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CRUDE #46 Frank in Berlin is joined by Effie and special guest Kenneth for a lively conversation about sex education, female pleasure, and Kenneth’s work as a squirt-shop facilitator. The episode kicks off with Effie sharing stories from her latest adventures before the Crudies dive into Kenneth’s fascinating career. Kenneth leads workshops on a wide range of sexual topics, with a particular focus...

#CRUDE 45 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest Andre Lazarus to talk about his work as a sex and relationship coach as well as his important work in trauma healing with men and women. Andre has also appeared as a sex surrogate on the hit British TV show Virgin Island, but it's his experience in trauma healing and intimacy coaching that he explores with...

CRUDE #44 Frank in Berlin and Effie in London are joined by Jonas from the Liebesapfel podcast for a bold, no-filter conversation about God, sex, religion—and all the uncomfortable overlaps in between. They get into the provocativ...

CRUDE #43 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest Posey Mehta. in to talk about the importance of kink education led by people within the community, highlighting why authentic, sub-led perspectives matter. It also takes a critical look at the UK’s laws around kink—examining how they can be discriminatory and, at times, rooted in homophobic assumptions. Al...

CRUDE #42 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest Jessica Parker to talk about sensual pleasure touch. In a live yoni massage session (audio p*rn?), Jessica talks us through her practice and skills as she massages Effie. Misty and Frank also get the oils out and engage in some good old fashioned solo-voyeruism (totally different to solo-wa*king :p ) With...

CRUDE #41 Frank in Berlin is joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest VEX about a very special gangbang with Effie and Elle, before the trio move on to conversations about Vex’s many guises and her fascinating professional career, which touches on virtually every facet of the porn industry. Vex also opens up about her sexual awakening in her 30s. The Crudies discuss solo wan*ing, the s...

CRUDE # 40 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest Paulita Pappel to talk about her role as an intimacy coordinator on film sets. Paulita has experience as a performer, producer and director in the adult industry as well as mainstream movies. The crew discuses feminist porn and Paulita's incredible biography as visionary, activist and creative genius with...

CRUDE #39 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to finally dive deep into how they each define kink and fetish, what these concepts mean to them personally, and how they shape their relationships, identities, and everyday lives. In this episode, the trio explores the differences and overlaps between kink culture, fetish culture, latex, and sexual expression, sharing real-life exp...

CRUDE # 38 Frank in Berlin and Effie in London sit down with filmmakers Sam and Ed from altSHIFT Films to explore the world of ethical and feminist porn , creative freedom, and the evolving landscape of adult media. Recorded during the Berlin Porn Film Festival , this episode dives into how ethical adult filmmaking challenges traditional narratives and the stigma that often surrounds the industry....

CRUDE # 37 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest Lucy Banks in Perth, Australia to talk about her incredible life journey from corporate banking to a successful career on OnlyFans and the challenges this brought to her as a mother – from aggressive mothers at school to problems within her friend circles. Lucy Banks is the founder of Million Bi...

CRUDE #36 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London and special guests Dr Danielle and Celeste from the Somatica Institute to talk about their approach to sex and relationship counselling. Somatic healing covers emotions, communication, passion and sexual pleasure. Celeste and Dr Danielle help clients their desires, boundaries, and feelings openly to became better listeners with thei...

CRUDE #35 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in Spain and two very special guests to talk about female awakening and empowerment, OnlyFans, being ADHD and neurodivergent as well as burgeoning censorship in the US and OnlyFans. Mistress Kolipi and Øthyr took time out of their busy calendar(s) to share their life and missions with the Crudies Mistress Kolipi and Øthyr describe themselves...

CRUDE #34 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest Talia as they discuss sexual abuse and how it can relate to sexuality to art and to self-understanding. *Confidential/Anonymous Helplines* UK If you are over the age of 16, living in England & Wales, and have been affected by any form of sexual violence or abuse, specialist and confidential support is...

