Accidental Swingers

Myrina and Tristan are BACK and now also on VIDEO! From now on, Accidental Swingers podcast episodes will be audio and video! Find us, right now, on YouTube @TheAccidentalSwingers and eventually on other video podcast platforms!  Myrina and Tristan bring everyone up to date on what has been happening with us both personally and professionally, and why we haven't published an episode in a few month...

Myrina and Tristan share sexy stories about playdates they had; both together and separately. Find out how Louis got his "name"! After a final return trip to Virginia, Myrina shares a story about the final night with (one of her) Virginia lovers and something she has never talked about before. On her return from Virginia, Myrina stops at one of her favorite hotel chains and meets a lovely gentlema...

Myrina and Tristan decide they want to start a podcast but aren't quite sure how to talk to people about their idea. They attend a podcast conference and tell anyone who asks, what their podcast is about! (Spoiler alert: it's THIS podcast!) Myrina meets a vanilla guy who is "all-in" at trying his luck with a swinger hotwife. Tristan and Myrina finally visit Secrets Hideaway and Resort outside of O...

A few months ago, Myrina and Tristan met and chatted with a couple at Caliente. Fascinated with their journey and story, Myrina and Tristan asked to interview them for the podcast.  Rob and Trudy are living their best life, together. They met as swingers, eventually started dating as swingers, and then got married and are still swinging! You can find them often as nightclub hosts at Caliente, or p...

When Myrina and Tristan met Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly at Naughty N'awlins in 2019, little did they know that their lives would be changed forever. The instant connection the two couples experienced, certainly was too good to be true. But as time went on, and the couples grew closer, they found themselves on yet another unexpected, dare we say "accidental", leg of their journey.  Listen a...

Kink was the scary unknown, and was a hard limit for Myrina and Tristan. Then they met "The Captain". He slowly, purposefully and methodically introduced them to the spectrum of kink and BDSM. Starting with the sensual, softer side of kink then moving into sensation play, then impact play.  Myrina was skeptical and anxious but all of that faded away when she began to experience pleasure in ways sh...

Kink and BDSM were the two things that Myrina and Tristan said were a "hard no" when they entered the lifestyle. Naivete, ignorance, and unfamiliarity with this new world led to a lot of apprehension and fear. So much so, that those were the only things they specifically called attention to in their swinger profiles that they would not explore. Then they met "The Captain". Deciding to open their m...

Myrina and Tristan interview 7-year lifestyle veterans Michelle and Scott in what turns out to be one of the most thought-provoking, honest, and open interviews to date.  Michelle and Scott share the stories of their own struggles and challenges to maneuver through their lifestyle journey. The naked foursome (yes, everyone was naked for this interview) discuss acknowledged double standards, retrai...

After a short hiatus, Myrina and Tristan return and share a dual celebration of anniversaries. The recap of their first year in the swinger lifestyle, their Swingerversary, was recorded on the two year anniversary of the release of episode one. Tristan gives his thoughts on their first year of ethical non-monogamy. Myrina and Tristan celebrate their Swingerversary at what has become their "go to"...

Myrina turns a new corner in her exploration of being a Hotwife when Tristan and Myrina go on a playdate that was completely orchestrated and organized by Myrina and their date.  Before then, Tristan was generally the communicator with possible playmates. But when Myrina saw "A" at a swinger club, she decided to make the first move. When they could not play that night, Myrina decided when, where,...

When Myrina and Tristan's swinger lifestyle journey began, they thought they had a clear picture of what their swinger play would be. Then things changed. Myrina began exploring the Hot Wife side of her personality and desires. This exploration led to increased meet and greets, playdates, and willingness to expand boundaries and shed some of her inhibitions. Tristan and Myrina were happy and willi...

Myrina and Tristan are ready to get back to swinging and are anxious to ring in the new year with a bang, literally! The couple, along with Crimson Dragonfly and Phoenix Phyre, spend a sexy, hot, fun weekend at Caliente as they all prepare to resume their swinger activities. The quad talk about their hilarious conversations with other couples, steamy fun in the conversation pool and hot tub and se...

