Becoming Men

Earlier this year you made a promise to yourself. Maybe it was a half-ass promise, but you made it nonetheless. You told yourself you would do something different this year. Remembering yet? You committed to building healthy habits and breaking destructive old ones. You said 2021 was going to be your year. But something happened, didn't it? Let me ask you this: Are you proud of who you've become s...

Do you feel like you’re capable of doing and being so much more, but you can’t break out of the rut? Are you struggling physically, emotionally, and financially and wondering, is this it? Is this all there is to life? Most of us are just surviving, trying to get through the day. We want to leave a legacy behind, but we don’t know where to begin. This changes today. Today, Ray De La Nuez sits down...

Here's the # 1 tip for guys striving to become more confident & disciplined 👇⁣ ⁣ I'll get straight to the point since I know you clicked the "More" button because this matters to you.⁣ ⁣ First, DISCLAIMER: ⁣ ⁣ Results will vary in direct proportion to the level of YOUR desire to stop feeling like you're an inadequate and unreliable man. ⁣ Okay, now that we got that out of the way, I want to t...

If you looked in the mirror right now, would you be proud of who you see ? Would you see the bold, brave, authentic and disciplined man you long to be? Or would some imposter be there staring into your soul? Today's guest is going to help you see how you can crush the false self, ditch apathy and finally reign over your life! Johnny King is a men’s transformational coach, public speaker, author, a...

If you've ever struggled with any form of sin and felt defeated time and time again ; this episode is for you.. If you've experienced the weight of sin by guilt, shame, and the like , and feel as though you cannot move forward with your life; this episode is for you.. If you've ever believed the lies of the enemy about your identity ; this, my friend, is for you. Today, Ray De La Nuez sits down wi...

Statistics show that 65% of men are watching pornography . And maybe you've tried everything to not be part of that statistic. Still, no matter what you have done to stop, you just can't get free from it so you feel hopeless and depressed . But you're ready. You're to break free from this sin once and for all and finally be proud when you look at yourself in the mirror. Today, Ray De La Nuez talks...

Let's face it; our fathers weren't perfect. And whether they tried their hardest or didn't try at all, a great deal of men today are silently suffering from father wounds. But not today's guest. Ray De La Nuez sits down author and former pro football player, Jay Barnett to discuss the importance of healing from the neglect, abuse, control, absence and withholding of love and affection from a fathe...

At 29, Rob Decker was tired of trying. A childhood filled with rejection and fear left him rootless. Young adult years spent searching for meaning in fitness, sports, women, drinking and drugs left him empty. “My life was a mess. I wrote myself off as a lost cause – an unemployed alcoholic and drug abuser.” But just when he thought he had hit rock bottom, there was more.  He had just been fal...

Be brutally honest for a moment; Are you on target with becoming the man God intended you to be? Or, do you find yourself missing that mark more often than you'd ever like to admit? Brother, you are not alone. I know I can name 5 areas in my life where I was off target TODAY! We all know just how easy it is to miss that mark, the mark of true, authentic and God-inspired masculinity in the face of...

How many times have you walked into a room just to find that everyone there is on a different screen? You know how it goes; one person is candy crushing, another is swiping left on Tinder, while another is video chatting with their Abuelita from across the ocean. Then, feeling like you have no other option, you too pull out your phone and join the group. This is or reality today. We aren't using s...

Enjoy this conversation between Ray De La Nuez and Steven Murphy from the Nook Podcast .

Tune in as Ray De La Nuez discusses 10 lessons that he learned after serving 10 years in the United States Marine Corps. These are 10 lessons every man must master as he journeys to being the man that God called him to be.

On this week's episode, Ray De La Nuez discusses a reality all men face daily; choosing what is actually good for us over what feels good to us. Enjoy the show.

This week, Ray De La Nuez unpacks some of the best nuggets of wisdom and advice recorded here on the Becoming Men Podcast. You will hear from guest like Gary Thomas , Ryan Michler , Dr. Joe Martin , Dr. Billy Alsbrooks and more. Jeremiah 6:16 says: “Stop at the crossroads and look around. Ask for the old, godly way, and walk in it. Travel its path, and you will find rest for your souls."  We...

John Eldredge has rocked the lives of men around the world with his epic books and teachings about the masculine soul and the Father heart of God. Aside from being an author, he is also a counselor, teacher, husband and father to three world-changers. He is the founder and director of Ransomed Heart Ministries based out of Colorado Springs, CO and hosts the Ransomed Heart Podcast . Personally, I w...

Ray De La Nuez and John Correia, the founder and host of Active Self Protection , discuss your need for self-defense attitudes, skills, and plans. You can also get to know me personally at @raydelanuez . Make sure to follow this podcast @becoming.men SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email HERE Made to Reign Ministries Inc. is a Non-profit organi...

Ray De La Nuez and Jordan Ciciotti discuss how to face life's trials like a man so that your can better navigate your own test, trials, and tribulations and journey to become the man God created you to be. Jordan and his wife, Milena, co-host the As For Me and My House Podcast and YouTube Channel where they take you on a raw and unfiltered journey through their lives as followers of Jesus and pare...

Ray De La Nuez and Ryan Hansen talk about how a man can guard his heart, mind and eyes on social media! Ryan is the author of the book, End Average s well as the founder of the men’s ministry The League of Imperfect Gentlemen . He is a father of four children and has been married for over 13 years. If you want to connect with Ryan, you can connect with him on Instagram @endaverage . You can also g...

Ray De La Nuez sits down with Jake Freels and unpacks what happens when God invades our mess and makes an awesome message out of it all.  Connect with Jake on Instagram @Jake_freels . You can also get to know me personally at @raydelanuez and don't forget to follow this podcast @becoming.men . SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT questions for Q&Ray SUBSCRIBE to YouTube  SIGN UP for our Email Newslett...

In this conversation, Ray De La Nuez sits down with Danny Silk to discuss the power of taking ownership of yourself and your sphere of influence. His core message is so simple; we must act ON PURPOSE!  You can connect with Danny on Instagram @dannylovingonpurpose . You can also get to know me personally at @raydelanuez and don't forget to follow this podcast @becoming.men .  SUBMIT quest...

This is a conversation for men in their 20s and 30s. Listen in as Trey Van Camp what it means to purposefully lean into your limitations. I know you will thank me later for introducing you to Trey. Make sure you connect with him on Youtube and Instagram @treyvancamp You can also get to know me personally at @raydelanuez and don't forget to follow this podcast @becoming.men . SHOW LINKS: SUBMIT que...

This week I sit down with Jason Vallotton to discuss how real men deal with pain.  Jason is an author, speaker, and founder of BraveCo . His heart is to see emotional prosperity increase through pastoring, counseling, teaching and equipping. You can connect with Jason on Instagram @jayvallotton .  You can also get to know me personally at @raydelanuez and don't forget to follow this podc...

This week I sit down and answer your questions with my guest Ryan Hansen.

This week I sit down with Zach Even-Esh, the founder of The Underground Strength Gym and host of the STRONG Life Podcast . More than that, Zach was one of the few men in my life who took me under his wing and who helped shape the course of my life.  In this episode, we cover down on what it takes to become mentally strong and physically tough. I think you will be surprised at just how simple...

If you are married OR if you hope to be married one day then this episode is for you! This week I sit down with Seth Studley from The Studley's Podcast and we go through some topics that either ruin marriages or that men fail to address before getting hitched. Relax and take notes, this one might need to be listened to twice.  Make sure to connect with Seth and his wife, Melanie, over at Anat...