DIEKE - The Podcast

I explore the concept of sexual energy, its various purposes, and how it is intertwined with creativity, healing, and overall vitality. I discuss the misconceptions around sex driven by societal teachings and presents alternative perspectives rooted in tantric and Taoist practices. I delve into the importance of understanding both the outward and inward flow of sexual energy, the role of sexual en...

I share a personal story about hitting a rough patch in my relationship. I felt disconnected, unhappy, and blamed my partner for my struggles. Reflecting on my own upbringing and relationship patterns, I discovered emotional triggers rooted in my past. I offer valuable insights and practical exercises to find the true source of emotional pain, meet one's own needs, and co-create a conscious relati...

I used to be the woman who had it all together. Achieving, pushing, competing, thriving in a man’s world — until I wasn’t. I was constantly ‘on,’ running on stress, and didn’t even realize I was headed straight for burnout. Luckily, I got out before it was too late. But most women don’t. If you’ve ever felt like no matter how much you rest and slow down , you’re still exhausted and snap right back...

Ever wondered what it really takes to create a soulmate-relationship? In this episode, I’m sharing the secrets to building and maintaining a deep, passionate connection with your partner — one that grows stronger over time. Here’s what I dive into: What is a soulmate relationship really - and why so many people get it wrong My personal love and relationship history and how it led me to Tantra Why...

In this episode, I dive into the most common relationship traps that kills the spark and reveal the secrets to keeping the spark alive long-term. Discover: Why couples have more power than they realize to sustain passion and connection - and how the honeymoon phase can last forever Real-life examples of couples who revived their sexless marriages in just one week - you can bring the spark back! A...

Ever felt confused or ashamed about being attracted to someone else while in a relationship? You're not alone. In this episode, I dive deep into my own journey around this and share a recent personal story of my attraction to someone else, and how I turned this experience into deeper aliveness and a stronger connection with myself and my partner. Here’s what I dive into: My personal relationsh...

Ever wondered what it takes to leave the corporate world behind and start a new life on a tropical island? In this episode, I’m sharing all the juicy details about my leap of faith to Bali — from navigating the chaos of my intuition versus logic, to living without a safety net of savings or a solid plan. Here's what I dive into:  My journey from a structured career to embracing the unknown in...

In this episode, we explore: A question we get asked all the time—are we monogamous or polyamorous? Our individual relationship histories before we met each other What polyamory really means to us and how we define it in our relationship The importance of understanding each other’s definitions of relationships and commitment How learning to listen, ask questions, and understand each other’s perspe...

In this episode, my partner and I dive into: Answering your burning questions about love, sex, and attachment How to enjoy a powerful, activating connection with someone without becoming attached or feeling the need to create a relationship The reality of women’s sexuality and why women often fall in love after sex Personal stories and love experiments that reveal the complexities of attachment Th...

In this episode, I dive into: My kinky teenage fantasies and the longing to be submissive The deep, feminine desire that almost every woman yearns to experience My struggles with achieving orgasms; alone and with partners The difference between masculine and feminine power Exploring kinks, fantasies, desires and where they come from A transformative sexual experience where I got tied up Understand...

In this episode, I dive into: - Overcoming emotional numbness and dissociation - The importance of emotional fluidity in activating pleasure, aliveness, and playfulness - Breaking free from the "good girl" and people-pleasing habits, and embracing healthy expressions of anger - My personal journey from numbness to feeling and expressing emotions in a healthy way - The connection between...

In this episode, I dive into: - My tumultuous dating history filled with drama and heartbreak, including vulnerable stories of my own dramatic love experiences - The Tantric science behind polarity, desire, and attraction - Navigating attractions to others while in a relationship - My explorations of monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships - How to avoid drama in your love life - Steps to crea...

