Disability After Dark

In this random minisode I talk about the viral success of my hashtag #DisabledPeopleAreHot; where it came from, why it is important, what I wanna do with it and more. Enjoy!

In this episode, I sit down with LA based comedienne Danielle Perez. We chat about devotees, the challenges of hunting for good d*ck in Los Angeles when you're a wheelchair user, internalized ableism, and Danielle talks about a new romantic comedy she is writing that will have a disabled lead actress! Enjoy! Be sure to support our new sponsor: Oleb Books, who have launched a Personal Essay Contest...

In this episode, I share with you some GREAT sex I had recently, and discuss how ableism can be a constant bedfellow. I share my anger over not being able to jerk a lover off, or give him head in the way I want due to limited fine motor function. I explore how that anger made me feel in the moment, and consider what you can do if you have better gross motor functions than fine motor skills. Lastly...

In this episode, I sit down with freelance writer in sex and disability, Spencer Williams. We talk about his work as a Vice Columnist writing about the personal side of sex and disability. He also shares his experience being featured in a documentary about his work with sex surrogates and sex workers. We share in those experiences; talking about shame, fear and stigma... and it was nice to be in a...

On this episode, I sit down with fan turned guest Roxie, who e-mailed me a few weeks ago saying that she listened to the show, and it was helping her get through her own internalized ableism as a woman with Cerebral Palsy raising two kids. We have a really important conversation that dives into things like financial abuse, emotional abuse, kinks, ableism, self-esteem, disability and so much more....

In this episode, I review the film Margarita with a Straw. It's a movie that came out in 2014 about an Indian woman with Cerebral Palsy who is experimenting her sexuality. I talk about how this film is ableist in so many ways, share some funny anecdotes about the film, and even highlight how my views on actors "cripping up" has changed. Enjoy!

In this episode, I sit down with porn star Pierce Paris about his new scene with quadriplegic porn star, Kenneth Connin. We talk all about this new scene produced by Himeros. TV and the importance of having disabled porn stars like Kenneth. I ask him about what it was like working with a disabled star; some of the considerations, accessibility, whether disabled people give great head and so much m...

In this episode, I take a look at typical first date foods, and consider how accessible or inaccessible they might be if you had to be fed by a partner. I explain why asking the question "Would you shove this in my mouth?" is both playful and important. I also give tips to non-disabled partners on how to help your disabled lover eat and more. Enjoy!

As a special treat, I have decided to release the Patreon Bonus Chat with Charlie Garner from Episode 120. We talk about hospitals, doctors, medications, orgasms, disability and so, so much more. If you pledge $1 a month or more to www.patreon.com/cripplecontent you get these bonuses first! Hope you enjoy!

In this interview, I sit down with a DisabilityAfterDark fan turned guest from the UK, who wrote into me telling me how important the show is to her, and then proceeded to tell me of her deathly allergy to sperm, and how that affects her sex life. I knew I wanted her on the show. We talk about her sperm allergy and how that has affected her, IBS, fibromyalgia, sexual trauma and a whole lot more. T...

In this episode, I sit down with Cameron Glover, host of a new podcast Sex Ed in Color, as she comes out to us as a QPOC living with chronic pain. I heard of her work when she shouted out this podcast on Twitter. I started following her, listening to her show, and I fell in love with her work immediately. We have such a great chat about disability, sexuality, chronic pain, POC, I come out as femme...

Surprise! In this Bonus Episode of "When I Was A Disabled Kid", I sit down with writer Wendy Lu to talk about her experiences as a disabled kid with a trach; what it was like having a nurse with you 24/7, trying to make friends and be independent and so, so much more about her disabled childhood. You can follow all of Wendy's work on Twitter at @wendyluwrites . You can also follow my wor...

In this episode, I sit down with author, producer and soon to be TV personality, Ryan O'Connell. We talk about his experience of Cerebral Palsy and gay identity, and trying to bring that into the public sphere with his up and coming TV show, "Special". We also chat about wanting boys to ask us out on weekend dates as disabled guys, disability activism and queerness, his experience of sex...

