Becoming You Again

Amidst the turmoil of divorce, managing stress can feel like an insurmountable challenge, but what if you could navigate it with healing, clarity and control? Join me as I teach you about the complexities of the stress cycle and uncover how understanding its nuances can transform your experience during and after a divorce. With insights in this episode, you'll discover how to reclaim your pow...

Setting boundaries after divorce is a transformative step towards reclaiming your emotional well-being. Ever wondered how boundaries differ from ultimatums, especially when navigating the complexities of post-divorce life? Join me as I walk you through the difference between the two, helping you establish personal limits that protect your emotional safety while fostering healthier relationships. W...

Do you find yourself spinning in thoughts of worst case scenario after divorce? Do you try to anticipate all of things that could go wrong and try to figure out a way to stop it all from happening? In this episode you will learn to unlock the secret to stopping the cycle of catastrophic thinking.  Imagine yourself navigating the storm of intrusive thoughts and worst-case scenarios with understandi...

Over-functioning, especially among women in the midst of divorce, becomes a relentless cycle of exhaustion and misplaced control. Join me, Karin Nelson, as I share insights, personal stories and heartfelt exploration of how societal pressures and more lead us to take on too much, become burdened by the mental load of it all and feel like we have the world on our shoulders - always at the expense o...

Discover the transformative power of movement in managing anxiety and the overwhelming freeze response that often accompanies the journey of divorce recovery. Listen in as I relay my personal experience with going from my habitual freeze/shutdown state to instant realigning of my nervous system and feeling better through movement. You will learn a quick practical technique to calm your nervous sys...

How often have you made choices and decisions based off of what someone else might think? If you're like me, that happens pretty often. In this episode I'll teach you about the mirror effect of perceived society judgment. You'll discover the transformative power of self-acceptance and confidence as you learn to overcome rejection and self-judgment. You'll learn the key to being...

Can breaking free from all-or-nothing thinking transform your post-divorce life? This episode promises to show you how shifting away from black-and-white thought patterns can unlock the power and choices you didn't realize you had. I'll walk you through how this limiting mindset can leave you feeling powerless and stuck during your divorce. I'll also offer practical strategies to re...

Ever wondered why comparison during and after a divorce feels so painful? Join me on this episode of "Becoming You Again" as we uncover the deep-rooted reasons behind the comparison instinct and how it affects our emotional well-being. You'll learn why our mind turns to comparison in the first place. You'll hear relatable scenarios from divorce and family life that illustrate h...

Navigating the emotional whirlwind of divorce can feel overwhelming and isolating, but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode you will learn a transformative emotional processing tool that can help you manage the complex feelings you're experiencing. I'll guide you through the practical exercise that will help you shift your focus from distressing narratives to your physical sensations....

Feeling lonely after a divorce can be an overwhelming experience, particularly for women. It's essential to understand that loneliness is an emotional state and not a reflection of your worth. Join me, Karin Nelson, as I unpack the difference between being alone and feeling lonely. I'll show you why loneliness  feels so heavy and how being alone in society today has gotten a bad rap. I o...

What if the act of letting go isn’t a one-time event, but a continuous, liberating journey? Join me, Karin Nelson, as I walk you through the intricate and often emotional process of moving forward after a divorce. This episode unpacks the concept of letting go, emphasizing that it's a skill requiring time, patience, and emotional resilience. I will explore and offer practical strategies to gr...

Can you truly transform your emotional state during a divorce by changing your thoughts? Discover the profound impact of your mental habits and gain control over your emotions in what can often feel like an overwhelming time. Through this episode of "Becoming You Again," we explore the top-down versus bottom-up processes of thought and emotional responses, revealing how awareness of thes...

What if trusting yourself was the key to rebuilding a strong, independent life post-divorce? Rediscover the power of self-trust this week as we explore how you can reconnect with your innate confidence and intuition, even amidst the turbulence of life changes. Drawing from my own experiences, I share actionable insights designed to help you remember what your self trust feels like so you can revit...

Feeling overwhelmed by divorce guilt? Discover how to break free from societal and internal pressures that make you feel like a failure. This week on "Becoming You Again," we unravel the deep-rooted sources of divorce guilt, especially among women, and challenge the patriarchal beliefs that surround divorce. Divorce guilt can feel like a heavy burden, but it doesn’t have to dictate your...

When you're in the thick of your divorce, it can feel like EVERYTHING sucks, EVERYTHING is hard, EVERYONE is against you, and you're life will NEVER feel peaceful or normal again. In this episode I'm teaching you the 50/50 principle that can help you look at your divorce and anything else in your life through a different lens. This episode will serve as a guide to getting through th...

Discover a powerful grounding technique that can help you find stability and emotional resilience during challenging times. In this week's episode of Becoming You Again, I'm back from a refreshing break and ready to introduce you to "Centered Hands," a simple yet transformative exercise designed to reconnect you with your body and inner self. Whether you decide to stand or sit,...

Have you ever found yourself caught in the emotional whirlwind of single parenting after a divorce, trying to juggle your feelings while managing your child's outbursts? Being a single parent after the end of your marriage can feel daunting and foreign. In this episode you will learn two main strategies to help you through the challenges of single parenting. You will learn strategies to help...

Struggling to regain your footing after a divorce? In this greatest hits episode, you'll discover powerful strategies to manage the overwhelming emotions and life situations that often follow such a life-changing event. You'll learn how to recognize what you can control and make conscious choices to prioritize your well-being. You'll learn about common patterns like procrastination...

Having expectations for our kids feels important, useful and a type of guide to the often mysterious and dismaying act of parenting. But what happens when your kids don't meet or live up to your expectations? What happens to your parent child relationship? Do you define yourself as a parent on their outcomes? Do you blame them for your emotional disregulation?  Find out more in this episode w...

Is your partner manipulating you? In this episode you will learn how to spot five common manipulation tactics, how they may be showing up in your relationship and how to decide what to do for yourself if you find yourself being manipulated by your partner. You will learn practical steps to recognize and combat these manipulations, ensuring you can navigate your relationships with confidence and cl...

Ever wondered why negative thoughts grip you so tightly during and after a divorce? In this episode you will learn to recognize and transform these thoughts to shift your perspective, bringing more calm and authenticity into your life. By understanding the trickery of these negative thoughts, you can start to build emotional resilience and navigate the challenges of divorce more effectively. Explo...

Ever found yourself in the throes of an argument, feeling defensive and misunderstood? What if you could transform those moments into opportunities for deeper connection? This week on "Becoming You Again," I tackle the intricate and often misunderstood topic of defensiveness in relationships. I share personal stories from my own marriage, revealing how quickly defensiveness can arise whe...

What if moving beyond the pain of divorce could lead you to an entirely new level of empowerment? In this transformative episode of "Becoming You Again," we unpack the intricate process of breaking free from a victim mindset. You will learn crucial steps to take to move beyond the victim mentality while still acknowledging and validating your experiences without blame.  Each step plays a...

Part of healing from your divorce is learning to actively listen to your body's wisdom. In this episode you'll learn exactly how to listen to your body and learn it's unique language. You will discover how embracing your body's language will be a catalyst for personal growth, wisdom and reconnection after years of neglect. I'll guide you through grounding exercise where yo...

Ever wonder how your body’s automatic functions can impact your emotional health, especially during tough times like a divorce? This episode of "Becoming You Again" promises to shed light on the surprisingly profound connection between your autonomic nervous system and your mental well-being. Having a better understanding of the nervous system and how it affects our emotional states can...