Accidental Swingers

Myrina and Tristan interview 7-year lifestyle veterans Michelle and Scott in what turns out to be one of the most thought-provoking, honest, and open interviews to date.  Michelle and Scott share the stories of their own struggles and challenges to maneuver through their lifestyle journey. The naked foursome (yes, everyone was naked for this interview) discuss acknowledged double standards, retrai...

After a short hiatus, Myrina and Tristan return and share a dual celebration of anniversaries. The recap of their first year in the swinger lifestyle, their Swingerversary, was recorded on the two year anniversary of the release of episode one. Tristan gives his thoughts on their first year of ethical non-monogamy. Myrina and Tristan celebrate their Swingerversary at what has become their "go to"...

Myrina turns a new corner in her exploration of being a Hotwife when Tristan and Myrina go on a playdate that was completely orchestrated and organized by Myrina and their date.  Before then, Tristan was generally the communicator with possible playmates. But when Myrina saw "A" at a swinger club, she decided to make the first move. When they could not play that night, Myrina decided when, where,...

When Myrina and Tristan's swinger lifestyle journey began, they thought they had a clear picture of what their swinger play would be. Then things changed. Myrina began exploring the Hot Wife side of her personality and desires. This exploration led to increased meet and greets, playdates, and willingness to expand boundaries and shed some of her inhibitions. Tristan and Myrina were happy and willi...

Myrina and Tristan are ready to get back to swinging and are anxious to ring in the new year with a bang, literally! The couple, along with Crimson Dragonfly and Phoenix Phyre, spend a sexy, hot, fun weekend at Caliente as they all prepare to resume their swinger activities. The quad talk about their hilarious conversations with other couples, steamy fun in the conversation pool and hot tub and se...

Myrina and Tristan continue to expand their boundaries as they get more comfortable in their play. The couple finally has their long-awaited, first official Meet and Greet and F*@k. And Myrina experiences a new sensation. Tristan and Myrina then meet a lover at a bar and push their exhibitionist boundaries a little further.

Myrina and Tristan celebrate their podcasting milestone of reaching over 200,000 downloads in 18 months! And it's all thanks to the Accidental Swingers podcast listeners!  To share in the excitement, Myrina and Tristan will treat a lucky listener couple to fun day in the sun at their favorite local clothing optional resort. The lifestyle couple also talks about their weekend at PodBash 2021 at Sec...

Almost a year into their adventures, Myrina and Tristan begin, what will turn out to be, a pivotal time in their lifestyle journey. Unbeknownst to them, the couple is beginning a period of exploration and starting to push their limits and sexual boundaries.  The first in the Exploring Sexual Boundaries episodes, Myrina and Tristan give a local clothing-optional resort another chance where Myrina m...

Every couple who has entered, or thought about entering, the swinger lifestyle worries about the emotions and feelings that come with seeing your partner having sex with another person. They worry about having feelings for others and what impact it can have on their current relationship. Crimson Dragonfly and Phoenix Phyre join Myrina and Tristan in this roundtable discussion about feelings and em...

The Accidental Swingers discuss the tough choices Myrina had to make as a Hotwife when it comes to playing with "single" men. She made some decisions about what consensual non-monogamy means for her when it comes to playing. They talk about the week of play with Myrina's visiting boyfriend and why that relationship is coming to a very visible end.  They introduce their newest playmate, "Brad" and...

Days after returning from her hotwife trip, Myrina and Tristan go on a sleepover date with Tristan's girlfriend and her husband. Wanting to experience some one-on-one girl time without any men around, Myrina and Amber decide to leave the guys at the bar and have their own playtime. Afterward, Tristan and Amber almost get us thrown out of the hotel. And later what looked like an evening cut short f...

In this bonus podcast episode, Myrina and Tristan talk about the circumstances and issues that brought them to the point of reconsidering their plans to attend Naughty N'awlins 2021.  They also discuss what happened in their "vanilla lives" that subsequently turned ALL of their hot and sexy vacation plans upside down.

