Done Being Single

Getting triggered by things/people/events is debilitating and defeating, and it keeps happening. You might get triggered because of an old wound that hasn't healed, a memory that keeps replaying, or buttons that keep getting pushed. You also get triggered by the stories you tell yourself, and the unprocessed emotions you still carry. But there's hope and help on the way, and her name is Veronica G...

Anybody can be a master of seduction, you don't need sex appeal, a ton of money, or movie star looks. You just need to meet the unmet need in someone. A really good seduction is invisible, and it's everywhere. Life is a seduction, love is a seduction, even sales is a seduction. It happens on micro levels throughout your day. You can be a master of seduction. Tune in this week to hear our guest psy...

Choking under pressure and performance anxiety are dating killers. Fear of failure will singlehandedly sabotage any budding relationship if you do not get a handle on it. On this weeks episode, clinical psychologist Aimee Daramus shares her expert techniques to build confidence, stay calm, and relax under pressure, especially when the dating stakes are high.

Like it or not, politics is everywhere: social media, around the dinner table, and in our personal lives. Politics have divided families, broken up friendships, and turned dating into a minefield. Can you love someone but hate their politics? Can you date someone across the aisle? Can we save our relationships from mutual destruction? The answer is yes, and our guests this week are going to tell y...

A real life "Hitch," Thomas Edwards is a mans transformation coach and the founder of The Professional Wingman. When it comes to dating and relationships, he is mans best friend. Guys, if you want to sharpen your social skills, smooth out your rough edges, increase your confidence, and up your game, take a page out of Thomas professional wingman playbook and tune in

It's no secret that love is hard to find, but there is a secret to manifesting it faster, and keeping it longer. Our guest this week is Arielle Ford, international best-selling author, and relationship expert. As an advocate of the Law of Attraction, Arielle tells us how to magnetize love by trusting the process, being mindful of negative thoughts, and understanding the power of surrender. Love is...

What stops daters from becoming haters? Attitude. A good attitude is man-magnet a bad attitude is a chick repellent. The choice is yours. It's all about your mindset, and it's all about to change. Dating haters, give us 60 minutes and we'll change your attitude forever. With relationship expert, love coach, best-selling author, and the smartest woman in the room, Susan Winter.

Just like sports, dating requires endurance, stamina, power and strength. Being single is like a long distance race and a sprint all at the same times. It will kick your ass! And just like an athlete, you need training. You need skills and strategy, mental toughness and discipline, and great coaches to guide you. With Gary Collins, with best-selling author, military intelligence officer, and colle...

Codependency, low self-esteem, poor boundaries, whatever your issue, if you don't fix it, you're destined to date it. Your unresolved issues will keep showing up in the form of people you date, and play out in your relationships. If you want to get healthy, and attract healthy partners, the cycle must stop. Instead of waiting around for others to change, you can empower yourself to change. Learn h...

In one word, YES. 27 years after John Gray's best-selling book, "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus," little has changed in the way we communicate our needs with each other. Women still need to be heard, men still need to be needed. Women want safety, men want solutions. But times have changed too, so have the dynamics. Author & relationship counselor John Gray brings us up to speed with best...

You want to be real with who you are, and what you want in life. You want to be honest with your partner about your needs, goals, desires, issues, and fears, but how? How do you open up and be your true self without scaring the shit out of someone? This week, we're giving you all the tools and courage you need to stand up, speak up, and be your authentic self, with the help of licensed therapist a...

It's true, looks aren't everything, but they do count for something. Whether you're newly single or single forever, you gotta look good. You've got to make an effort, practice self-care, and take pride in your personal presentation. Remember, dating (especially online) is visual! To help you look your best, we're bringing in the experts: Image consultant and confidence coach, Kimberly Seltzer, and...

Masculinity might be about money, power, and success, but it's also about having the strength to be vulnerable, sensitive, and emotionally honest. A real man can be both, he just needs to know how. Joining us to discuss the truth about masculinity, and how men can find their true worth and value, is blogger, life coach, and therapist, John Kim.