Myrina and Tristan continue to expand their boundaries as they get more comfortable in their play. The couple finally has their long-awaited, first official Meet and Greet and F*@k. And Myrina experiences a new sensation. Tristan and Myrina then meet a lover at a bar and push their exhibitionist boundaries a little further.

Myrina and Tristan celebrate their podcasting milestone of reaching over 200,000 downloads in 18 months! And it's all thanks to the Accidental Swingers podcast listeners!  To share in the excitement, Myrina and Tristan will treat a lucky listener couple to fun day in the sun at their favorite local clothing optional resort. The lifestyle couple also talks about their weekend at PodBash 2021 at Sec...

Almost a year into their adventures, Myrina and Tristan begin, what will turn out to be, a pivotal time in their lifestyle journey. Unbeknownst to them, the couple is beginning a period of exploration and starting to push their limits and sexual boundaries.  The first in the Exploring Sexual Boundaries episodes, Myrina and Tristan give a local clothing-optional resort another chance where Myrina m...

Every couple who has entered, or thought about entering, the swinger lifestyle worries about the emotions and feelings that come with seeing your partner having sex with another person. They worry about having feelings for others and what impact it can have on their current relationship. Crimson Dragonfly and Phoenix Phyre join Myrina and Tristan in this roundtable discussion about feelings and em...

The Accidental Swingers discuss the tough choices Myrina had to make as a Hotwife when it comes to playing with "single" men. She made some decisions about what consensual non-monogamy means for her when it comes to playing. They talk about the week of play with Myrina's visiting boyfriend and why that relationship is coming to a very visible end.  They introduce their newest playmate, "Brad" and...

Days after returning from her hotwife trip, Myrina and Tristan go on a sleepover date with Tristan's girlfriend and her husband. Wanting to experience some one-on-one girl time without any men around, Myrina and Amber decide to leave the guys at the bar and have their own playtime. Afterward, Tristan and Amber almost get us thrown out of the hotel. And later what looked like an evening cut short f...

In this bonus podcast episode, Myrina and Tristan talk about the circumstances and issues that brought them to the point of reconsidering their plans to attend Naughty N'awlins 2021.  They also discuss what happened in their "vanilla lives" that subsequently turned ALL of their hot and sexy vacation plans upside down.

Myrina and Tristan share their feelings with each other after Myrina arrives home from the trip that solidified her status as a Hotwife and afforded Tristan the opportunity to have a few "hall passes" of his own. As Tristan often says, this time was an "inflection point" in their lifestyle journey. They also talk about their upcoming return to Naughty N'awlins and realize, in a strange way, they'v...

Experiencing sex and sexuality on HER terms, Myrina's transition into a Hotwife and Slut begins. After her 10-day trip turned into a 3-week stay, Myrina took full advantage of her "hall pass" and ended up with playdates almost every single night for the second half of the trip. Myrina and Tristan, separately, both recorded their thoughts about the transformation that was taking place and the emoti...

In May of 2021, Myrina and Tristan decided to start recording, what they call, "After Party Episodes". Recorded after a party or event(ful) weekend, After Party episodes chronicle what Myrina and Tristan are doing "right now" - as they emerge from their Covid-induced hibernation and begin swinging again.  These raw and largely unedited episodes are typically posted within 24 hours of recording and...

Myrina has to travel to her childhood home to help out family. With ten days away from home, Tristan tells Myrina to let her hair down and try to use her "hall pass". Little did they know that what was supposed to be a 10-day trip would completely change both Myrina and Tristan forever.  

What do an over-served playmate, pierced "lady parts", a drummer, and an exhibitionist all have in common? They're the collection of steamy, sexy, and fun stories that round out this episode. Nine months into their lifestyle journey was the end of the year and Myrina and Tristan went out with a bang .... literally!  Hearing that the holidays were a downtime for swingers, Myrina and Tristan packed...

Not quite as accidental or unexpected as the accidental boyfriend; we kinda saw this one coming. So why do Myrina and Tristan find themselves, once again, surrounded by so many emotional landmines? Myrina struggles with Tristan's new relationship. Communication, sharing and trust become the key components to navigating these feelings and issues. Myrina digs deeps to understand her feelings and has...