DEAR THERAPIST

Overgiving Is NOT Who You Are Have you ever found yourself overgiving in relationships, constantly caring for others, hoping (maybe unconsciously) to be loved in return? In this episode, I explore what’s really behind this pattern and why overgiving, merging, or people-pleasing are not personality traits, but survival strategies rooted in emotional trauma. I share a client example, guide you throu...

Welcome to the first episode of the new season of Dear Therapist — a podcast where psychology, somatic healing, and energy work come together to support deep, lasting transformation. I’m Jasmin Schott Carvalheiro, a clinical psychologist, certified Somatic Experiencing trauma therapist, coach, and shamanic energy healer. After a long pause, I’m bringing this podcast back to life — and in this open...

DEAR THERAPIST meet THE OCEAN SISTERS! “Especially in this surfer lifestyle, when you see my life from outside and when I talk to friends and people in Germany they say: what`s your f**ing problem?! You should be happy the whole day! And I am like: no, I am not. Because I recognized that I am stil the same and what I was doing in Germany – I was taking those patterns and I was exactly transferring...

Can you relate to the feeling that sometimes it just seems to be TOO MUCH? To much for your body, too much for your mind, too much to handle things in a conscious and calm way and you simply feel overwhelmed?! In the new podcast episode of DEAR THERAPIST I speak about feelings of overwhelm, the different aspects of emotional, mental, physical, energetical and spiritual overwhelm and I invite you t...

In today`s episode of "DEAR THERAPIST" I spoke to a former client, Dyan Valdés (she gave me the permission to tell her name), who has been a professional musician for years, playing in well-known bands and just recently, she released her very first own single FADE AWAY. I wanted to know how she accesses creativity and we ended up having a wonderful talk about vulnerability, taking emotional risks,...

THINGS THERAPISTS SAY YOU SHOULD DOUBT  In this episode of DEAR THERAPIST I speak about things therapists say that you should doubt, question or at least not take for the only truth. This episode is actually inspired by my younger therapist self who said and did things during therapy processes which I now, after being in this business for quite a while, would not say or do like that any more....

In this podcast episode I would like to give a definition of Spiritual Psychology and point out why I think that strengthening our minds on a spiritual level became a global need. You will also get some very practical advice on what you can do when you feel like storing a lot of anxiety inside yourself. Enjoy!   FOLLOW ON INSTAGRAM: @jasminschott_psychologist WORK WITH ME https://www.jasminsc...

We hear all the times that we should have goals right?! And a vision! But what if you can`t think of a clear vision? What if your goals just don`t resonate from within? What if you just don`t have the motivation and energy to even imagine what else could be there for you to live a fulfilled life? In this episode I speak about how you can access your energy by finding out which are your self-sabota...

Did you ever hear about crystal sound healing bowls? In the new podcast episode I invited the sound healing teacher Hannah Knowlton for an interview and besides talking about her work with the sound healing bowls, she also gives a live demonstration during the podcast episode - so make sure you watch this episode also on my YOUTUBE-CHANNEL to see how she plays the beautiful bowls! 💻 It is importa...

Which aspects should you focus on when you want to boost your self-confidence? How is it even possible to stay confident and true to yourself in confusing times when outside forces feel overwhelming? In my new podcast episode I speak about the 3 key qualities to focus on for staying confident in disturbing times: 🌿 courage 🌿 clarity and 🌿 presence. I mainly focus o...

🌿Is it easier for you to change when your surrounding agrees to these changes? 🌿Do you maybe even need the ones around you to say yes to your personal growth? 🌿Do you expect them to also change and experience the benefits of healing which you tasted? 🌿How do you make them understand what they need to do to feel better? 🌿And what if they are resistant and even sabotage your own growth and heal...

What can I do to support my healing? Is there any helpful tools I can try to let go and recover from hurtful experiences in the past? In this episode I speak about holistic healing. In my opinion healing always needs to include body and mind. I consider our bodies as our healing coaches and will tell you in this episode how you should carefully listen to your body`s advise besides other aspects I...

"If you are fighting with one neighbour, the problem might be the other person. But if you are fighting with all the neighbours, then it might be you." says my client who agreed on having this talk with me. In this episode you will get a client`s perspective on what therapy can do for you. I hope this is valuable for all of you who wonder, if they should reach out for support, either to search for...

If you have suffered from traumatic experiences with closeness (both in private or in business life), it is perfectly normal to react with fear - which can be expressed in all sorts of ways (arguing, distancing, crying, doubting ...). You are not wrong. Its just your system which goes wild due to former experiences because it does not want you to live through any hurtful stuff again. For you to op...

