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Send a text Has your husband ever told you you're bossy, you wear the pants, you treat them like a child? Well... you may be a controlling wife. In today's episode we dive into this addressing:  What control in marriage looks like Biblical Roles in Marriage Why Control Happens  Lack of Trust in God’s Order Tools for a Healthier Marriage   Today's Sponsor: EveryLife — the only premiu...

Send a text If there's one phrase I despise among married women is "I allow my husband to... play video games have a guys night go out spend money on that touch me" And the list goes on. Modern day women are struggling greatly with understanding their role in marriage and what submission really is. We've taken the role of "wearing the pants" and men have taken the bac...

Send a text President and Executive Director of Jane Around the World, Becky Khan joins us in this two part episode on Foster Care & Homelessness. In this segment Beck shares about the good and ugly side of foster care and adoption. She shares: What is homelessness? Main causes of homelessness? Unique challenges homeless youth face, and how it differs from the challenges faced by adults experi...

Send a text President and Executive Director of Jane Around the World, Becky Khan joins us in this two part episode on Foster Care & Homelessness. In this segment Beck shares about the good and ugly side of foster care and adoption. She shares: Personal experience with the foster care system and the impact it had working in that space. Biggest challenges or gaps in the current foster care syst...

Send a text Cristen, known for her holistic motherhood, non-toxic living, and breastfeeding tips on instagram concludes this two part episode on breastfeeding answering some personal questions on her journey as a mom. She shares:  Initial experience with breastfeeding and challenges faced. Overcoming difficulties encountered while breastfeeding. Strategies that worked well when establishing and ma...

Send a text Cristen, known for her holistic motherhood, non-toxic living, and breastfeeding tips on instagram answers questions that you may have as a first time mom on the breastfeeding journey or a new mom to be. Cristen answers:  Benefits of breastfeeding for both the baby and the mother. Common challenges new mothers face with breastfeeding. How mothers can prepare for a successful breastfeedi...

Send a text Let's face it, breakups are difficult. Whether it's your first one or 10th one. It's a lot on the heart. So how do you "deal" with it? How do you walk through a breakup not shattered, broken and insecure? In this episode I address key things to do as you navigate a broken heart. You get to choose what you make of parting ways with someone you love or thought yo...

Send a text There are certain reasons to not get married. Three of those reasons is if YOU are lacking in some key qualities that help in having a successful marriage. In this episode I target three areas that singles should be working on before they enter into a relationship and dating couples should highly consider before tying the knot.  Are you secure in yourself? Are you someone of good chara...

Send a text Ever wonder if the person you're dating is actually the person you should be dating? Well, here are 5 ways to determine if you're dating the wrong person. These are core reasons to break up, straighten up and move on. You are dating the wrong person if... They're not consistently pursuing Jesus. Those you love and trust don't love and trust who you're dating. Y...

Send a text What as once stated as “un-American” and “a medieval vanity project” is now being embraced by Kamala Harris. Yes, the infamous wall former President Trump worked on building is now a promise Kamala promises to fulfill to voters should she be elected as the next president of the United States. In February 2020, she wrote on Facebook that “Trump’s border wall is a complete waste of taxpa...

Send a text Difficult people tend to: Constantly criticize  Have negative humor Give the silent treatment Play the victim Walk in pretense  Pretend ignorance  Guilt trip Gaslight  How do you walk in love with difficult people? In this episode I discuss how to outsmart, out love and be the hands and feet of Jesus with people who are just downright difficult.  Today's Sponsor: EveryLife — the o...

Send a text The DNC proudly announces they successfully terminated 25+ babies during the Democratic National Convention. 25 heartbeats. 25 lives. 25 breaths taken away in the name of "me," pride and selfishness. In this episode we discuss the narratives being pushed by the left and the harsh realities of abortions. Additionally, I address the God is Woman perfume released in stores by Ar...