In this episode, I dive into: My life before understanding masculine and feminine energies How being disconnected from my feminine side led to faking orgasms, numbing emotions, body shaming, and hating my period A breakdown of masculine and feminine behaviors and qualities: what's their healthy and unhealthy expression The dangers of overdrive mode and how embracing healthy feminine behavior c...

In this episode I dive into: The three different and unique meanings of Tantra Why Tantra is the ultimate path to finding dynamic balance in your life, teaching you to embrace all parts of yourself How Tantra bridges the opposites between men and women or the masculine and the feminine  Changing and transforming the way we get educated from theory/mind based to body/experience based, which cultiva...

In this episode I dive into: The ‘just getting it over with handjob’ phenomenon  My personal journey about faking orgasms and treating sex like a performance The reason why sex, pleasure, and orgasm can feel like a chore for you A recent experience where I ran away from intimacy with my partner and what it taught me The truth behind why you might be shutting down sexually with your partner Five di...

In this episode we talk about:  Differences between men and women when it comes to their sexuality  How men have an inbuilt need to see women’s body parts and why we shouldn’t shame men for this Porn addiction and how porn hijacks the male brain  Our instinctual nature being way more powerful than we think and being aware of this is essential to understand ourselves and each other Why I kept attra...

In this episode we talk about:  How I struggled with men only wanting sex, but didn’t want to commit to me  How these days running away from commitment and taking responsibility seems to be a trend Why the concept of casual sex doesn’t actually exist and why you should stop having it  Valuing sex, seeing it as something sacred and how Tantra supports in this  How we met and got together and what i...

#44 How to invite him into Tantra In this episode I talk about:  A very common struggle women come to me with; what to do when he doesn’t feel like doing Tantra with me or where do I find a Tantric man? Tantric initiatresses and why the feminine often invites the masculine onto the Tantra path  Female orgasms vs male orgasms and sexuality and how this impacts the natural draw towards Tantric teach...

In this episode I talk about:  Having an experimental mindset and how it helps me overcome perfectionism and procrastination  A digital detox I did during a couples retreat and how it inspired me to start a healthy phone habits experiment  The connection between my menstruation cycle and when I am being on social media Realizing I am addicted to my phone and why calling it an addiction is importan...

In this episode we talk about:  How do you know if someone is the one  Choice and how it has made relating and commitment more difficult  Daring to keep updating and evolving your relationship in order to stay each others soulmates Compatibility and aligned values and how they are essential for being ‘right’ or ‘the one’ for each other  If it possible to find your soulmate just randomly on the str...

In the episode I talk about:  I have an in-person conversation with Debbie, one of my clients, a single-mom and entrepreneur  Being stuck in your masculine energy not knowing how to switch to your feminine energy  The doubts and resistance she was facing in making this change and investing in the feminine reset  What the feminine reset brought her and how it is different from other courses out the...

In this episode I talk about:  The importance of letting go; how I did this in order to create space for these new homes  Why cultivating feminine qualities will help you in manifesting your dreams and making your life magical The Tantric theory on manifestation  How we were able to build this home in Bali without having tons of money  The five core principles of manifestation that I have used to...

In this episode I talk about:  Why your menstruation cycle is essential in order to understand your feminine nature  How your menstruation cycle is your sexual cycle  My own period story; from getting my first period, hating it and going on birth control How I stopped with hormonal birth control after 10 years of taking it and seeing my cycle as sacred  The energetics behind the different phases o...

In this episode we talk about:  How I used to believe I am not a jealous person until I got together with Modestas  The confusions we experiences in our previous relationships on what to do we attractions to others Our experience with and conditioning around cheating and what cheating is to us What happens on a biological/instinctual level when you have sex or orgasms with someone  Expanding the v...

In this episode I talk about:  Random facts which only people who are close to me know about me My big dream, what I am calling in for this year of my life and how I manifest Being romantic, loving love and reclaiming that I am longing for a relationship and love story  Whether I want kids or not and how I was raised with two mother figures  What kind of friend I am and whether I am an introvert o...