Bad Queers

This week we discuss week 1 of Diddy's federal trial, Halle Bailey’s restraining order against DDG and Tory Lanez prison/legal updates. We also give our long awaited White Lotus S3 recap and spotlight a 21-year study showing donor-conceived adults raised by lesbian moms are thriving. In Am I a Bad Queer?, how to call out your queer friends biphobia, the best way to avoid being friends with yo...

This week on the podcast, we revive the iconic acronym “TWID” (The Woman I’m Dating) and dig into the reclaimed ballroom term “Bricks,” honoring its complex roots and modern meaning. In 'Category is', we react to the Supreme Court’s frustrating move to uphold the trans military ban, recognize our Hunger Games transition by discussing the Black dandyism theme of the 2025 Met Gala, and tal...

This week we’re joined by Jared Robinson—creator of JUDYS , a love letter to Black and brown queer friendship. We dive into small-town beginnings, fashion-to-film transitions, what makes a Good Judy, and why perfect gays are boring. Plus: Queer Urban Dictionary terms Mx. and Good Judy, behind-the-scenes tea, and Bad Queer Opinions on gay men and queer women friendships, queer characters and Issa R...

Five years later and we’re still standing on business. We’re celebrating with Queer Urban Dictionary lessons ( Gender Cues + Ponk ), in Category is we discuss then vs. now moments, the moments that made us and discussing our queer hair experiences in Hair-apy. Of course, we share your messy Am I A Bad Queer? dilemmas, and take a stroll down Bad Queer Opinions memory lane. Cheers to 5 years of Bad...

This week, we’re breaking down AIAB in Queer Urban Dictionary and giving you the sapphic position you didn’t know you needed (shoutout to Pearl to Peach). In Category Is , we unpack Montana’s surprise block on an anti-trans bill, the ongoing attack on queer books, and our latest TV obsessions—from 911 Lone Star to White Lotus S3. Plus, advice on dodging your ex, opening up your relationship, and p...

From Sapphic Visibility Day to NFL allyship (and mess), we’ve got range. This week: AGAB vs. gender narratives, Khalen Saunders’ queer-friendly football camp, Ts Madison’s new reentry house, WNBA draft talk, and the messy return to your ex’s kickball league. We close with Bad Queer Opinions: You don’t owe anyone a redemption arc—and Beyoncé’s done more for the LGBTQ+ community than most.  Chicago...

Come celebrate 5 years of Bad Queers !  We’re throwing down all month long with virtual events and an in-person celebration in Chicago. Don’t miss the chance to connect and toast to five years of this podcast.  This week, we unpack major headlines—from the CDC’s sudden shutdown of key HIV prevention initiatives to Cory Booker’s record-breaking filibuster speech. Plus, a win for the LGBTQ+ communit...

March Madness indeed.  This week, we discuss Signal-gate, Janelle Monáe's upcoming graphic novel, and recap the latest in march madness results.  In Am I A Bad Queer? we share ways to navigate the priority shifts of coupled up friends and walking away from things that don't serve you.  In Bad Queer Opinion, are we too dismissive of hyperfemme lesbian experiences?  Shoutouts: Kris: The Cu...

This week, we’re joined by award-winning professor, writer, and abolitionist Jenn M. Jackson for a conversation that’s as insightful as it is hella sapphic. We dive into their latest book, Black Women Taught Us, and explore their journey growing up queer in the Bay, marriage and parenthood, and, of course, our Bad Queer Opinions. Shoutouts: Shana:  The Podcast Salon - Hosted by Anna DeShawn, it’s...

And we're back. We're picking up right where we left off with a quick circle back to Shana's South Africa trip, her adventures in dating so far, and getting deeper into lovers and friends.  Watch the full video on Patreon here . Catch up with Heart Life Vol. 1 here .  Share your Am I A Bad Queer? here Support the show PATREON:  patreon.com/BadQueersPodcast Subscribe to our Youtube h...

Harmful and harmless trash best characterizes this week's news. We react to Trump's 99 min address to Congress and the ways the Democrats "resisted". Shana (bravely) recaps Love is Blind and we discuss Cynthia Ervio's night at the Oscars as well as her being named a headliner for World Pride. Later in the show, we explain when it's ok to avoid coming out to a family m...

After the last few weeks of mess in the news, we are bringing positive stories to your eyes and ears. We breakdown the 'Conception Begins at Erection' Bill, Amber Ruffin shares accountability in not coming out sooner and share our favorite highlights from the NAACP Image Awards. In 'Am I a Bad Queer?' we break down the essence of the 'delivered' queer person, being sk...