Myrina and Tristan share their feelings with each other after Myrina arrives home from the trip that solidified her status as a Hotwife and afforded Tristan the opportunity to have a few "hall passes" of his own. As Tristan often says, this time was an "inflection point" in their lifestyle journey. They also talk about their upcoming return to Naughty N'awlins and realize, in a strange way, they'v...

Experiencing sex and sexuality on HER terms, Myrina's transition into a Hotwife and Slut begins. After her 10-day trip turned into a 3-week stay, Myrina took full advantage of her "hall pass" and ended up with playdates almost every single night for the second half of the trip. Myrina and Tristan, separately, both recorded their thoughts about the transformation that was taking place and the emoti...

In May of 2021, Myrina and Tristan decided to start recording, what they call, "After Party Episodes". Recorded after a party or event(ful) weekend, After Party episodes chronicle what Myrina and Tristan are doing "right now" - as they emerge from their Covid-induced hibernation and begin swinging again.  These raw and largely unedited episodes are typically posted within 24 hours of recording and...

Myrina has to travel to her childhood home to help out family. With ten days away from home, Tristan tells Myrina to let her hair down and try to use her "hall pass". Little did they know that what was supposed to be a 10-day trip would completely change both Myrina and Tristan forever.  

What do an over-served playmate, pierced "lady parts", a drummer, and an exhibitionist all have in common? They're the collection of steamy, sexy, and fun stories that round out this episode. Nine months into their lifestyle journey was the end of the year and Myrina and Tristan went out with a bang .... literally!  Hearing that the holidays were a downtime for swingers, Myrina and Tristan packed...

Not quite as accidental or unexpected as the accidental boyfriend; we kinda saw this one coming. So why do Myrina and Tristan find themselves, once again, surrounded by so many emotional landmines? Myrina struggles with Tristan's new relationship. Communication, sharing and trust become the key components to navigating these feelings and issues. Myrina digs deeps to understand her feelings and has...

Accidental and unexpected. Myrina's relationship with a playmate heats up, especially as they spend more time getting to know each other between playdates. Their relationship transitions from playmates to lovers to boyfriend and girlfriend and Myrina and Tristan must face the first enormous obstacle in living and experiencing the swinger lifestyle on their terms.   Tristan and Myrina meet a new la...

Deciding to push their boundaries a little further, Myrina and Tristan check another item off their "bucket" list with a visit to an adult bookstore and theater with another couple. But were they ready for all that this adventure had to offer?   Myrina and Tristan also discuss Myrina's first real solo "date" with a single guy in the lifestyle. Tristan talks about how he felt, waiting at home, watc...

It was going to be awesome; until it wasn't. We've all done it. Built something up in our minds, just knowing how great the experience is going to be. The excitement. The buildup. The anticipation. And then, it falls apart. Myrina and Tristan share stories of dates that did not go as planned and learn a very valuable lesson in managing their own expectations for relationships they are building wit...

"How do I get my partner into swinging?". This is the number one question we receive from listeners. We invited Dr. Justin Lehmiller, social psychologist and author of the book "Tell Me What You Want" to join us to talk about sexual fantasies, how to talk to your partner about your fantasies, how to listen (and react) when your partner tells you their fantasies, and how to move forward and act on...

Our first four-way!!!  Podcast, that is!  Meet Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly - our playmates and quarantine couple - in our round table discussion about playdates, pressure and performance.  Together, the four of us share stories and laughs as we discuss the different times we've all felt the pressure to perform for our play partners.  The guys talk about the common reasons they experience p...

We spent 5 days at the "largest open-relationship lifestyle event" in the US in 2018; five days that changed our entire concept of what our life as swingers would look like.  We met amazing people, ate fantastic food, had lots of sexy & hot play time, and learned even more about ourselves.   Listen in as we talk about what happened and began to discover what type of swingers we wanted to be and wh...

The adventures continue when these two new swingers attend the "largest open-relationship lifestyle event" in the US. Each day held new surprises, new experiences, new screw-ups and new friends! We credit this experience as a defining moment in creating and shaping our entire lifestyle journey. Part 2 of this 3 part series:  The sparks fly when we meet the most amazing couple! Wonderful conversati...