Growing Love

Kwibuka32: My simple letter to the world that keeps asking the wrong question, and to my fellow Rwandans who might be proud of the wrong thing.

I am not muslim, I am not planning to be one anytime soon. But hey, a girl can't be in love with a muslim man? 🫣

On feedback, the familiar sting of feeling not enough, and what my therapist said that is actually helping. ❤️ #Imposter feelings. #Feedback ≠ failure #Thought dissection

This friendship might be changing its shape, phasing out, or it's a break up. Have a good week, and Merry Christmas! Remember love is a choice. ❤️

A new chapter in my life. I have left home for a short period. This episode is about how everyone who love me shooshed me away.

These are just 3 people in your life, but I am sure if all your friends had to say anything about you, it wouldn't be far from an intentional, gracious, kind, and small friend. Cheers to your existence. You make the world a better place.

This one is about "Lamentations of mine". I can't count the number of times I have cried for the past three weeks, but the tears were created to flow, right 😂. I am because, my best-friend and boyfriend are. My friend is because I am 💁. So at the end of the day UBUNTU.

This episode felt special, so travel with me to Cabo Verde. One country that is not spoken enough about, maybe that's why it is a rare find 😊. You can still find me at growinglovee@gmail.com

A few examples of errors in the Bible. They might not be a big deal to you, or you might have an explanation for them. Please enlighten me at growinglovee@gmail.com. I really would love to have this conversation with you. ❤️

Let's talk about faith today. As a certified doubter, I am not going to hell. Please reach out at growinglovee@gmail.com

Age is not a deadline. And there is so much beauty in getting older.

Little big miracles of not minding your business and I am grateful for y'all who minded mine.

People you don’t think deserve love…are loved anyway. Not by you, but they probably don’t care about you not loving them. While you are harboring hatred in your heart, isn’t it better to free them for your heart?

Sha at this point, I also don't know. With the current politics in Rwanda, Congo, Israel, Palestine, I hope we all find it in ourselves to be more loving towards each other, even though it is tough especially to those involved.

Could be conspiracy or overthinking, the underlying message is ‘it gets better’. 🫰

Being jobless in this economy is no joke. But being surrounded by love takes a load off. In this episode, I talk about how Love found me and is still finding me while unemployed ❤️

Some friendships are not meant to last forever, and that’s okay. But when they end, how do we go about closure in a loving way? This is my personal experience, it might not apply to you, or it might. Take what resonates with you and leave what doesn’t❤️

« Uzangaye guhera ntuzangaye gutinda », à Kinyarwanda proverb (somehow) translating to « condemn me for not showing up, but don’t condemn me for delaying ». So here I am 🥳, in all of my glory. And happy new year 😂🎉.

Online has pros and cons! You might get so caught up in it that you loose the relationship and the personal touch, but it can also serve as a tool that strengthens the relationship you have if used right. Thank you Sy🤍

Friendship is an ever-changing landscape, and technology has both positive and negative influences on it. With social media dominating our lives, Sylvie shares with us how she sees it impacting the way we connect with others. And her experience with online friendship.

Thank you INKOTANYI for laying your lives down for the sake of Rwanda. We are because of you. To the survivors, we honor you, and grateful you are here. We remember so as to not forget. We remember to honor the lives lost during the genocide. We remember, so that we can move forward in the right direction. Few free resources: https://international-review.icrc.org/sites/default/files/reviews-pdf/20...

Friendship is an ever-changing landscape, and technology has both positive and negative influences on it. With social media dominating our lives, Sylvie shares with us how she sees it impacting the way we connect with others. And her experience with online friendship.

Today I am more proud to be an African, the wisdom of our ancestors that guided their way of living held a friend in high places. Regardless of the many countries in Africa or the thousands languages, one thing is common, proverbs. While writing this episode, nostalgie hit me. Imigani(proverbs or tales) from our grandparents, our older siblings, teachers,…

What are our expectations from friends in regards to what we do? How do we view/implement support towards our friends? What if support collides with personal values? That’s what we are talking about in this episode.

This is a continuation from the last conversation with Clare. People hang out real good but can’t count on each other in times of need- are they friends? Remember to check ‘Intentionalroute’ on IG