Disability After Dark

Episode Notes Happy Turdsday to you all!  On episode 4 of This Shit Is Real, I chat with Tan as we have a laugh about endometriosis and poo.  He shares how endometriosis invaded his colon, how doctors sent home when he was shitting blood, vomiting and pooping at the same time + so much more hilarious moments.  Enjoy!   I wanna know how poo affects you!  Be a part of this series by e-mailing disabi...

Episode Notes Back in summer 2021, I got to sit down with Lindsay Mixer, who shines a light on her experiences with fibromyalgia, blood clots, PTSD, and autism.  We dive into the importance of fan fiction and how it can be a safe space to explore disability, queerness and so much more.  This was a fun one to do, and I hope you enjoy listening! You can connect w/ Lindsay on Twitter here: https://tw...

Episode Notes Happy Turdsday to you all.  On today’s episode of This Shit Is Real, I talk with Emma Hayes about her experiences of gastroparesis, why we both have a love/hate relationship with cheesecake, how she almost barfed while making out + so much more! Follow Emma on IG at: www.instagram.com/emmalump   I wanna know how poo affects you!  Be a part of this series by e-mailing disabilityafterd...

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Episode Notes In episode 296, I sit down with Max Charney, a trans teen living with Tourette’s, and a Youth Ambassador of Tourette Association of America.  We talk about teenagehood with Tourette’s, misconceptions, dating, disability and a whole lot more.  Enjoy!  You can follow Max on Instagram here: instagram.com/maximus__ts   Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing disabilityafter...

Happy Turdsday to you friends.  On episode 2 of This Shit Is Real, I sit down with fellow wheelchair user Gift Tshuma about being gimps with gut stuff; we talk about needing care when you have gastrointestinal stuff, shame, guilt, how we wish they’d create a wheelchair you can poo in and so much more!     Follow Gift on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/gift-tshuma/   I w...

On episode 295, I invite Cam Fraser back on Disability After Dark to talk about my own experiences with premature ejaculation and disability.  We take a deep dive into my shame around it, experiences of it where ableism was a factor and Cam offers me some possible tips and tricks to stop the shame and so much more.  This was an important episode.  Enjoy!   You can follow a...

Happy Turdsday! On this first episode of This Shit Is Real, I sit down with porn star Haskell Holland as he tells us about his experiences of poo living with ulcerative colitis.  We talk about his experiences of poo, porn, shame, hilarious poo moments and more.  Enjoy!  Connect with Haskell Holland here: http://transturbation.com/   I wanna know how poo affects you!  Be a...

On episode 294, I sit down with Australia’s Leading Men’s Sex Coach Cam Fraser to let him ask me questions about sex and disability. We explore language, how to make Cam’s coaching practice more accessible, Cam interrogates some of his own ableism and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow and support Cam Fraser here: https://linktr.ee/camfraser400 Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailin...

On Episode 293, we’re talking all about accessible housing and home modifications with CEO of Rose, Cameron Carter. Cameron talks with us about why he created Rose to connect individuals who need home modifications and certified contractors who understand the importance of accessible housing to the quality of life for disabled people. Cameron talks about his personal connections to disability, his...

In episode 292, I sit down with disabled filmmaker Cameron S. Mitchell as he shares why he is so passionate about disability in film. He shares why disability is so important in his life and in his work, and why we need more disability in film. We talk about his important film projects, interdependence and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Cameron S. Mitchell at www.cameronsmitchell.com or IG at...

Welcome back to A Bump’n Podcast! This month at Bump’n, we talked a lot about bottoming & Andrew wrote a blog post all about his fears of bottoming as a disabled person. Andrew reached out to his friend David who has CP and has bottomed, and David gives Andrew some important tips and the confidence to know he can bottom if he wants. We were originally going to use the audio just for the blog,...

Welcome to the Tangent City Podcast! On episode 291 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with fellow chronically ill podcaster Lauren Freedman, host of The Uninvisible Podcast. We talk about all things chronic illness, pop culture, other podcasts, the “wellness space”, internalized ableism and so much more. You can follow Lauren and the Uninvisible Podcast here: www.uninvisiblepod.com Apply now to...

