Accidental Swingers

Myrina and Tristan are back with their raw and revealing stories and adventures of their swinger journey in this new "story" episode of the Accidental Swingers podcast. The couple takes you back to their first-ever "Greedy Girl" house party—an experience that tested their boundaries, forced them out of their comfort zone, and led to some spicy, surprising, and hilariously honest moments. Scared to...

In this episode of the Accidental Swingers podcast, Myrina, Tristan, Crimson and Phoenix, share their experiences attending the Splash Fort Lauderdale hotel takeover in 2024. Full of adventures, misadventures and a hearty dose of sexy, the foursome share stories and highlights from their first Splash takeover event. They provide an in-depth review of the various themed playrooms and play spaces, t...

Join Myrina and Tristan as they dive into another thrilling episode filled with laughter, candid discussions, and a touch of exhibitionism. Broadcasting from the beautiful Caliente Resort just outside of Tampa, Florida, the foursome share the details of a fun-filled weekend co-hosted with their friends Kimberly and Steve, the founders of the Caliente Facebook Fan Page (Unofficial). Despite a rainy...

Myrina, Tristan, Crimson, and Phoenix continue their review and share their personal stories about their very first trip to Hedonism II, a clothing-optional, adult-only resort in Jamaica.  In episode 54 of the Accidental Swingers podcast, the foursome talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of their trip and give their impressions and experiences of Kinky Caribbean event and Hedonism II. In thi...

Myrina and Tristan are back! After a bit of a mental health hiatus (listen to episodes 51 and 53) the Accidental Swingers return with a trip to Jamaica! Myrina, Tristan, Phoenix and Crimson finally made it to Hedonism II, the world-famous "swinger resort" in Jamaica, to teach and vacation during Kinky Caribbean. Their first-ever trip to Hedo began with a bang and ended with a bang (not the kind yo...

Dr. Tenesha Wards joins Myrina as they address the delicate balance of physical and mental health that comes along with aging as well as additional issues that women in the lifestyle might face. They tackle an array of topics including the importance of diet and exercise, navigating the costs of weight loss programs, and the benefits, and necessity, of creating a safe space for discussing women's...

Myrina and Tristan welcome Billy, Brad, and Kelvin, the founders of the lifestyle group, TampArotic , based in Tampa, Florida. As a relatively new and up-and-comer lifestyle event group, the trio share stories, and how a serendipitous "accidental booking" at a lifestyle resort has led to a thriving event organization and how their unique brand of inclusive, pressure-free events is revolutionizing...

Myrina dives into the world of holistic healing and functional medicine as she welcomes Dr. Tenesha Wards , an expert in gut health, chronic fatigue, women's hormones, and stress management. In Episode 46, Overcoming Open Relationship Obstacles: Finding Balance in the Swinger and Hotwife Lifestyle , Myrina goes into detail about the challenges and struggles she is facing as a middle-aged woman who...

Join Myrina and Tristan in the landmark 50th episode of The Accidental Swingers podcast. Celebrate with your favorite lifestyle podcast hosts as they share their gratitude for reaching this milestone, and dive deep into the realities of the swinger lifestyle. They reflect on their origin story from their first "accidental" swinger date to their six-year journey into the lifestyle, discussing perso...

Myrina and Tristan share their next erotic encounter lifestyle story. A sexy story about desire, fantasies coming true, and navigating new experiences. Tristan was expecting an MFM date with Myrina and the Captain but was surprised with a completely different evening. Myrina and the Captain instead planned a surprise sexy, and kinky, date night that included one of the Captain's playmates, Eve, as...

Myrina and Tristan speak to two couples and one throuple in the lifestyle and hear firsthand accounts of their personal journeys into the swinger lifestyle. Each dynamic exploring non-monogamy in a way and at a pace that is right for them. The guests share valuable lessons and experiences; all of them giving their own, unique insight into the essential component of every successful lifestyle relat...

Myrina shares her recent adventures when she traveled without Tristan for a week. Attending a conference where she regularly meets one of her playmates, Myrina knew she would have at least a few beautiful evenings with one of her lovers. She could never have anticipated, or even come close to arranging, how she actually spent her week when she is also able to connect with a previous playmate who l...