This episode I sit down with my friend, sex worker and porn star, Raj. We have a chat about what it was like for him to have sex with a disabled lover - me. We talk about our experiences having sex together, and I ask him what that must have felt like for him; was he nervous? Was he scared he'd hurt me because I was disabled? Am I a good disabled lover? All this and more will be revealed in this e...

In this episode, I come out about my experiences working with sex workers as a queer disabled man. I share why I made the decision, some good and not-so-good experiences working with sex workers when disabled, and I offer tips and tricks to disabled clients on how to make the sessions about your agency and your pleasure. I share how sex work helped me gain self-confidence as a disabled man and so...

I wanted to do something special today. You may have heard on the show that I'd be releasing When I Was A Disabled Ki episodes exclusively on Patreon. BUT - I wanted to gift you with the first episode of When I Was A Disabled Kid - as a thank you for supporting the show DisabilityAfterDark and Cripple Content Creations. This first episode is with my friend; author, disabled activist Carrie Wade. W...

In this episode, I talk with disabled, queer photographer, Robert Andy Coombs. We talk about how he became disabled and how he felt about that, his amazing photography work centering disabled, male sexuality and why he is a badass in the bedroom. This one is funny, raw, sexy, and I definitely spent half the episode flirting with Robert! Enjoy. Links to all of Robert's work can be found at his webs...

In this episode, I sit down with award winning author and journalist, Belo Cipriani as we talk about navigating the world as a blind gay man; everything from how he became blind to the accessibility of gay hook up culture is openly explored. Of course, we have some laughs too. Enjoy! You can follow Belo's work by heading over to his website: www.belocipriani.com.

In this episode, I talk with Jewish sex educator and behavior specialist, Galia Godel. She works as a sex educator around sexual health and intellectual disabilities. We talk about how to talk about sex and sexuality with intellectually disabled people. She shares some experiences working with intellectually disabled clients, we talk consent, intellectual disabilities and so much more. Follow Gali...

In this episode, we sit down with writer, activist and disability badass, Ace Ratcliff. We talk about things dislocating during sex, revealing your identity as an ambulatory wheelchair user, and we talk to Ace about how their use of pronoun they/them is directly related to their disabled identity. You can follow Ace at @MortuaryReport on Twitter, or hit up their website at www.stayweirdbekind.com...

In this episode, we look at tips and tricks for a sexy, disabled sleepover, and how a lot of the tips in popular culture around sleepovers aren't accessible to disabled people. We look at things like phone etiquette, scent needs, bringing stuff in a discreet bag (how inaccessible is that when you have wheelchairs?) and so much more. Follow the show on Twitter at @disaftdarkpod and pledge to the sh...

In this episode, find out why I have "Queer Cripple" tattooed on my chest, and how all my tattoos connect to my sexuality and my disability. Let me know if I should get a sexy pin up tat or not. I tell you the story of when I got a tattoo to impress a boy, and so much more. Enjoy!

In this episode, I sit down with Sara Camps, an autistic queer person whose gender is cat lady. We talk about how autism affects her experience of intimacy. Sara talks about running a queer disability support group at a University, and suggests ways that University groups can engage with intersectional identities better. We talk about her relationship with her cishet husband, and so much more. Enj...

In this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Karolyn Gehrig, creator of the #HospitalGlam hashtag about sexuality, disability, and so much more. Our conversations touch on Karolyn's experience of EDS, her "How Much Blood is Too Much Blood", talking about the right to die and then getting her pussy eaten out with a date, and lots more. Follow Karolyn on Twitter here: @karolynprg Go to K...

In this episode we chat with relationship and sexual wellness coach Kat Nantz. We go into her experience of Charcot Marie Tooth Disease and how that plays into sexuality for her. We also chat about grieving disability, BDSM, Kink and Power with Disability, Parenting and Disability and so much more. You can follow Kat's work at www.katnantz.com