From prenups to premarital counseling, if you're getting married at midlife, you need to be equipped. You might be older, but you need to be wiser too. We're talking legal, financial, and family matters, and how to negotiate it all. To help you navigate the process, we're bringing in the experts: family attorney Lauren Petkin, and licensed marriage and family therapist, Virginia Gilbert.

Whether you have a secure style, an anxious style, or avoidant style, when you figure out attachment theory, you'll figure out everything. It's literally the missing link to life, love, and all relationships. And no one knows this better than our guest this week, Dr. Gary Salyer, the authority on attachment theory. Tune in and find out how you can identify your style and create the love you deserv...

It doesn't matter who you are, what you look like, or how successful you are, even the best of us get dumped. Smart, successful, beautiful, it happens to everyone. The key is knowing where you went wrong, not taking it personally, and using the lesson to propel you forward. Our guest this week is internationally acclaimed dating coach Renee Slansky, who just happens to be smart, successful and bea...

If you think there's some magical formula to meeting people and getting dates, think again. It's really a combination math equation and law of physics. More effort plus wider net equals bigger pay-off. Our guest this week, dating coach Mike Goldstein of EZ Dating, uses data from the major online dating sites to get an 83% success rate for his clients. Play your numbers right and tune in. It might...

Ever wonder how rockers ever get married and stay married? In a business not exactly known for loyalty or longevity, you're about to meet a married couple who's managed to accomplish both. John Cowsill of the Cowsill Family, best known for the hit song "Hair," and Vicki Peterson of the Bangles, have been married for over 15 years and going strong. And now, they're sharing their stories about findi...

Inside every guy there's an inner stud that's just dying to get out, and this week, dating & relationship expert Spencer Burnett is making it happen. Whether you want to connect with your alpha male, develop your natural charisma, get out of the friend zone, or leverage your sexy nerd, now's the time and episode to do it! Learn skills, techniques, and new approaches to dating, and lasting relation...

You just got divorced, just ended a relationship, or your BF/GF just dumped you. You're suddenly single, now what? How fast do you get back on the market? Should you online date, get fixed up, take a break, or get laid as fast as possible? Should you get a makeover, cut your bangs, hit the gym, or hire a shrink? You've got questions, we've got answers. Giving you great advice is dating coach & rom...

If you've ever been cheated on, lied to, or betrayed, you know the pain. If you've ever cheated, lied, or betrayed someone, you also know the pain. It cuts both ways, so does the guilt, shame, and humiliation, which can be devastating to all parties concerned. Is it the death knell, or can a relationship survive? This week, Anita Chlipala MFT shares her practical tips, tools, and therapy insights,...

Ever wonder what dating is like across the pond? Are Brits any different than Americans in how they meet, greet, match, swipe and connect? This week, acclaimed British sex writer, dating expert/historian, and former dominatrix, Nichi Hodgson chats with us about the culture of dating, and shares her insider tips on dating apps, romance, and secrets from the sexual underworld.

Money can be a tricky subject in marriages, relationships, even when you're dating. Who pays? Who has the power? Who makes the rules? Does the balance shift when the woman makes more money? How do you set boundaries with money? Does it really buy you love? This week, financial therapist Kine Corder tackles the tricky subject of love & money, so you don't have to tackle it yourself.

Welcome to single life at midlife: a new and exciting time to be on the market. You've got freedom, hot sex, independence, choices galore. The advantages of being single at this age are many, but so are the perils. This week, we're giving you everything you need to stay strong and sane, equipped and empowered, in the new post-50 dating world. Joining us with expert tips and tools are midlife inspi...

When it comes to love, attraction, and commitment, all it takes is a good astrologer and some planetary alignments to see if you (and your partner) have what it takes. Beyond sun signs and drug store horoscopes, professional Vedic astrologer Carol Allen tells us what to look for in a mate, in a chart, and in the heavens, so you can determine what the perfect match is for you.