Send a text At the National Democratic Convention, Planned Parenthood will be offering free abortions and vasectomies August 19-20th as they continue their campaign push focusing on "women's rights." Today, we're digging into why it's so crucial to really understand the truth about abortion and as Christians being firm in your belief and why. We also talk about Mrs. Rachel...

Send a text August 16th - The Supreme Court voted 5-4 Friday to reject a Biden administration emergency request to enforce portions of a new rule that includes protections from discrimination for transgender students under Title IX. In this episode we cover the realities of standing firm in Christianity and praying for your country and those that are placed to vote in hearings that determine the c...

Send a text Research shows that there are 4 key things most successful people do. These should be apart of your daily habits. In this episode we address these four things and how beneficial they are to your spiritual, mental and physical. It's amazing how four daily habits can impact your years. Dare to try it? If you want to be successful, I'd say why not give it shot! Today's Spon...

Send a text The Game theory was first developed in 1944 by mathematician John von Neumann and economist Oskar Morgenstern in their book The Theory of Games and Economic Behavior. The three basic elements of any game are: A set of participants, or "players." The moves, or "actions," that each player may make. The scores, or "payoffs," that each player earns at the end...

Send a text In this episode I highlight societies fascination with drama. We truly thrive on it. We want to know the latest gossip, latest "tea" and soak in the drama of those around us. Girl talk is catching up on the he said - she said and who did what. It's sad honestly. The depressing olympics thrives on drama, we comparing hurts and we shame those who choose to walk in joy and...

Send a text A friend of mine made the statement "I forgot how to live. I am simply surviving." That struck a chord in me as I myself was walking through postpartum and it got me thinking of the many women who may have said this exact statement, thought it or are currently feeling it. In this episode I share some heavy truths of postpartum and the reality of choosing your hard. The dark s...

Send a text Rare genetic disorders are difficult to understand. They are painful to walk through. The unknown is scary. We choose however to trust an unknown future to a KNOWN God whose plans are perfect. In this episode I share briefly what this summer held for us as we waited for Sarah Joy's genetic testing results to come in. There is something incredibly powerful having a body of believer...

Send a text Content creating and social media needed to go. It was honestly so refreshing. In this episode I talk about the postpartum wall that led me to taking a sabbatical in order to figure out who Vashti is outside of being a wife and mom. Yes ladies! You have an identity outside of those titles. As beautiful as those titles are I didn't want to lose me and I encourage you to not lose yo...

Send a text Do you ever wonder what it's like for children growing up in a different country that's not the one they were born in? Or what about growing up in several different countries? Today we dive into the life of TCK's (third culture kids) and what it's like growing up in different countries, finding your identity, education, culture shock, and discovering God's path...

Send a text Within five years after the birth of a first child, over 40 percent percent of couples will go their separate ways. Some studies report marriages failing within 18 months after the first child is born. In this episode I share on how postpartum can affect your marriage. The areas commonly affected are:  Communication Intimacy Likes/Dislikes Priorities  Roles At the end of the day marria...

Send a text There's quite a bit I was very unprepared for when it comes to postpartum. A couple new moms and seasoned mom shared a similar narrative as I when I questioned them on their postpartum journey. In this episode I share my personal postpartum journey along with those that shared theirs and what they experienced. We touch on: My expectations vs reality Bounce back concept Hormones La...

Send a text While I don't believe in "the one" I do believe you can marry the best for you.  I wholeheartedly believe I married the best man. In this episode I share do's and dont's that led to finding the man of my dreams.  Three things I did: I kept Jesus first.  Allowed him to lead from the start.  Worked on me - physically, emotionally, mentally ( who you are is who yo...

Send a text It seems like a Gen Z thing that friendships tend to mimic and resemble marriage.  The statement is "we're just friends" yet there's emotional intimacy, dependency, and exclusivity. In this episode I address the pitfalls of relationships that resemble marriage, the impact this has on other and future relationships, recognizing and establishing healthy boundaries as...