In this completely raw, uncut, and unedited episode, Myrina and Tristan have a candid, open, and honest conversation about their current personal relationship struggles and how they have learned to process and communicate during these difficult times.  They discuss the challenges of navigating the hotwife and ethical non-monogamy lifestyles during times when they are out of sync, especially with e...

Myrina and Tristan talk about the use of recreational cannabis within the swinger community. After a few years of their own "research and development," the couple shares their thoughts and ideas about their own personal cannabis journeys. They discuss how they feel cannabis can enhance intimacy and the many ways they feel helps heighten their sensuality. And find out why they prefer products with...

Myrina and Tristan continue their swinger journey as they recount the story of an afternoon threeway which included a little surprise for Myrina as well! They discuss a steamy encounter with a woman at a resort who only had eyes for Myrina and Tristan talks about a brand new experience for him, a somewhat kinky invitation to be a third in a playdate with The Captain and one of his playmates. 

Myrina and Tristan are back at Caliente Resort and Spa in Tampa as they kick off their first "Third Thursday at Caliente". You will be able to find Tristan and Myrina on the third Thursday of every month, which just happens to be Ladies' Night, recording their podcast episode "live" at Caliente!  In this episode, Myrina and Tristan celebrate their five-year swingerversary (five years to the day) o...

Myrina and Tristan review their recent trips to Vegas and the Poconos. (Be sure to visit our website to view our calendar and join us on our next lifestyle event adventure!)  Myrina starts messaging with a single from out of state who was coming to Florida for a few days and arranges a play date with him. Myrina and Tristan are invited to play with another couple and single guy. Myrina takes a big...

Myrina and Tristan step further out of their comfort zone by going out of town to spend the weekend with play partners they met at Naughty N'awlins the year before. Listen in as they recount the weekend's hot and sexy shenanigans where they basically had sex, ate for nourishment, napped, and then had more sex! The foursome visited the swinger club, Trapeze, in Atlanta where the ladies decided to s...

Myrina and Tristan are BACK and now also on VIDEO! From now on, Accidental Swingers podcast episodes will be audio and video! Find us, right now, on YouTube @TheAccidentalSwingers and eventually on other video podcast platforms!  Myrina and Tristan bring everyone up to date on what has been happening with us both personally and professionally, and why we haven't published an episode in a few month...

Myrina and Tristan share sexy stories about playdates they had; both together and separately. Find out how Louis got his "name"! After a final return trip to Virginia, Myrina shares a story about the final night with (one of her) Virginia lovers and something she has never talked about before. On her return from Virginia, Myrina stops at one of her favorite hotel chains and meets a lovely gentlema...

Myrina and Tristan decide they want to start a podcast but aren't quite sure how to talk to people about their idea. They attend a podcast conference and tell anyone who asks, what their podcast is about! (Spoiler alert: it's THIS podcast!) Myrina meets a vanilla guy who is "all-in" at trying his luck with a swinger hotwife. Tristan and Myrina finally visit Secrets Hideaway and Resort outside of O...

A few months ago, Myrina and Tristan met and chatted with a couple at Caliente. Fascinated with their journey and story, Myrina and Tristan asked to interview them for the podcast.  Rob and Trudy are living their best life, together. They met as swingers, eventually started dating as swingers, and then got married and are still swinging! You can find them often as nightclub hosts at Caliente, or p...

When Myrina and Tristan met Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly at Naughty N'awlins in 2019, little did they know that their lives would be changed forever. The instant connection the two couples experienced, certainly was too good to be true. But as time went on, and the couples grew closer, they found themselves on yet another unexpected, dare we say "accidental", leg of their journey.  Listen a...

Kink was the scary unknown, and was a hard limit for Myrina and Tristan. Then they met "The Captain". He slowly, purposefully and methodically introduced them to the spectrum of kink and BDSM. Starting with the sensual, softer side of kink then moving into sensation play, then impact play.  Myrina was skeptical and anxious but all of that faded away when she began to experience pleasure in ways sh...

Kink and BDSM were the two things that Myrina and Tristan said were a "hard no" when they entered the lifestyle. Naivete, ignorance, and unfamiliarity with this new world led to a lot of apprehension and fear. So much so, that those were the only things they specifically called attention to in their swinger profiles that they would not explore. Then they met "The Captain". Deciding to open their m...