Disability After Dark

This episode explores my very first time having sex with someone. In the episode, I talk about how I felt before sex, how I felt during, and the affect that this experience had on me after. I share this moment to highlight how inextricably linked my disability is to my sexuality, and what that means for me.

In this episode I interview Amber DiPietra of The Body Poetik. We explore her road to be a sexually liberated disabled person as we discuss the disabled body; sex work, disability and so much more!!

In this episode, I talk to Health Activist and Blogger, Kirsten Schultz. She has created the #ChronicSex hashtag and movement around chronic illness, sexuality and disability. The interview was so much fun and so, so important. Masturbation is only one of the many things we talk about. Enjoy!

This episode is pretty easy to swallow... it's all about oral sex and how that can look and feel; both giving and getting head, when you are disabled.

This is interview might just be one of my most favorites to record. I interviewed disability writer and activist Emily Ladau about dating as a women with disabilities, and we went off on so many tangents, I cant even tell you; sexy pantsuit CD covers, dead turtles twins, awkward disabled dates, representation of disabled women in media; we cover so many topics...and giggle our way through them....

In this episode, I interview disabled comic Ted Shiress from the UK about his experiences with sex, dating and disability. He's really funny and his sense of humour and honesty give us a great episode.

In this episode, we talk about clothes. We look at how clothing determines sex appeal, and how clothing choices for the disability community to express their sensuality are extremely limited. We also look at what clothes mean, and the reality of dressing up and down when disabled

In this episode, I interview my best friend, disabled woman, Kristen Williams. We talk a little about her experiences as a wheelchair user online, and we also discuss the need for more supports for women with disabilities who experience violence. Some pretty raw and real stuff in this interview that you won't want to miss.

In this episode, I talk about vulnerability as it relates to sex and disability, and why I think vulnerability is important, but fucking scary too, as a Queer Cripple.

In this episode, I talk to fellow sex educator Jerome Stuart Nichols. He runs LTAsex.com . We talk about race, weight, sex, mental health, disability and queerness in this jam packed episode!

This episode looks at sex, disability and queerness from a very activist lens. I re-discover how crucial activism is to the work I do. I interview pansexual, queer, disabled activist Bekah Bailey, as we talk about how her experiences as a Little Person have informed her understanding of queerness, sexuality and activism. Also, she has a really funny blowjob story!

Pretty sure the title says it all. This episode looks at the embarrassing moments that happen when you are trying to get laid when disabled. I share some of my stories that make me giggle around gimp sex; I give you an inside scoop to the comedy in cripple copulation. "Dead Turtle Position", Porn Playing on Its Own, and other gimpy get-it on gems! I hope you like them and laugh with me a...

This episode, I interview sex columnist and sex worker Devon Delacroix about his experiences working with clients with disabilities.

In this episode, I share with you as a disabled queer man, what makes me cum. What gets me off. We always talk about the mechanics of sex and disability, and for this one I wanted to focus on the more sensual side. I share my personal tricks and triggers to orgasm as a queer crip.

This episode was powerful. I interviewed fellow podcaster and sex educator Chris Maxwell Rose of Pleasure Mechanics.com and The Speaking of Sex Podcast. She has recently been dealing with a new diagnosis of Type 1 Diabetes. We explore and uncover what this diagnosis of disability has meant for her journey into pleasure and pain. There are so many things she said that resonated for me, as a disable...

This episode is a fun interview with my friend and fellow disabled writer Carrie Wade. We sit down to chat with her about Kink, open letters to able-bodied partners, vulnerability and so much more, as she highlights why it is important for her to tell these stories. She is an important voice in the disabled community, and especially for young, queer disabled women, and I was happy to share space w...

In this episode, I interview my good friend, sex educator and author Kaleigh Trace. We talk about disability and sexuality broadly at first, but then we explore the issues of passing privilege, embarrassing sex stories as a result of disability, and so much more. Find out more about Kaleigh Trace at www.kaleightrace.com .

This is a throwback episode for me where I share my stories as a young, teenaged queer cripple. I talk about wanting to fit in, wanting sex, and most of all wanting friendship as a young, disabled teen. Through these stories, I hope to provide insight for young cripples coming up in the world, as well as their parents, who may well want to understand how their child's experience in high school as...

This episode was so awesome to tape. I talked to my friend Stacie who recently came out to me as a "devotee" (def: someone sexually attracted to disability). I was fascinated by this because as disabled people we have been taught that devotees are dangerous. I wanted to understand what her relationships as a devotee were like, and understand it more. She explains about her attraction, he...

DisabilityAfterDark on the Dancefloor! In this episode, I talk about my experiences entering the sexually charged spaces that make up the club scene from the perspective of a queer cripple. I talk about getting ready to go to the club, what it feels like to be unable to enter the club due to inaccessibility, and what actually happens to you once your in 'da club. I suggest that we need both physic...

In this episode, I have the opportunity to interview Kelle Carbone; grad student and trans man. We discuss the similarities between the transgender community and the disabled community within our own experiences, and advocate the need for more intersections between the two groups.

In this episode, I go deeper into the topic of dating and disability, discussing the difference between WOULD and SHOULD when it comes to dating with a disability. I also share how it feels for us, the disabled to date and what that means. I hope this episode shines a light on dating and disability more than it has been before.

In this episode, entitled "Accessing Anal", I talk about how inaccessible anal sex has seemed to me as a Person with Disabilities, but that I've always wanted to try it, but felt that I simply couldn't. I talk about issues like cleanliness, pain, spasticity, and advocate that we should have more information around anal sex and disability. I also maybe refer to myself as a human dildo. En...

In this episode, we go deep into how sex and disability, and all the issues that surround that, can lead to a type of sexual depression and anger connected to disability. I explain what that felt like for me as a Queer Cripple, and advocate for space to be made where the sexually active disabled person, can share their experiences.

In this episode, I talk about another myth around sex and disability. The "oooooh, we can't have sex because I'll hurt you" myth. We go deep into why people are so afraid to 'hurt' disabled people, and how this affects their views on sex and disability. I also share that some of us might like pain, and discuss why this is the case.