First Comes Love Then Comes Marriage

In the final episode of Season 6, Lindsey and Aaron open up about their personal journey with faith and what it means to truly find God for yourself as an adult. Growing up in church culture can be powerful, but it can also come with confusion, pressure, and at times, distance. As many drift from faith when they leave home, Lindsey and Aaron share how their relationship with God has evolved, deepe...

In Part 2 of our heartfelt pregnancy series, Lindsey and Aaron share the deeply personal stories behind each of their children’s births. From the intensity and emotion of labor to the meaningful and sometimes surprising process of choosing names, this episode captures the beauty, chaos, and unforgettable moments of bringing life into the world. Lindsey walks us through each labor experience with h...

”It’s easy to forget the details… especially once the baby arrives. In this episode, Lindsey and Aaron take a walk down memory lane to relive the wild, wonderful, and sometimes overwhelming journey of pregnancy—from both the mom and dad perspective. Recorded as a message to their children for when they one day become parents, this episode unpacks the truth behind the glow. From pregnancy brain to...

Summer is coming… but before we talk about swimsuits and sunscreen, let’s talk about self-love. In this episode, Lindsey and Aaron get real about what it means to have body positivity—inside and out. From mental health to gut health, hair to teeth, they dive into the full picture of feeling good in your own skin. But it doesn’t stop there—things get spicy when the conversation turns to relationshi...

In this special episode, we welcome a very important member of our family—our dog, Christmas! 🐾 From the moment he entered our lives during a dark and uncertain time, Christmas brought light, love, and unexpected healing. Today, we reflect on what it means to be pet owners, how dogs truly become part of the family, and why Christmas was a divine gift just for us. Lindsey and Aaron share how raisi...

”In this week’s episode of First Comes Love Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron open up about one of their most personal and ongoing challenges—building a supportive village while living far away from their home base. As partners, parents, and individuals, they reflect on how community is essential not just for raising kids, but for sustaining a healthy relationship. This letter to their future...

On this week’s episode of  First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage , Lindsey and Aaron are getting real about MISTAKES. What’s the difference between a genuine accident and a true mistake? And once it happens—then what? The couple opens up about the times they’ve stumbled, how they made things right (or at least tried to), and how they handle the lingering feelings of regret. It's an honest and hear...

It’s a celebration! This week on  First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage , we’re showering our amazing host Lindsey with birthday love. In true podcast fashion, we turn this personal moment into a meaningful conversation about gratitude, appreciation, and the joy of celebrating life’s big  and  small wins. Aaron and Lindsey dive into what makes a good gift—is it the thought that counts, or does the...

With Mother’s Day just around the corner, it's only right we pass the mic to our podcast’s very own super mom—Lindsey! In this honest, warm, and funny episode of  First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage , Lindsey opens up about what it really takes to juggle motherhood, marriage, work, and still make time for herself. Aaron dives in with the tough and tender questions: How does she keep everythi...

What does success really look like—and are we living up to it? In this reflective and heartfelt episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron sit down to ask each other: Do we feel successful? Do our parents think we’re successful? And more importantly—are they proud of us? This week’s conversation dives into what it means to be a successful spouse, parent, and individual. Th...

Who were we  before  the diapers, dance recitals, and school drop-offs? In this heartfelt and introspective episode of  First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage , Lindsey and Aaron reintroduce themselves—not just as parents, but as people. This episode is a love letter to identity beyond parenthood. The couple shares stories, dreams, and lessons from their pre-kid life, reminding their children (and...

With Easter Sunday around the corner, Lindsey and Aaron are diving into all things  tradition ! In this episode of  First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage , they reflect on the customs their parents passed down—from getting dressed up for church to those little habits that sneak into our own parenting style. What family traditions are worth keeping? Which ones do we outgrow? And what funny or unexp...

We all fall down—but what matters most is how we get back up. In this powerful and reflective episode of  First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage , Lindsey and Aaron open up about regrets, missed opportunities, and the moments they’ve felt like they failed. But is it really  failure  if you keep going? The couple shares personal stories of setbacks, how they bounced back, and what they would (or wou...

The parent-child relationship doesn’t end when you grow up—it evolves. But how? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron dive into the expectations that parents have for their adult children—and what adult children wish from their parents in return. Should parents still give advice (even when it’s not asked for)? How much involvement is too much? And how do you n...

“What do you want to be when you grow up?” It’s the question every child is asked—but how many of us actually become what we once dreamed of? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron take a trip down memory lane to see if their childhood ambitions lined up with their real-life careers. They also dive into the deeper conversation of when to start pursuing your dre...

Heartbreak—it’s something we all experience, but how do we navigate it, heal from it, and come out stronger on the other side? In this special episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron are joined by two very special guests—Asasha and Jason Francis, the godparents of their children—to have a deep and honest conversation about love, loss, and resilience. Together, they shar...

What do you do when you’ve hurt someone you love? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their heartfelt series of letters to their children—this time offering advice on how to make things right after you've wronged your partner. The conversation starts with the foundation of accountability—owning your mistake, seeking forgiveness, and reflecting o...

Not every relationship is meant to last forever—but how do you know when it’s time to let go? In this episode of  First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage , Lindsey and Aaron have an honest conversation with their future children about recognizing when a relationship—romantic, platonic, or even professional—has run its course. They break down the signs that it’s time to walk away, the emotions that c...

Friendship isn’t just about who you grew up with—it’s about who grows with you. In this episode of  First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage , Lindsey and Aaron continue their heartfelt series of letters to their children, reflecting on friendship in adulthood. As they look back on a recent birthday party, they ask an important question:  How do you make and maintain friendships as an adult, especial...

In this thought-provoking episode of  First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage , Lindsey and Aaron continue their conversation with their three children in the future, giving them the wisdom they wish they had when they were younger. This week, they tackle a deeply personal and often debated question— knowing what you know now, would you still wait until marriage to have sex? With honesty and reflect...

In this heartfelt episode of  First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage , Lindsey and Aaron continue their conversation with their three children in the future, offering wisdom for when they reach adulthood. With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, they dive into one of the biggest relationship questions— when did you know it was real love? Was it a single moment, a feeling that grew over time, or...

Season 6 is here, and this time, we’re doing something truly special. Lindsey and Aaron are speaking directly to their three children—not as kids, but as future adults in their 30s and 40s. This season is a time capsule of wisdom, love, and life lessons, meant to guide them when they reach the same stage of life their parents are navigating now. In this premiere episode, Lindsey and Aaron dive int...

"Love Comes When You Least Expect It" - Season Finale Celebration | First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage S5E22 🎉 Welcome to the grand finale of Season 5 of "First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage"! In Episode 22, Lindsey and Aaron delve into the heartwarming cliché, "Love comes when you least expect it." Join us as we celebrate the unexpected moments of love that hav...

In Episode 21 of Season 5 of "First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage," we tackle the age-old cliché, "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me." Join Lindsey and Aaron as they delve into the complexities of forgiveness in relationships, exploring how to navigate betrayal and rebuild trust. 💔❤️In this episode, our hosts discuss the concept of "forgiveness lang...

⚖️ In Episode 20 of Season 5 of "First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage," we explore the insightful cliché, "You can be right or you can be happy." Join our hosts as they discuss the art of choosing your battles in relationships and when it's better to prioritize happiness over being a know-it-all. 💑❤️ In this episode, we dive into the dynamics of compromise, understanding,...