COMMITTED HEARTS

Have you ever blamed your spouse, only to realize God was trying to reveal something in you ? Marriage has a way of exposing hidden pride, anger, fear, control, insecurity, and even strengths we never knew we had. In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast, William and Donna Porter share honest stories about how marriage became a mirror that revealed areas they needed to grow—and how grace, p...

What message is your marriage sending? In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast, William and Donna Porter discuss one of the most overlooked truths about marriage: your relationship is an advertisement. Every interaction, every act of love, every disagreement, and every display of affection is showing the people around you what marriage looks like. Would your marriage inspire someone to say...

Have you ever heard your spouse talking but realized later you weren't really listening? In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast, William and Donna Porter discuss the powerful difference between hearing and truly listening. Through personal stories, practical wisdom, and real-life marriage experiences, they reveal how intentional listening can strengthen communication, deepen intimacy, and...

Have you ever been hurt by someone you love? In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast, William and Donna Porter have an honest conversation about hurt, offense, forgiveness, healing, and how couples can move forward after emotional pain. Every marriage will experience moments of disappointment and hurt, but those moments don't have to destroy the relationship. Learn how healthy communicatio...

When was the last time your marriage felt fun, playful, and deeply connected? In this episode of Committed Hearts William & Donna Porter talk honestly about attraction, communication, and bringing intentional “sexy” back into marriage. From flirting throughout the day to learning what makes your spouse feel desired and appreciated, this conversation is practical, honest, and full of wisdom for...

Marriage is about unity—but that doesn’t mean losing your individuality. In this episode of Committed Hearts, Donna and William Porter talk about why healthy relationships need both together time and personal time. Just because you love being together doesn’t mean you have to do everything together. Your spouse can have their own interests, their own quiet time, their own way of refreshing—and tha...

Can your relationship handle the truth? In this episode of Committed Hearts , William and Donna Porter talk about the power of truth in marriage and why honesty is essential for building trust. Telling the truth is not always easy, and hearing the truth can be just as difficult. But truth gives couples the opportunity to make adjustments, have honest conversations, avoid hidden resentment, and gro...

Patience is one of the greatest skills you will ever need in a relationship. In this episode of Committed Hearts , William and Donna Porter talk honestly about the challenges of sharing your life, your home, your emotions, and your space with another person. From stressful days at work to raising children, dealing with frustration, emotional overload, and everyday life pressures — patience becomes...

What happens when the marriage you said “I do” to starts feeling like “I don’t”? In this episode of Committed Hearts , William and Donna Porter talk honestly about the moments and seasons when commitment feels hard, emotions are high, and giving up starts to feel easier than staying. They share how couples can move from an “I don’t” season back to “I still do” by remembering their vows, holding on...

Are you still investing in your relationship? In this episode of Committed Hearts , William and Donna Porter talk about why strong relationships do not grow by accident. Just like money, time, effort, attention, and affection must be invested if you expect a return. From dating your spouse, spending intentional time together, honoring personal time, having meaningful conversations, and keeping the...

Life changes — and so do relationships. In this episode of Committed Hearts , William and Donna Porter talk about how to keep loving each other through every season of change. From children, aging parents, health shifts, emotional changes, intimacy changes, menopause, work stress, family responsibilities, and becoming grandparents, marriage requires constant adjustment. But change does not have to...

What if the breaking in your relationship is actually part of the process? In this episode of Committed Hearts , William and Donna Porter talk about the real process of blending, not just in blended families, but in every relationship where two people are trying to become one. Whether you are bringing children into a marriage, blending routines and personalities, or simply learning how to live lif...

What do you do when marriage doesn’t feel like what you imagined? In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter talk honestly about the moment every couple faces at some point: “Help… this is not what I thought it was going to be.” Whether it is finances, parenting, daily habits, personality differences, structure vs spontaneity, or the unexpected realities of living life together,...

In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast , we talk about a principle that can completely transform your relationship: leaving and cleaving . Most people think it just means moving out of your parents’ house, but it goes much deeper than that. You can leave physically and still be emotionally, mentally, or even habitually tied to your past. And that might be the very thing blocking intimacy,...

In a world full of social media highlights and picture-perfect marriages, it’s easy to feel like your relationship doesn’t measure up. On this episode of Committed Hearts , Donna and William Porter break down the dangers of comparison and share how transparency, communication, and intentional action can help you build the marriage God intended for you. Learn why struggles are necessary, how to cre...

In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast , we dive into a real and honest conversation about how to protect and strengthen your marriage in a world full of distractions. Affairs don’t just happen overnight—they often start with small compromises, lack of boundaries, and unmet needs. But the good news? You have the power to create a relationship that’s so strong, fulfilling, and intentional...

Is romance missing in your relationship… and you don’t even realize it? In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast , Donna and William Porter have a real, honest conversation about why romance often fades—and how couples can bring it back in a meaningful way. Many couples believe they’re being romantic… but never stop to ask if it actually feels that way to their partner. 💡 In this episode,...

Conflict is inevitable in marriage — but how you handle it determines whether your relationship grows stronger or slowly breaks down. In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter talk about why avoiding conflict actually makes things worse and how couples can learn to confront issues in a healthy way. They share practical wisdom about creating a conflict plan, staying current inst...

Are your words building your marriage — or quietly tearing it down? In this powerful episode of Men At Heart Podcast , William and Donna Porter dive deep into “Matters of the Mouth” — how tone, timing, attitude, and delivery shape your marriage more than you think. It’s not just what you say… It’s how you say it. And even more importantly — when you say it. From Ephesians 4:29 to real-life moments...

Welcome to Committed Hearts , a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload. Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away. You’l...

Marriage doesn’t stay strong by accident — it requires intentional maintenance. In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter dive into the powerful truth that saying “I do” is only the beginning. Just like a fire needs fuel and a car needs regular upkeep, a thriving marriage requires consistent attention, intentional actions, and ongoing investment. Using practical analogies like...

Welcome to Committed Hearts , a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload. Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away. You’l...

What do you do when you love your spouse… but you don’t like what they’re doing? In this episode of Committed Hearts , William and Donna Porter get real about the “dislike list”—those moments, habits, tones, and pet peeves that can frustrate you in marriage if you let them grow. They share a practical mindset shift that helps couples protect love during frustrating seasons: stop magnifying the dis...

Boundaries aren’t about building walls—they’re about building a healthy, lasting marriage. In this episode of Committed Hearts , we dive into what boundaries really look like in marriage and why they’re essential for trust, respect, and emotional safety. Many couples struggle with boundaries—whether it’s with family, friends, communication, or personal space—but learning how to set them with love...

What if the biggest shift your marriage needs is a change in perspective? In this episode of Committed Hearts , we talk about how seeing your spouse as God’s son or daughter changes the way you speak, listen, handle conflict, and show love. When perspective shifts, everything else follows—communication, respect, patience, and connection. We discuss: Why treating your spouse like a parent damages i...