#AskAMan

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for a few years and they moved in together in order for her to be closer to her tertiary institution. After she was done, she moved out as their parents said they need to do things right way in order to live together. Anonymous says they had some troubles in their relationship and he says he’s been verbally abusive towards her which affected their relation...

Anonymous says she has 3 kids with three different guys. She says things are ok with the father of her first child as they were together at a young age. Anonymous says she broke up with the father of her second child after he cheated on her after she fell pregnant. Anonymous then moved on and had a third child, she says things were initially fine with the father of her third child but they’ve now...

Anonymous says he got divorced in 2021 and after about a year and half last year he started dating again. He says things were fine but her partner started behaving in a weird manner, not taking his calls and avoiding him. Anonymous says they now live together but earlier this year she started ignoring him more and wasn’t as responsive to his calls and messages. Anonymous says she then complained a...

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner since around 2017 and says this past Good Friday he visited her place and after she left for work he stayed behind, and wanted to surprise her by cleaning her place. Anonymous says as he was doing that he found ARVs hidden in a shoe box. Anonymous says about two months have gone by and he hasn’t gotten the courage to speak to her about this.

Anonymous says when she called us last year she had broken things off with guy no.1 who had slowly stopped giving her attention and she moved on from him. A few months after that she started dating another guy no.2, who was the perfect partner until she discovered that he was lying about being in the process of divorcing his wife. Anonymous says she broke things off with guy no.2, she got reconcil...

Anonymous says his marriage is ending and his wife has separated from him. Anonymous says he has anger issues and that’s led to him being emotionally and physically abusive. Anonymous adds that over the years they’ve both cheated on each other, their families don’t get along and he even had a child with someone outside of his marriage. Anonymous says it’s a messy situation as their kids also don’t...

Anonymous says she moved with her husband he found a job in another area and they moved with their two kids. Anonymous says things fell apart in their relationship when she fell pregnant with their third child and her husband lost his job. Anonymous says during this time she found comfort in another man at her workplace. As time moved anonymous’ partner got a new job but it was in another area and...

Anonymous says him and his partner live very different lives, while he’s outgoing, she’s prefers to be at home and doesn’t go out much. Anonymous says often when he’s on his outings he’s found himself cheating on her with women he meets while there. Anonymous says he feels like they both want to change each other so they can be more similar. Anonymous says he loves his partner and wants to be with...

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for the last 7 years and they live close to each other. Anonymous says over the years they have had their issues and they have hurt each other in various ways and they’ve both acknowledged these. Anonymous says she’s frustrated by her partner who always accuses her of not having regard for him, something she feels like he’s exaggerating. Anonymous shares...

Anonymous says she was in a “situationship” with a guy when she fell pregnant early in the situationship. Anonymous says the guy found the timeline of her pregnancy suspicious which caused turmoil between them, leading to the guy wanting DNA tests. Anonymous has now had the child and the guy wasn’t involved in helping her with the child. Anonymous says the guy consulted spiritually and they told h...

Anonymous met his partner 3 years ago and says he was still reeling from a previous relationship at the time that they met. Anonymous says this partner comforted him in his time of need, however things got bad for him when he lost his job and moved back home to the villages. Anonymous says they continued to date long distance and she continued to support him. Anonymous says he eventually moved bac...

Anonymous is in a relationship with the father of her second child however she says she’s still in love with the father of her first child. Anonymous says she broke up with the first baby daddy because they cheated on each other and the relationship broke down. Anonymous says the father of her second child is great and wants to marry her but she’s not sure if she wants to marry him. Anonymous says...

Anonymous says he started dating a lady when they were both 19 and she had a daughter. Anonymous says he later found out that the father of this lady’s daughter is his cousin. Anonymous says that this caused a lot of strain on the relationship which led to him finding comfort in other women. Anonymous says they eventually got back on track and had child together. Anonymous says they became on and...

Anonymous has been in a relationship for 5 years with the father of her child and things have been going well. Anonymous says her and her partner are very open with their communication in the last 2 months her partner told her that he’s taken a liking to a new intern that’s started at his workplace. Anonymous says her partner says he’s not intending on doing anything about those feelings and he wa...

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 3 years and things were fine in the beginning but she says he actually started becoming a burden on her after he lost his job and moved in with her. Anonymous says she asked him to leave because he was a burden and initially refused but eventually left without telling her. Anonymous says they got back together after 7 months and she says the finances...

Anonymous says she broke up with her partner of 3 years a year ago after she cheated on him. Anonymous says she was already pregnant with her partner’s child at the time of breaking up. Anonymous says she moved on from that relationship and continued to date the guy she had cheated with. Anonymous says this new partner now wants her to cut the father of her child out of their lives and says he wan...

Anonymous met a guy in her neighbourhood back in the day and she wasn’t really sure about him. She says after things fell apart with the father of her child she finally gave this guy a chance even though she wasn’t really attracted to him. Anonymous says she didn’t really want to marry him but completed the process of getting married after she found out she was pregnant with the guy’s child. Many...

Anonymous says she was in a relationship with a man who was younger than her and says when she lost her job he found a job and then changed on her and even broke up with her. Anonymous says after they broke up he downgraded his maintenance of their child, even moving the child from private school to public school. Anonymous says he now currently is not even making those reduced maintenance fees th...

Anonymous says he found out late last year that his partner is having an affair with the father of her child. Anonymous says he found out because his partner didn’t return home but in fact she was sleeping at her baby daddy’s family home. Anonymous says he doesn’t know how to deal with this as he feels like she only started doing this when he lost his job and couldn’t care for her financially. Ano...

Anonymous has a wife and two kids and met a woman in 2021 who intended to make his second wife. Anonymous says the woman agreed to become his second wife and things were fine she even met anonymous’ first wife. Anonymous says he made her a director in his company. Anonymous says they got married and had a child in 2023, but says his second wife changed after they got married and she was not even t...

Anonymous has been married to her high school sweetheart for 3 years. Anonymous says things are weird because her partner has been cheating on her and has now impregnated another woman. Anonymous says she has a spiritual gift and it’s believed that when her partner cheats on her, her ancestors punish his family, to a point that her partner’s family believes that her partner’s mother died because a...

Anonymous says she met her partner in 2015 and they got married traditionally in 2017. Anonymous says she was pregnant when they got married and they Both came into the relationship with children. Anonymous says she has found out that he’s cheating and impregnated another woman…

Anonymous recently rekindled things with a guy she used to be in a ‘situationship’ with after many years. They now both have kids and have come out of serious relationships. Anonymous says he’s a good guy and they have a good relationship however anonymous says he has said to her that he’s not interested in getting too serious and doesn’t want to get married.

Anonymous says she was at the Metro FM Music Awards this past weekend with her partner and they had a great time however after the Love Movement party on Sunday her partner went to another venue to party while anonymous stayed back at their accommodation. Anonymous says he only came back the next morning after 7am. Anonymous says as she was readying the car for them to return home, she found lipgl...