AskYourselfWhyNot

Rest Is Productive and Your Memory Is Lying to You This week, we're talking about the things we can't stop thinking about lately: the sudden end of Sean Croxton's Quote of the Day podcast, Jayla's fitness studio plans, a belated birthday unboxing, and why Lululemon might have some competition. Then we get into the stuff that really makes you think. Why do two people remember the exact same experie...

So... We Have Some Ideas. We went to Oglebay Fest, had the best time, made some questionable purchases, got wildly creative with the kids, and somehow came home with approximately 47 new business ideas. Because obviously. In this episode, we're talking about why Oglebay Fest has basically become a family holiday, the creative chaos that happens when you give kids a bunch of canvases and acrylic pa...

  Summary Join Jayla and Shaye as they chat about life, health, and personal growth, exploring topics like trapped emotions, healthy aging, and the power of positive affirmations. This episode offers practical insights and a light-hearted look at how to live a happier, healthier life.   Keywords:   personal growth, health, trapped emotions, positive affirmations, aging, wellness, mental health, li...

summary In this episode, Jayla and Shaye explore personal growth, community building, and the power of mindset. They share insights from their recent experiences, upcoming events, and the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive people.  keywords personal growth, community, mindset, Oglebay Fest, studio opening, self-programming, empowerment  key  topics Making friends through walking an...

Summary Jayla and Shaye explore the challenges of changing habits, the programming of our beliefs, and how environment influences transformation. They share personal stories, insights from experts, and practical tips for embracing change and living authentically. Keywords habit change, behavior, transformation, environment, mindset, self-improvement, programming, confidence, fear, growth  Key  top...

 content  type Solo  primary  goal Discussion  summary In this episode, Jayla and Shay share personal updates, discuss fitness journeys, real estate ambitions, and reflect on inspiring stories about staying true to oneself and making bold decisions.  keywords self-improvement, fitness, real estate, motivation, decision-making, personal growth, Dolly Parton, Arnold Schwarzenegger, podcasting, commu...

Summary Join Jayla and Shaye as they explore the power of positive self-talk, mindset shifts, and practical tips for living a more abundant and joyful life. They share personal stories, affirmations, and insights to help you reprogram your mind for success. Keywords mindset, affirmations, abundance, self-talk, personal growth, positivity, mental health, motivation, podcast Key  topics The impact o...

EmpowerFest is over, our feet still hurt, we're emotionally attached to everyone we met, and somehow a few left with a new tattoo. Normal Saturday behavior. This week we're spilling everything—from the behind-the-scenes chaos that no one saw, to the last-minute "we'll figure it out" moments, to why community always seems to show up exactly when you need it. We also talk about: Why getting a tattoo...

 Summary Join Jayla Robinson and Shaye Pentino  as they explore the benefits of functional health, new fitness experiences, and personal growth strategies. This episode offers insights into preventive medicine, trying new activities, and embracing a feminine approach to business and life.  keywords functional medicine, preventive health, yoga, personal growth, wellness, empowerment, business strat...

Summary Join us as we explore the upcoming EmpowerFest Wheeling , a build-your-own day event filled with vendors, experience stations, and wellness activities. Discover how this event offers personalized health, beauty, and wellness services, and learn about the diverse range of vendors and experiences that make EmpowerFest Wheeling unique. Keywords Empower Fest, wellness event, health and beauty...

summary Jayla and Shaye explore the humorous side of how we romanticize and delude ourselves with trends, supplements, and life expectations, reflecting on personal experiences and societal influences. keywords self-delusion, trends, wellness, supplements, life expectations, humor, personal growth, societal influence key topics Self-delusion and societal trends Humorous reflection on wellness and...

In this episode, Shaye and Jayla dive into the importance of regularly checking in with your routines to ensure they serve your well-being and happiness. They share practical tips on how to identify habits that may no longer benefit you and ways to make intentional changes for a more fulfilled life. Key Topics: The significance of adapting routines as life evolves Recognizing unhelpful habits and...

