child sexual abuse, mental health issues, and sexual assault. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14. Since we last had Harrison James on the podcast, he's achieved sweeping legislative change with his #YourReferenceAintRelevant campaign. But it wasn't s...

We've had office drama, now it's time for some teacher drama! This chook takes us through some wild stories from her Christian high school and we're so happy to be along for the ride. LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-inst...

It's been a while and Abbie needed some cheering up, so what better medicine than the Men's Rights Reddit?? Some absolutely kooky takes from the lads about respect, parenting, and office doors. LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen ABC article about AFL: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2026-05-31/tyrendarra-football-sexual-assault-minor-return-club/106691104 Send us your tho...

What better time to hear from a chook about her healthcare horrors than when Emma Hardy is in the studio!! Medical misogyny is truly the stuff of NIGHTMARES. LINKS Buy Emma Hardy's book Periodic Bitch https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/book/Emma-Hardy-Periodic-Bitch-9781761473593 See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: h...

In the weeks since the 2026-27 Federal Budget was announced there's been a lot of misinformation to navigate, complicated tax lingo to get around, and of course a bunch of terrible AI content. Abbie sits down with Senator Larissa Waters, leader of the Australian Greens, to talk about what these changes actually mean for the everyday Aussie, what could have been done better, and why One Nation are...

Emma Hardy lives with PMDD, and spent years of her life trying to work out what actions and feelings were 'her', and what was her PMDD. Her new memoir, Periodic Bitch, intertwines her exploration of her own psyche with cultural depictions and (mis)understandings of monsters, menstruation, and monstrous women. Emma and Abbie discuss the frustrating cycles of medical misogyny, identity and illness,...

There's a brand new Aussie reality show and Abbie is OBSESSED. The first ep of Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money just dropped on Stan, and we were lucky enough to chat to one of the cast members! Chloe tells us about her journey unpacking her own internalised misogyny, and shares some insider goss about all the drama to come this season.  LINKS Watch Turned On: Dirty Sexy Money only on Stan See Abb...

Surya McEwen is one of 11 Aussies who have just arrived back in Australia, after another attempt to break the naval blockade and bring aid to Gaza. He speaks to Abbie about his experience on his fourth mission, and how the escalation in violence, and the international attention has changed since October last year. This episode contains graphic descriptions of violence. If any of the topics discuss...

While being an independent podcast has its perks, we also miss the weird and wonderful world that is an office. Thankfully, we can have a dose of the goss thanks to this chook's WILD office NMF!! LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/...

NOTE: This episode contains discussion of mental ill-health, if any content in this episode raises issues for you, please remember that help is always available. Contact Lifeline on 13 11 14, or visit www.lifeline.org.au for 24/7 help. You can also contact Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636 or visit www.beyondblue.org.au . If you or anyone you know is in immediate danger, call 000. LINKS See Abbie on tou...

As promised, Kayla tells the story of her disastrous Turkiye BBL trip... For more stories like this, pick up a copy of Kayla's book Call Girl Confidential LINKS Get Kayla's book Call Girl Confidential : https://bit.ly/m/kaylajadebook Follow Kayla on IG @itsmekaylajade Follow Kayla on TikTok @blueeyedkaylajade Submit your guest suggestions and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @it...

NOTE: This episode contains discussions of eating disorders, and sexual assault. Please take care while listening, and remember that help is always available. If this content raises any issues for you or someone you know, contact Butterfly at 1800 33 4673 or visit butterfly.org.au , or contact 1800RESPECT at 1800 737 732 or visit 1800respect.org.au . The one and only Blue Eyed Kayla Jade is BACK o...

Are there any witches or other magic-inclined beings in the audience who can help this chook break her curse?? LINKS Submit your Nightmare Fuel: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review CREDITS  Host : Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor:  ...

Every day is a new opportunity to learn, so Abbie is sitting Amy down for a lesson from her favourite book on how to become an Alpha Male. What is an Alpha Male? What's the biggest secret about women you don't know? And where do you meet these chicks anyway?? LINKS See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/...

PEW PEW PEW IT'S TIME FOR MORE QUICKFIRE NIGHTMARE FUELS!!! The last one has really raised the bar for what's possible in the soundscape of a NMF. LINKS Submit your Nightmare Fuel: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review CREDITS  Host : Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield E...

Antoinette Lattouf decided she'd won before her court case was over. In the midst of a ground-breaking fight against her unfair dismissal from the ABC, Antoinette turned to the annals of history, desperately searching for stories of women in Australian history who have fought similar battles. She found strength in what they'd been through, and has intertwined her own saga with these amazing women'...

There's six degrees of separation and then there's this... LINKS Submit your Nightmare Fuel: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review CREDITS  Host : Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor:  Amy Kimball @amy.kimball It's A Lot Social Media Man...