Forever Love

"I'm happy in my singlehood and have a desire for a Christ-following man. I've been divorced for 6 years from a toxic marriage. I still have fears about finding the right man for me that is on the same spiritual path as me. How do I overcome those fears? - Angie The Bible tells us to "fear not". This command does not come from God because He expects us to never experience fear. The emotional exper...

What is my role in going from just talking to a Christ-centered relationship that leads to marriage? In today's episode, we're going to talk about the importance of intention. If you would like to make an offer of your love, time, and affection towards another person, you must be clear about your intentions. Sadly, single women often negate their responsibility in nurturing a relationship because...

I saw a man whose wife died and within 3-5 months he was remarried. They say that God did the whole thing and I don't really doubt it. Why do some people attract a mate so readily while others might wait a lifetime? In this episode, we're going to talk about the problems that arise when we over-commit to a particular thought and how to determine which thoughts are worth dwelling on. I'll explain w...

Is having a non-negotiable list ruining my chances of marriage?  Thank you so much Kimmie for asking this question. The short answer is NO! BUT... You need to evaluate your list of non-negotiables and make sure they really are non-negotiable. Sometimes we have a habit of collecting a lot of ideas and expectations about what a relationship should look like and we turn this into a laundry list...

Welcome to Season 4 Summer Shorties. This summer, I will be dropping short and sweet episodes every week that are based on questions that are being asked in the community. Today's question comes from Apryl. She asks; "When your date triggers you, is it a red flag to get out, or is it a sign to work on something within?" I love this question, and in today's episode, we're going to break it down. I'...

It's important to figure out what's most important to you and start making decisions for yourself that honor your God-given desires. In this episode, I share: how to figure out an action plan Consider your time, money, and energy as tools and resources How to avoid turning money into an idol Determine how you want to live in a way that is good for you and brings glory to God.  I also want to invit...

Honor Your God-given desire for marriage by learning how to identify the 5 ways you might be trying to spiritually bypass important opportunities for growth. Discover the Christ-centered path to showing up for love and romantic relationships without fear, anxiety, or self-sabotage. If you would like to attend the next [FREE] Masterclass Live, please sign up here right away   https://www.prove...

"A wise woman builds up her house but the foolish pulls it down with her own hands" Proverbs 14:1 We all engage in self-sabotage from time to time. It's one of the ways we attempt to protect ourselves in the moment, but end up inadvertently hurting ourselves in light of eternity. In today's episode, I'm sharing my own experience of self-sabotage as well as how to manage and avoid it in the future....

We all have blind spots in our lives. Today, I wanted to share how coaching can help hold up a mirror for our minds so that we can see the blind spots. In order to do that I decided to share my own of my own coaching sessions with you. In this episode, you'll hear me get coached on the feelings of panic and anxiety I've been feeling in the absence of my husband. Towards the end, you'll also discov...

As I’ve said before, the emotion that is driving an action can make a world of difference. In the life code the action might be the same, Saying, if you do X I will do Y… But if that statement is being fueled by fear… it’s probably being used to control or manipulate the other person into doing what you want. In today's episode, we are looking at the differences and similarities between boundaries...

Be angry and do not sin - Ephesians 4:26 The mental gymnastic we go through to avoid a perfectly healthy normal emotional experience, are endless. But it doesn't have to be that way. In fact, if you will simply allow yourself to feel a negative emotion and be upset you will bounce back to your regular self. In today's episode, we're going to talk about the dangers of avoiding negative emotions and...

If you're ready to grow spiritually and emotionally as you pursue your God-given desire for marriage, listen to this! If you've been with me for a while, you know that one of my favorite things to do is coach privately. Coaching is my jam and I absolutely adore my clients. I have the honor of witnessing their growth and development and I get to use my superpowers which are 1. Identifying and expos...

How do you trust your husband when you're not together? In today's episode, I want to share with you how we made the very difficult decision to spend such a significant amount of time on opposite sides of the world.  I'll share with you HOW I avoid getting such down the negative vortex of worst-case scenarios, and more importantly, I'll explain WHY I choose to trust him.  While I'm defin...

Are you afraid of loving harder? If so, you're not alone. We all have a tendency to believe that loving more, or loving harder also means that we will increase our experience of pain and heartache. But unlike many, I believe that it's always worth it! Today, I am sharing about my latest transition from Africa to Canada and what it means to love someone more when they are far away. I'm going to sha...

In this episode, my husband and I discuss the blessings and challenges of interracial relationships. We will be answering some questions and hope that our dating and marriage experience will encourage you on your journey.  Learn more at www.proverbs2426.com

I know that’s your dream right, not to use dating apps, but to meet that special someone organically, preferably in church, and to know that God has placed him in your life, right on time. But what if your online activities and digital devices are sabotaging your ability to connect and enjoy that serendipitous moment. Well, that’s why I want to invite you to join our 31-day dating (without the app...

In this episode, we are addressing some of the problems that can occur in your journey towards marriage when tech becomes an obstacle. That's why I am inviting you to join me in March for a 31-day digital detox so that you can show up for relationships and make meaningful connections in the real world. Register for the challenge here>> https://www.proverbs2426.com/offers/v54Gmqn2 Let's talk...

What does it mean to have your best year ever? For me, it means; experiencing as much growth as possible, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally, and embracing all the discomfort and growing pains along the way. In this episode, we are going to explore the topic of letting go of the thoughts that we think sound nice, like "I'm a naturally happy and optimistic person" because they no longer serve y...

This weekend my first client got married! Watching her walk down the aisle and say her wedding vows was so much more emotional than I ever could have anticipated. The emotions were extremely powerful and I knew immediately that I want to create the same result for thousands of other women, and more importantly, that I could. In today's episode, I have two very special things to share. The first is...

There are only 3 reasons why you’re not already married and in this episode, I am going to share with you what those reasons are and why it’s so important to understand them if you want to honor your God-given desire for a Christ-centered marriage. If you’re anything like me, you probably struggle with holding space in your heart to believe you can achieve something and surrender it to God. That’s...

Learn how to get over an ex and heal your heart after a breakup  In this episode, I want to share with you the secret to healing your heart and ending your suffering in an instant. Let me explain why time does not heal all wounds and what you can do instead.  Your heart needs to hear and know the truth because that is the only thing that has the power to set you free. Grab your headphone...

Have you ever set limits and boundaries for yourself and then bulldozed right through them?  I certainly have, and it can be hard to understand why we do that. I used to think that I was just doing what I honestly wanted and then a lot of shame would rise up because I was so conflicted. What I didn't realize was the driving force behind a lot of those decisions.   It wasn't loving,...

In this episode, I will teach you the 3 secrets to overcoming unwanted sexual urges, especially masturbation. My goal is to help you stop in a way that is gentle, loving, and more effective than anything else you've tried. When you know where the urge is coming from and understand why it's there, you will begin to undo the wiring in your brain that makes you feel powerless. I can help you overcome...

Welcome behind the scenes. This is a sneak peek into my Group Coaching / Live Q&A sessions.  Masturbation is so common and yet we all feel like we are alone in this struggle. We are coming together as Christian women to talk about the challenge and what on earth we are supposed to do with these kinds of demanding temptations. Is it that bad? How do you deal with your nerves? What's the po...

Dealing with sexual urges as a single woman can feel extremely challenging. For one thing, these urges can be very strong and demanding. Plus, it's a hard topic to discuss, especially when it comes to masturbation. I frequently get asked these 2 questions; Is it a sin?  How do I stop?  In today's episode, I want to begin to address this issue and by helping us get clear and honest about...