Becoming Men

You’ve deleted the apps. You’ve made the promises. Maybe you’ve even joined a men’s group. But the cycle of relapse keeps coming back. Why? In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ breaks down the real reasons men keep falling into the lust cycle—and it’s not just about lust. We dig deep into emotional avoidance, unhealed wounds, and the trap of isolation, then...

Too many men are stuck—not because they lack motivation, but because they’re waiting. Waiting for clarity. Waiting for the perfect timing. Waiting to feel ready. But here’s the truth : perfect conditions don’t exist, and delayed action kills momentum. In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ breaks down 5 powerful, biblical reasons why you need to move before you...

Stuck in a rut? You’re not alone—but staying stuck isn’t neutral. It’s dangerous. In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ unpacks 10 brutally honest reasons why you might be spinning your wheels—and more importantly, how to break out of you're rut starting today. If you’re serious about becoming the man God created you to be, you can’t afford to drift, delay, or li...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , ⁠⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠⁠ sheds light on the common struggles men face in achieving success and provides two practical steps that you can take to begin on your own success journey. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIV...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , ⁠⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠⁠ shares four key pathways to finding your God-given purpose and how it can change your life. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out ⁠⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , ⁠⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠⁠ shares seven of the most powerful rules he's learned as a Marine Corps Officer to forge unstoppable self-discipline. Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? ⁠⁠⁠Click here to book our Zoom Call!⁠⁠⁠ Check out ⁠⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , ⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠ is joined by Allan Draper. Allan is a serial entrepreneur whose owned over 28 businesses and counting. He specializes in scaling small businesses and helping entrepreneurs transform an idea into a thriving business. Allan is also the host of the Business Growth Pod designed specifically to help those wanting to start and grow a busines...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , ⁠Ray De La Nuez⁠ shares 12 lessons he's learned over 12 years of service in the United States Marine Corps. Check out ⁠MasterMyPurpose.com⁠ to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they ne...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is joined by Carl Thomas. Carl and Ray focus on defining shame, exploring how it sustains unhealthy sexual habits, and identifying the steps necessary to break free from it. They also discuss the impact of genuine community in managing shame effectively.  Carl's organization provides resources, including the Live Free Community app...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they n...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they n...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez is joined by  Remi Adeleke.  Remi was born in Western Africa, but following the death of his father, he, his mother, and his brother relocated permanently to the Bronx in New York City. After years of making regrettable decisions, Remi joined the Navy in 2002 and later became a Navy SEAL.  As a SEAL he saw multiple combat d...

Find out what ALL Christian men need to know about the 2023 Asbury Revival. See what it means for you as a Christian, and learn how to discern with wisdom.

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez continues a powerful series discussing the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they n...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez begins a brand new series on the top 10 qualities of strong and mature Christian men. Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to bec...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is joined by Morgan Snyder. Morgan Snyder is an author, speaker, and fellow podcaster who serves on the executive leadership team at Wild at Heart . Morgan has contended for the wholeheartedness of men and women alongside John and Stasi Eldredge for more than two decades. He has led over a decade of Become Good Soil Intensives and sold-o...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is joined by Brian Barcelona. Brian is an author, speaker, evangelist, and the founder of One Voice Student Missions and The Jesus Clubs . Through these ministries, Brian and his team have reached hundreds of millions of people around the world with the truth of the Gospel. Today Brian and Ray sit down to talk about the importance of spi...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is joined by Justin Camp . Justin co-founded Gather Ministries with his wife, Jennifer, and created the WiRE for Men devotional. His passion is to encourage and equip men to pursue God more earnestly and to enjoy more of His goodness and love. Justin is writing The WiRE Series for Men —a set of books for the publisher David C Cook . His...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is joined by Don Manning . Don is a podcaster and business owner/investor, CFO of a real estate company, and serves on the elder board of Valley Creek Church, a church he and Suzanne helped start over 30 years ago. Don and his wife have an awesome podcast called Crazy Cool Family that is dedicated to showing parents how to create amazing...

On this BONUS episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is interviewed by Nathan Spearing on The Life On Target Podcast . Check out MasterMyPurpose.com to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course. This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpos...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is joined by Matt Beaudreau Matt is a world-renowned keynote speaker, speaking to over 250,000 people across the globe with clients ranging from Lockheed Martin and the United States Air Force to Caterpillar and Honeywell. He is the founder of Acton Academy, the co-founder of Apogee Strong and the host of the Essential 11 Podcast . Matt...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is joined by Chase Replogle Chase is the founding pastor of Bent Oak Church, a writer, & podcaster. He is also the author of The 5 Masculine Instincts. His work draws from history, psychology, literature, and a rich narrative approach to Scripture to help readers think more deeply about faith and life. His work has been featured on G...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is joined by Ben Bennett Ben is an author, podcast host, speaker, and serves with Josh McDowell Ministry as the Director of Resolution Movement –a global movement helping people overcome hurts and struggles and thrive in life. For the past 11 years, he has partnered with world-renowned therapists and ministry leaders, helping individuals...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is joined by Matt Schneider Tune in as they discuss the impact of the Modern Day Knight Project and every man's continual need to face the daily crucible of life, shatter self-doubt, gain clarity and heal from trauma. Matt Schneider is the Executive Vice-President & equity owner of a global software (SaaS) company with a target valua...

On this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast , Ray De La Nuez is joined by Fred Grewe Tune in as they discuss what the dying can teach us about living like the men God created us to be. Fred Grewe is a Board Certified Chaplain (Association of Professional Chaplains) with a Doctor of Ministry degree from the Pacific School of Religion in Berkeley and is an ordained Congregationalist m...