Intimacy Advisor Podcast

Happy Pride!  In this episode, Sarah nerds out on the history of the term queer, how it reflects the versatility, resilience and inability to be confined by labels of the LGBTQIA+ community, and why she loves the term so much.  For anyone looking for a quick queer history lesson to kick off Pride month, interested to learn how the term became reclaimed as a badge of honor, or queer curio...

This week we are celebrating our 69th episode by giving some love to the much talked (and snickered) about sex position!  69ing is an act of mutual pleasure dating back to the Kama Sutra.  Sarah shares a little history about the clever naming of the position as well as tips for maximizing comfort and pleasure for both partners!  Thank you for listening and supporting Intimacy Adviso...

It can be intimidating to talk to your kids about S-E-X!  Where do you start? What do you say? How do you know what's age appropriate?  In this week's episode, Sarah breaks down some helpful tips for laying the foundation of open communication with your kids.  Establishing bodily autonomy, setting and respecting boundaries (the cornerstone of consent), naming our bits, and how to wo...

Traditionally, feminine people are type cast as submissives.  But, what if subverting traditional power dynamics ignites your desire and makes you feel sexually empowered?  This episode is a love letter to anyone whose been called bossy as an insult.  We will explore how to tap into your authentic erotic self, wherever you find yourself on the dominant to submissive spectrum. ...

This week on Intimacy Advisor Sarah fields listener questions.  How can I make my girlfriend come? What other positions can I explore if I love being on top? I can’t get off. Help!  We’re talking sex toys, vulva massage, the wonders of the clit, nipple play, sex positions, erotic breath and more! Lover's Lane carries every product mentioned on the show, and more! Nos Vibratin...

The movies have lied to us!  Going from zero to hot & bothered and ready for action 7 days a week is a myth.  Most of us have busy lives and priorities outside of the bedroom.  Cultivating our erotic life can feel like it takes work.  Creating an erotic bridge, an intentional transition, from day-to-day life into the bedroom can make the time we do set aside to explore our...

Spring has sprung!  Tis the season of vibe checks and new relationships.  Are you feeling a little out of practice with dating? Are you tired of going on first dates that don’t go anywhere?  Struggling to find other sex-positive matches?  This week Sarah is joined by educator, author, and body acceptance influencer Elle Chase talking about the ins and outs of post-pandemi...

Orgasms are a physiological response.  Orgasmic experiences are also your mind, your body and your breath working together to allow for surrender and release.  In this episode, Sarah shares a number of tools for finding your orgasmic potential.  We cover getting to know your sexual scripts , diving into your Erotic Blueprint , discovering your touch vocabulary with an Erotic Body Sc...

We've been working up to this... Multiple Os!  Learn how to catch and ride the waves of Multiple Orgasms.  Sarah covers tips and techniques for anyone interested in expanding their pleasure potential. From the squeeze method and the power of exercising your Kegels; to layering sensations or moaning your way there.  There's something for everyone! This podcast is made possible by Lov...

Understanding our bodies' building blocks for experiencing sexual pleasure can help demystify roadblocks to orgasm, our partner's needs and so much more!  Sarah walks you through her favorite nerdy topic, Anatomy, and gives you tips along the way.  This episode covers everything you need to know about the genitals AND how stimulate all of those juicy nerve endings.  This one is a bi...

Arousal is an overlooked building block to expansive orgasmic experiences.  Sarah debunks some arousal misunderstandings, breaks down the nuances of different types of desire, and explains the importance of context.  If you’re looking for ways to turn up your desire, understand your libido and gain more control over your arousal cycle then this episode is for you!  This episod...

The most popular date night of the year is upon us – Valentine’s Day!  When is the last time you changed up your date night routines? Getting tired of Netflix and chill? Want to engage with your partner in new and different ways? This episode offers a ton of creative (and hot) date ideas and ways to make a gift of the date experience.  Sarah covers date night suggestions for...