Trigger warnings, politics and culture. Hate to start the episode this way, but we are 30+ days into the Trump Administration, and it's just mess. RIP to Sam Nordquist, the violence against the Trans community needs to end. Then we review Love is Blind season 8, A'Ja Wilson's shoe line, Super Bowl Halftime Show, and Shana attends Unrivaled.  In AIABQ? Shana and Kris fight to keep it...

In this episode, Shana and Kris from Bad Queers Podcast join Destiny from Closeted History LGBTQ+ Stories of the Past to discuss the incredible LGBTQ+ film, Pariah (2011). Starring Adepero Oduye, Kim Wayans and Aasha Davis. It has won many awards and accolades including the 2012 GLAAD Media Award and a Cinematography Award at the Sundance Festival in 2011.  Episode Notes:  0:01 - Introduction of P...

Welcome to Black History Month! We’re kicking things off by asking the real questions—did we actually enjoy the Grammys? Did Beyoncé’s tour announcement revive us? Plus, we break down key headlines impacting the LGBTQ+ community and news to pay attention to. In 'Am I a Bad Queer?', Kris and Shana share advice on astrology ruling your relationship, unproblematic white queers, and the art...

This week, we sit down with legendary content creator, Amber Whittington—aka AmbersCloset —to talk about her journey from YouTube pioneer to TV and her next big move… politics? 👀  We get into the real challenges of staying authentic in the public eye, dating as a creator, friendship breakups, and the real LA. Plus, Amber weighs in on the bisexual studs debate for this week’s Bad Queer Opinion. Sh...

Last week was possibly the longest short week ever. The Trump administration started as chaotically as expected with the signing of countless Cheesecake Factory–menu–looking executive orders attacking everything from DEI to undocumented immigrants. In other news, the inaugural season of Unrivaled basketball kicked off with a bang and the GLAAD Media Awards were announced and included some of our f...

Hard launch January continues with the (mostly) predictable fate of Tiktok dominating the news week along with LA wildfires aftermath, and The House passing an amendment to Title 9 to ban trans students from women's sports. Lawbrey "Drake" Graham reaching new heights of Karen with his federal defamation suit against UMG over "Not Like Us".    In Am I A Bad Queer? we discus...

We're officially back from holiday break in our first new, new, episode of 2025.  In Category Is, we discuss the arrest of Jaia Cruz, Meta's decision to end fact-checking on its platforms, and the latest studies confirming gender-affirming care is rare for teens. Of course we have to discuss Beyoncè Bowl and Shana's predictions for Bey's Jan. 14 announcement.    In our Bad Quee...

Happy New Year, Bad Queers! We welcome back our favorite travelers, Neicy and Noiry from Queer Queens Travel (QQT). To get you motivated to travel in the New Year, we reflect on the trips QQT took in 2024, including Shana joining in South Africa, what it's really like to travel with a Black, queer travel group and getting studs to travel in more places than Mexico. As well as the intentionali...

Third times a charm! We welcome back Anna DeShawn , host of Queer News Podcast and founder of the podcast network ' The Qube ' joins us for the third year to do our end of year review. In this episode we pick our top stories and headlines from each month to discuss, laugh and break down even further what's been happening in the mess that was 2024. Shoutouts: Anna: All the supporters...

We’re so excited to welcome back AJ Hikes , Deputy Executive Director for Strategy & Culture at the ACLU. AJ is a powerhouse social justice advocate, community organizer, TED Talk speaker, and all-around badass. In this episode, we catch up on AJ’s journey, from coming out later in life to navigating top surgery and embracing life as their authentic self. AJ also shares insights from their wor...

Welcome to our Category-is-a-polooza. This episode we will focus solely on trending stories across politics, pop culture and sports (women's only). We share our perspective of the United Healthcare CEO unaliving and Luigi Mangione's involvement and Jay-Z getting accused of r*pe alongside Diddy. Pay attention to the Supreme Court - transgender rights are under attack! We break down United...

We've got company! This week we welcome pop recording artivist, Mila Jam . We started from the beginning by learning about Mila's childhood all the way through her 20+ years of being an artist. From coming into her identity to owning her autonomy and the differences she encountered, to the amazing collaborations she has experienced (hello Chaka Khan!) and how awful dating is in New York....

Shana reflects on her recent breakup, sharing the lessons she’s learned and what she’s looking for moving forward. It’s a candid and insightful conversation about love, growth, and self-discovery. This teaser offers just a glimpse—the full episode is available exclusively on our Patreon for those ready to dive deeper. Watch the full video here Share your Am I A Bad Queer? here Support the show PAT...