Are you tired of feeling hurt or defensive when faced with criticism or insults? In this episode, Shaye and Jayla explore how to recognize, reframe, and leverage negative comments—whether direct or backhanded—to propel your personal and professional growth. Key topics: The significance of insults and negative feedback as signals rather than setbacks Personal stories of pivotal moments involving mi...

Breaking the Groundhog Day Routine: Small Shifts for a More Exciting Life In this episode, Shay and Jayla explore practical ways to break free from the monotony of daily routines and infuse more excitement, awareness, and purpose into everyday life. Whether you're feeling uninspired or just looking for fresh ideas, these tips can help you create more space for joy and growth. Key Topics: How our b...

Summary In this episode, Jayla and Shaye explore the importance of creating space and softening in our busy lives. They share practical tips on how to ask for help, declutter your mind, and prioritize mental well-being to enhance overall life balance.  keywords mindset, self-care, mental health, time management, stress relief, empowerment, self-improvement key  topics Creating space in daily life...

Episode Description Ever feel like you've "fallen off" and have to start everything over? In this episode, Shaye and Jayla talk about a mindset shift that can change the way you approach goals, habits, and personal growth: you don't need to start over — you just need to start again. So many people abandon progress because of an all-or-nothing mindset. One missed workout, one off week, one imperfec...

Episode Description In this episode of Ask Yourself, Why Not? , Jayla and Shaye share reflections from a recent family/soccer team trip to Chile and how stepping outside of daily routines sparked a bigger conversation about women's health. So many women are experts at taking care of everyone else — scheduling appointments, managing households, and making sure the people they love are supported. Bu...

Embracing Bite-Sized Personal Development: How Small Steps Transform Your Growth In this episode, Shaye and Jayla discuss the power of small, manageable actions in personal growth and self-development. Perfect for busy minds, they emphasize that you don't need to finish every book or overhaul your entire routine — just taking one page or one action a day can lead to meaningful change.   Key Topics...

Feeling stuck in the February doldrums? You're not alone — and you're definitely not failing. In this episode, Shaye and Jayla unpack why motivation dips after January, how winter affects energy and mood, and why building small, consistent habits matters more than waiting to "feel ready." This is your permission slip to reset without guilt, stop chasing perfect discipline, and start focusing on si...

Keywords holiday spirit, Christmas magic, self-care, festive traditions, mindfulness, family activities, joy, intentional living, holiday rituals, simplifying celebrations Summary In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla explore how to embrace the holiday spirit as adults. They discuss ways to create personal magic during the holidays, emphasizing the importance o...

Get your tickets here The "New Year New Intentions Setting Workshop" is a transformative event designed to help participants release past energies and set clear intentions for the future. The workshop includes a hot yoga session, a future self meditation, a catered brunch, and a journaling session focused on setting intentions across major life categories. Participants also engage in a burning cer...

Keywords movie set, fashion, David Bowie, extras, creative experience, arts, personal growth, storytelling, film production, friendship Summary In this episode, Shaye and Jayla share their unexpected adventure as extras on a movie set, discussing their late-night experience, the creative process of selecting outfits, and the film's serious premise. They reflect on the importance of stepping out of...

Keywords boundaries, self-honor, personal growth, self-awareness, mental health Summary In this conversation, J ayla and Shaye discuss the importance of setting boundaries as a means of honoring oneself. They emphasize the need to focus on the current version of oneself rather than past expectations or societal pressures, highlighting that personal growth and enjoyment of life are paramount. Takea...

Keywords social media, career stages, comparison, highlight reel, envy, personal growth, seasons of life Summary The conversation explores the impact of seasons of life , emphasizing the importance of recognizing different life seasons and avoiding envy. Takeaways Social media often showcases a highlight reel of life. People may feel envy when comparing their journey to others. Different career st...

Keywords perception, reality, experiences, perspectives, personal stories, communication, understanding, life updates, psychological thriller Summary In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Jayla and Shaye explore the theme of perception, discussing how two people can experience the same event yet derive completely different meanings from it. They share personal anecdotes, inclu...