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner.  Vday is a perfect opportunity to invest in your sexuality, your sensuality, and the love relationships you have in your life, including the one with yourself!  This episode is dedicated to Sarah’s favorite toys. Toys can be a way to enhance your connection, create unique sensations, and bring creativity into your play.  We cov...

This episode is a part 2 to our very first (and very popular!) episode about the original 5 Love Languages.  This episode explores expanded concepts around the love languages, what to do when you and your partner’s love languages don’t match up, and how to ask for what you want and need!  This episode refers to the newest book about the love languages, “Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Mo...

Do you find yourself overwhelmed by unrealistic body standards? Do you speak to yourself negatively about your body on the regular? Or are you struggling to feel sexy?  Body acceptance is a process. Host Sarah TomTom offers a variety of tips for affirming and accentuating your body in ways that helps you build confidence and self-love. For all of your intimate needs, don't forget to check out Love...

We are kicking the New Year off with a new host, Sarah TomTom.  Sex Educator and founder of Damiana Productions.  This week we are talking about prioritizing pleasure in our routines and incorporating pleasure into our New Year’s goals and resolutions.  This episode is sure to get you thinking about how you want to feel in the year ahead! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One more round of spookiness before Halloween season is done! In Episode 54, we talk how to build a dungeon, how to communicate your eerie needs, and what to do when you know the sex you want isn't the sex you're getting. Be sure to shop loverslane.com to build your BDSM fantasy! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trick or Treat?! In Episode 53 we talk about TikTok trending sex toys and products, how to give the easiest and best blow job ever, and helpful hints for awesome oral. Be sure to check out our Intimacy Advisor blog and shop Lover's Lane! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's time for the talk...about how the sex ed we've learned as young adults doesn't add up to what you grow to learn. No one teaches pleasure, they don't teach how to explore your preferences, and the part I hate the most is they don't teach LGBT+ sex education. We need to change that. Send this episode to a friend and initiate conversation where it is due! Also be sure to shop Lover's Lane for in...

Episode 51 is all about nipples! If you're wondering what products and creams and gels do all the best job of tugging, sucking, clamping, and caressing your way to a nipple orgasm (yes that's real!) look no further. Don't forget to shop Lover's Lane for all the best titillating toys ;) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you tired of  faking it?!  I bet you are. But why are we faking? Is it our fault? Our partners? Technique? Skill? The real reason behind it can be a few different things but it mostly boils down to 1) either our bodies don't want to (weird, right?) or 2) lack of sex education. (Not a big shocker there!) Episode 50 is here to help. Shop at Lover's Lane for your favorite intimate products. See o...

Now's the season of layering your clothes! But what's this... a sexy surprise for your partner after date night? You betcha! In Episode 49, you'll learn about different styles of lingerie and on what body works the very best for what style as well as some sexy layered outfit ideas on how to sex-up your fit for whatever thee occasion! Be sure to check out our newest, hottest lingerie on loverslane....

Hooray! Our 1 year anniversary episode! So how do we celebrate? On today's episode we are giving the best alternatives to some of our high end luxury vibes and products maybe for your travel bag or simply to try something (still awesome) but on the cheaper side before you invest in the luxe version! Tell us how you love them by emailing haley@loverslane.com and be sure to shop on Lover's Lane love...

Happy Labor Day 2021! As we enjoy a relaxing day away from work, consider how our personal relationships need care, understanding, excitement, and emotional labor. Then at the end of todays episode, we talk products fit for the job...the blow job that is! Make sure to shop Lover's Lane for all of your favorite bedroom toys, lubes, oils, and lingerie. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informa...

Here it is...the odds and ends that just take the right person to love on! Interesting stimulators like electro-spanking, tentacle play and anal hooks (who knows!) could be your next best friend! If you have an open mind and the willingness to explore, this episode is for you. Be sure to shop at Lover's Lane for both new and old favorite intimate products! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy i...