CRUDE #33 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with the female founders of Berlin Nocturne —a kink-friendly, inclusive companionship agency. From careers in marketing, art direction, health, and hospitality, these women found their way into seggswork and Berlin’s seggs positive scene. We talk about why they started this project, what sets them apart in the world of compa...

CRUDE #32 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat with special guest Dr Diane Mueller to talk about how to reignite and reset desire and passion in longtime relationships. Where Dr Diane's expertise lies in mainly monogamous couples, the Crudes discuss desire across the spectrum of relationship forms. How does dopamine affect relationships? And what are the siggles? Late in...

CRUDE #31 Misty and Frank in Berlin and Effie in London are joined by special guest Velvetine to talk all about Shibari. What's the difference between Shibari and bondage? Is Shibari always seggsual? How old is Shibari? Velvetine is a Berlin-based Shibari model whose happy place is finding freedom in restraints. Coming to Shibari from BDSM, getting tied is an erotic and kinky practice for Velvetin...

CRUDE #30 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to chat to special guest Skadi to talk about all things CNC (Consensual Non-Consent). CNC will either send shivers down your spine or your genitals. All the current research says that between 31% and 57% of women have fantasies in which they are forced into sex against their will. A huge for 9% to 17% of women, these fantasies are a...

CRUDE#29 Misty, and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie and Angel in London to talk about Angel's journey of discovery and trans experience. What is it like to hide your trans self? What is a man, and how do men act? When and why did Angel's dysphoria blow up? And who sold weed to George Michael? Angel is a pro domme (under the name Eris), cam girl, spicy content creator, kink photographer, welfar...

CRUDE #28 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by special guest Simon to talk about men, masculinity and the patriarchy. Simon discusses his journey of learning to suppress emotions and to open up about feelings, something that is absent from most boys' and men's skills sets, but why? What do men talk about when they talk? What don't men talk about when they meet up? Why don't men have their own f...

CRUDE #27 Effie and her special guest Jane Grey are in London to talk about life as a dominatrix. Misty joins from Berlin as the three discuss their personal and professional experiences of being dominant or submissive and how their play has evolved over the years. The Crudies also talk consent, again. And give tips on what to say if you find it difficult to say no before, during or after a scene....

CRUDE #26 When are hot dogs more than just hotdogs? Crude goes to the zoo for this episode all about bestiality or sexual interactions with our furry and not-so-fury little friends on this earth. Elle and Effie in London are joined by (lone wolf) Frank in Berlin to talk through the laws and hypocrisies within people's attitudes to animal welfare regarding sexual interactions with animals. Which an...

CRUDE #25 The Crude team talk all about different types of threesomes and what makes us desire them, as well as touching on how to have a good one. Later on, they focus on the rise of male + male + female and male + female + male (MMF and MFM) threesomes. Are they all about power? Is placing the woman at the centre a necessary part of any successful threesome? Are male attitudes on same sex experi...

CRUDE #24 Effie is joined by Elle in London, Frank in Berlin and Elle's Lemurian sibling Margaux in California for this extra-sex-terrestrial episode all about aliens, probes, martian pegging and sci-fi. History, scandal and three-boobed mutants. Crude goes to space. Which aliens would the Crudies most like to sleep with or probe? Why did people say aliens abducted them and gave them prostate mass...

CRUDE #23 In this episode, Frank in Berlin is privileged to be joined by the ineffable Effie and special guest Poppy in London. After all their poly-bashing, are the Crude Crew open to changing their mind on the term? Other questions that the Crew looks at include ... What is polyamory? Why do Misty and Frank cringe at some poly language like "compersion"? Is everyone poly? Poppy Scarlett is a pro...

CRUDE #22 On this episode, Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London and special guest Carlos in Birmingham, UK as the Crudies talk about all things gay party scenes and men-who-have-s3x-with-men (MSM) Misty also tells us about her first g0ngbong experience, and Effie talks about London's S3x-worker pride and the party series that celebrated its inaugural event. Special guest Carrrrr...