breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex

This one’s your wake-up call. If you keep discounting yourself for people who don’t even pay full attention, that’s on you. Self-respect isn’t arrogance - it’s knowing you’re not a clearance-rack find. The moment you start acting like you’re the prize, your whole energy changes. Stop begging to be chosen and start choosing better. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Y...

Sure, you can try to convince yourself (or someone else) it was just a “mistake,” a “drunken slip,” or “not really cheating,” but for anyone with integrity... betrayal is betrayal. Period. If you’ve been downplaying what happened to you - or what you did - this episode is here to show you why you need to cut through the excuses and keep it real. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPER...

Whether you’re reeling from a breakup or tangled in relationship drama, your social media can speak louder than you realize. This episode is your reminder to pump the brakes so you don’t end up looking back, wishing you had. Think of this episode as a friendly wake-up call to stay classy, stay mysterious, and keep moving forward - on and off screen. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DE...

Red flags aren’t just cute little quirks you should “wait and see” about - they’re WARNINGS. And ignoring them? That’s how you end up in relationship quicksand. Not fun. If you’ve ever second-guessed your gut or brushed off a behavior because you didn’t want to “make a big deal out of it,” this one’s for you.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLAR...

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Weekends are supposed to feel exciting. But when you’re fresh out of a breakup, they can feel like extra days of torture. Everyone else seems busy, happy, and coupled up - and you’re stuck fighting the urge to reach out to your ex. This episode is your reminder of why that’s the worst idea you could have right now… and what to do instead.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: G...

Have you ever been dumped and hit with the classic, "Maybe one day we can get back together..."? In this episode, I’m breaking down why that line is more insulting than comforting... and what it REALLY means. If you’ve been holding onto a "maybe," after a breakup situation, this is your wake-up call to change course, remember your worth, and get your life back on track. You're welcome ;) LISTEN NO...

You’ve heard it. Maybe you’ve even said it. But today I'm ripping that phrase apart and exposing the truth behind it. I’m breaking down the 6 types of people who claim cheating somehow helped their relationship - and trust me, it’s not the "flex" they think it is. If you’ve ever tried to justify staying with someone who betrayed you - or if someone you know is deep in denial - this one’s probably...

It's once again time to KEEP IT REAL. When a man says he’s "not ready for a relationship," what does he really mean? In this episode, I break down the truth behind this all-too-common phrase, why women keep holding onto it as though it signifies "hope" ... and what’s actually going on beneath the surface. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY &...

Introducing the very first Peeling Back the Layers Special Edition of breakup BOOST - where I spotlight breakup, dating, and relationship headlines... pulling out the real-life lessons for YOU. Unless you’ve been living under a rock (or a concert speaker), you’ve probably seen the Coldplay Couple caught mid-affair on a kiss cam. I’m not here to rehash the play-by-play - I’m here to deliver 10 brut...

Let’s be real: if you’re using AI to write love notes, apologies, or breakup texts… this episode is about YOU. And yeah, it might sting a little - - - because it should. I'm diving into the sad, weird, and honestly CORNY new trend of people outsourcing their emotional communication to chatbots. You say you want real love and authenticity, but you can’t even send a text without help from a robot?!?...

Tired of analyzing your narcissist ex? So many questions, so much confusion. You think you want answers - but trust me, you need to hear THIS before you ask again. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER  EMAIL  or  PHONE  coaching at  breakupBOOST...

So, today I'm talking about a handful of moments in dating and relationships where you look back and just cringe. You know the ones - where you ask yourself, “What was I thinking?!" Awareness is everything... and once you have awareness... you can't keep making the same bad choices. So, if you're determined to walk away from clown behavior for good, LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DE...

You say you want closure - but is that really what you’re after??? Hmmmm.... In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what’s really behind that phrase. It’s not about a neat ending or a final conversation. There’s something else going on - and understanding it is the first step to FINALLY moving on. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY...

Let’s be honest - groveling is straight up cringe. Every text, every “please just talk to me” moment? It’s not helping. It’s eating away at your dignity. In this episode, I’m giving you the tough love you need to stop chasing someone who clearly isn’t chasing you. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/...

Dear Cheaters: Don’t get too cozy. This episode’s got your name written all over it! And to everyone who’s ever been cheated on, gaslit, or made to feel crazy... you’re about to get the validation you deserve. I’m dropping 6 truth bombs cheaters desperately try to avoid. No sugar. No spin. Just the raw, uncomfortable truth about what cheating says about you. And as for the person you hurt? They wo...

Breakups mess with your head - and one of the most painful thoughts you can spiral into is: “Do they even miss me?!” If you’ve been obsessing over their silence, stalking their social media, or searching for any sign that they still care… this episode is for you. Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to...

Let’s get real - blocking and unblocking your ex or situationship isn’t a power move - it’s a hot mess. A cycle that hurts you WAY more than it helps. It’s time to stop giving away your power and start standing by your decisions. If you’re ready to ditch the drama and step into your confident era, this one’s for you. Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup...

In this episode, I unpack the real story behind those “age is just a number” relationships. Whether you’ve dated significantly older, younger, or just sat back watching this type of slow-motion trainwreck... you don't want to miss this! Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon:  https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take th...

Let’s get real: too many women end up tied to the wrong man for life because of pressure, fear, or straight-up wishful thinking. In this episode, I’m breaking down the types of men you should never have a baby with (let alone date lol)... The men who’ll charm you into chaos and leave you holding the bag - diaper bag included! Girl... it doesn't matter if he looks good in a selfie if he can't even...

Let's dig into the truth about post-breakup grief. Sometimes, it’s not the person you’re grieving — it’s the rush. The attention. The chaos. The illusion of connection. If you’ve ever felt addicted to someone who wasn’t actually good for you, this one’s going to hit hard (in the best way).  Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" ...

Thanks for stopping by for the latest "tiny talk" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this tiny talk, I explain... (in great detail)... why you NEVER want to ask someone what their body count is.  Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don’t miss this one!  Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Am...

Season 29 Finale is HERE! Listen now for my insights and full breakdown - plus I give my take on where this relationship may be headed now that the show is over. Oh, and PS... I also spotted a RED FLAG on a social media video of Grant & Juliana that was uploaded this morning about their "next steps." Hmmm...   Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupbo...

I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.co...

One of the hardest parts of a breakup is wondering: Did they ever actually love me? Was it real, or was I just convenient? In this episode, we’re cutting through the confusion and getting honest about what real love looks like. I’ll break down key red flags that will hopefully give you some insight for your personal situation, share relatable analogies, and help you stop overanalyzing whether they...