In episode 290, I sit down with content creator Spencer West as we talk about everything from disability to why Teddy Ruxpin is a homosexual. We talk candidly about ableism and accessibility within the queer community, and it felt really awesome to have a conversation about all the things regarding disability with Spencer. I had a blast with this one, and hope you enjoy it! See acast.com/privacy f...

In Episode 289, I sit down with three co-founders of the Harvard Undergraduate Disability Justice Club; Emma, Sarika and Melissa, as they share with me their passion for disability justice but also how inaccessible Harvard can be. They share with me why they started HUDJC, some inaccessibility they’ve each faced on campus + so much more. This one is really cool and important! Enjoy! You can connec...

In this bonus episode of Disability After Dark, I sit down with my friend Maisha Elonai as we explore her experiences of disability through discussions of Bipolar II, morbid obesity, surprise institutionalization, kink and so much more. CW: This episode does explore suicidality, self-harm, sexual assault and other heavy themes. Maisha talks about how kink is cathartic for her and so much more. Enj...

On Episode 288, I sit down with my new friend Jennifer Decker as we talk about her experiences in queerness, disability and having Cerebral Palsy. We hear about her journey of self-acceptance and self-love, and sometimes just how difficult all that can be when you have all these different identities and labels to contend with. We talk about a lot here, and I genuinely enjoyed this one! You can con...

On episode 287, to close out March as Cerebral Palsy Awareness Month, I sit down with my friend, playwright and actor, Ryan Haddad. We talked about his play, “Hi, Are You Single?” that chronicles his life as a gay disabled man. We talk about the importance of plays like this, queerness, sex and disability, ableism and so much more. Ryan is fabulous and so is this episode. Enjoy! You can go see HI,...

On episode 4 of A Bump’n Podcast, Heather and Andrew sit down with disabled dom and fellow CPer Raivynn Darqueangel to celebrate Cerebral Palsy Awareness Month! YAY! She tells us all about her experiences being a disabled dom, why she loves sex in her disability hoist, and of course we explore why she loves the Bump’n Joystick + so much more! Enjoy! You can follow Raivynn here: https://www.instagr...

In episode 286, I sit down with disabled entrepreneur and host of The Pleasure Rebels Podcast, Kelly Gordon. We talk about her life with Spinal Muscular Atrophy, her sex life and her interabled relationships, being a disabled mum to 2 boys + so much more. I loved this one, and I hope you do too. You can follow Kelly here: https://linktr.ee/mskelgee Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mai...

On episode 285, I sit down with my close friend and regular travel attendant, Rita. We talk about some of our experiences traveling together, and why our relationship is so important for me to experience the world because many care systems aren’t structured to allow attendants to travel. Rita shares how we met, what it’s like doing my care, and what it’s like having a disabled child + so much more...

In episode 284, I have one of the queerest, most disabled conversations ever as I sit down with David Adelman. We explore his experiences of growing up as gay and disabled, we talk bottoming when you have CP, his kinks, we flirt a little + so much more! Get ready for a real, honest, sexy chat about disability. Enjoy! You can follow David here: https://linktr.ee/DavidAdelman Apply now to be on Disa...

On episode 283 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with best-selling author Tracee Garner. Our interview encompasses her experiences with Muscular Dystrophy, our mutual experiences of caregiving with family members, and Tracee also talks about the need for black, disabled love stories, so she is writing them + so much more. Enjoy! Connect with Tracee at www.traceegarner.com and please buy her boo...

In episode 26 of Quarantine & Chill (the series that you never know when it’ll drop), I sit down with Crystal as we explore her experiences of Lupus and auto-immune diseases during the pandemic. She shares what she would say to those who don’t believe in the pandemic, we talk about disability, loneliness and empathy during the pandemic + so much more! Enjoy! Come be a guest on Quarantine &...

In Episode 282, I sit down with black content creator Karneshia Shantel as we explore her experiences with Spina Bifida, being the only disabled person in her town, why we have to create our own table instead of asking for a seat at yours, media representation of disabled folks, modeling and more! Enjoy! You can follow Karneshia here: https://linktr.ee/Kshantel Apply now to be on Disability After...