Here to Find Love

Hurricane Kat hits the beach and it causes some *big* waves. Sean takes a page from Kat's book of non-empathy and talks to Jess, inadvertently setting off a chain of events that causes the truth to be revealed... and how he's been painting Rachel as more into him than she is. In this Bachelor in Paradise 2023 episode 4 recap, we talk about why Rachel and Sean's fight went off the rails and what he...

The Kat and Brayden breakup conversation featured classic examples of defensiveness, right-or-wrong thinking, and (dare we say) a litttttttle hint of gaslighting. In this Bachelor in Paradise 2023 episode 3 recap, we dissect their breakup conversations in depth and talk about why things got so ugly so fast - and how we can all avoid or at least better manage these types of conflicts in our own dat...

Golden Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise are giving whiplash with the wholesomeness and chaos, and we are here for all. Of. It. In the episode 2 recap, we discuss Gerry Turner's earnest enthusiasm for dating and how cute it is... and our hope he doesn't get hurt too badly in a vulnerable process designed to hurt many people. Then we dive into the love triangles on the beach between Mercedes, Eliza...

The newest season of Bachelor in Paradise is already bringing the mess, and it's only week one. In this episode 1 recap, we break down what happened between Olivia, Will, and Kylee. The two of us differed in whose side we took in this conflict, sparking a fascinating discussion on the meaning behind a kiss, what we owe the people we hook up with, and the secret to no-drama dating. We’re Kelly and...

The Golden Bachelor season premiere is finally here! In this episode 1 recap, we dig into the ways the ladies of this season are challenging stereotypes about older women and rewriting the narrative of aging as a woman. We also discuss Gerry's back story, the tragic passing of his wife, and which women he has the most chemistry with. We’re Kelly and Julie, and we’re Here to Find Love: a show where...