Men or women with Impostor feelings are suffering from a consistent belief in their lack of skills and they are afraid of one day being unmasked even though they are usually very good and successful with what they do. This fear of being unmasked can cause a lot of anxiety and self-doubt. If you can relate to this topic, this real therapy session will show you how I support my client to find peace...

Let`s start this new season of DEAR THERAPIST with a very practical episode. Keep pen and paper handy and take some time to reflect on your life and how you can prepare yourself best for any new beginning ahead! I hope this episode supports you to deal better with all the little new beginnings all of us are facing in this new world right now or maybe you are at the end of a relationship, are about...

Hello and welcome to DEAR THERAPIST! I am Jasmin Schott Carvalheiro, psychologist, psychotherapist and author based in Berlin and Portugal. I created this podcast for those of you who wish for support in finding inner stability and strength when life gets tough and shaky. I also created this podcast for all of you who want to live their life to the fullest. Who not only want to find back to inner...

👋🏼Was ist deine Abschieds-Masche? Schnell weg ohne Tschüss zu sagen? Eeeewig langes Festhalten, bevor du dich trennen kannst? Ohne Drama und großen Streit geht es nie? Oder bist du eher die Person, die sicher stellt, dass sich beim Abschied so wenig wie möglich ändert, alle Freunde bleiben und überhaupt alles schön harmonisch abläuft? In dieser Folge spreche ich über das Abschied nehmen und teil...

Juhuuu! Mein erstes Buch ist erschienen!! Es ist ein psychologischer Ratgeber, der sich damit beschäftigt, welche Schritte es braucht, um aus Krisen gestärkt hervorzugehen, und wie wir nach solchen Phasen nicht sofort wieder in das same old Leistungs-Hamsterrad einsteigen, sondern nachhaltig etwas verändern und zu mehr Verbundenheit und Erfüllung im Leben finden. In dieser Folge erzähle ich dir me...

In dieser LIVE-Coaching-Session begleite ich eine Klientin dabei, für sich die Frage zu beantworten: "Wie mache ich mir weniger Freizeitstress?" Wenn das Thema "Freizeitstress" auch ein Thema ist, das dich immer mal wieder beschäftigt, hör` sehr gern in die Podcastfolge rein und ich hoffe, dass auch du vom Coaching profitierst!   📕 Hier kannst du ab dem 17.8.2020 mein Buch kaufen: https://ww...

Kennst du das? Wenn du versuchst, dich den großen Fragen des Lebens zu widmen, dann steigst du an irgend einem Punkt immer aus, weil es sich zu angsteinflößend, kompliziert oder diffus anfühlt? 😨 In dieser Podcastfolge gebe ich dir Tipps, wie du genug innere Stabilität aufbaust, um dich dann ganz mutig den grossen Fragen zu widmen - frei nach dem Motto: erst erden, dann losgehen! Am Ende der Folg...

In diesem Mitschnitt einer Coaching-Session begleite ich eine Klientin dabei, für sich die Frage zu beantworten: "Wo und wie will ich leben?" Das war für mich das erste Live-Coaching, das ich im Podcast ausstrahle und ich freue mich sehr, dass eine so tolle Sitzung dabei herausgekommen ist! Viele spannende Erkenntnisse wünsche ich auch dir! Die Folge ist definitiv etwas für dich ... ⭐️ ... wenn d...

Mein Interviewgast Hannah ist Mindfulness Trainerin für Einzelne und Organisationen und Sozialunternehmerin und hat die Inner Gardening Technik entwickelt. Was es genau damit auf sich hat und wie du damit besonders als Frau deine psychische Gesundheit stärken kannst, erfährst du in der aktuellen Podcastfolge! Am Ende der Folge leitet Hannah auch eine kurze Inner Gardening Meditation zum Mitmachen...

Oft geht die Beschäftigung mit den eigenen Träumen jedoch dann nicht über das googeln von "Was bedeutet XY im Traum" hinaus und so lassen wir das großartige Potential von Träumen ungenutzt. Wenn auch du dich dafür interessierst, wie du die Botschaften deiner Träume als unterstützende Tools für deine aktuelle Lebenssituation und wertvollen Input für dein Persönlichkeitswachstum nutzen kannst, dann...

In dieser Podcastfolge spreche ich mit Mathias über das Thema "Psychische Gesundheit von Männern".  Mathias teilt mit uns ... ⭐️... seine eigene Burn-Out-Erfahrung, die ihn letztlich zu seiner Berufung geführt hat, ⭐️... viele Tipps, wie gerade Männer früher etwas von ihrer Überforderung mitkriegen und aktiv gegensteuern können, anstatt immer noch eine Schippe drauf zu legen, ⭐️... wa...