Your Mess or Mine?

Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode has something for you! Will and I are sharing fun date ideas, creative gifts, and ways to treat yourself—because love isn’t just for couples. From unique experiences to solo adventures, we’ve got you covered. Tune in as we break down the best ways to make memories whether it’s with someone special or just with yourself...

In this playful episode we're diving into the ultimate fantasy draft-but make it dating! Join us as we build our dream partners, one hilarious and quirky trait at a time. From personality must-haves to ridiculous red flags we're somehow willing to overlook, no trait is off-limits. Plus, we ask YOU the listeners to share your dream traits and dating apps must-haves. Did your submission make...

Should you date a coworker? Or is it a one-way ticket to drama-ville? And what about toxic workplaces-how do you protect yourself when the problem is bad management? Will and I spill the tea on workplace relationships and listeners share their insights on the subject. Will and I also give you the tools you need, and practical tips to prioritize your well-being in a toxic work environment. If you'd...

The holidays are a time for joy, connection, and celebration-but let's be real, they can also come with their fair share of challenges. This week, Will and I sit down with our guest Tatiana, who shares her story about dealing with her cousin's toxic girlfriend. With her birthday/Christmas party coming up at her grandma's house, Tatiana opens up about her fears and struggles to keep the peace while...

AND I'M BACK WITH YOUR NEW CO-HOST WILL!!!! Will and I discuss real struggles in attempting to date as an introvert, mending relationships, and how you can feel stuck when you're in an abusive relationship. Domestic violence hotline: 800-799-7233 If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and se...

SEASON 2 FINALE - Gabriel, Vikki, and I discuss our experiences with breadcrumbing. Topics: Breadcrumbing, proper etiquette when scheduling a date, double booking, ghosting, place holders, and dating apps. Speed dating event we hope to see you at: https://www.facebook.com/share/r/UcaViqjoRDyCTTib/ If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can...

Gabriel and I discuss the difference between being broken up with and being discarded. Topics: Cuffing season, avoidant attachment, narcissists, discard phase, talk therapy, getting over a breakup. If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

Gabriel and I interview Ashely as she shares her experience in her very new relationship. Although the distance is what ended her previous relationship she's hoping this new one will go the distance for her. Topics: Dating long distance, dating as a single parent, and new relationships. *Ashley was also on season 2 episode 3 during one of the live interview clips. * If you'd like to be a g...

Topics: New relationships, including how to introduce your child to someone you're dating. Belinda and I share 4 expert tips on how to navigate a new relationship. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send us a message at: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/⁠

Topics: Unveiling the 3-month rule. Weighing the benefits and drawbacks of delaying intimacy. Gabriel and I explore four pros and cons of waiting three months for intimacy...timing matters. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406...

Topics: Narcissistic abuse, trauma bond, signs of a narcissist. Belinda and I share our experiences being in a relationship with a narcissist, how we recognized it was toxic, and our journey through the process. If you are in an abusive relationship and need someone to talk to please call the *National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233* If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a t...

Topics: overthinking text messages, toxic relationships, breakups, and how to help calm an overthinker. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email us at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send us a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

Topics: texting etiquette, co-dependency, working on personal development, overthinking text messages, and being secure in yourself. Personal trainer: Jos Wise If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

Men and women share their stories of best and worst first dates - live from The Archibald If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

Topics: Ghosting, attachment styles, and calling it quits. Gabriel and I talk about our thoughts on ghosting and having open communication. Book: Attachment Theory https://a.co/d/hsixcKK If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join our private FB group and send us a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/6434...

Topics: Phone etiquette, drinking, and appropriate conversations. Gabriel and I discuss the dos & don'ts that have been helpful for us over the years for our first dates. If you'd like to be a guest on the show or have a topic request please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/6434063439522...

Season 2 details with my PERMANENT co-host Gabriel.

A single guy shares his experience dating on the spectrum. Topics: Dating with Autism/ADHD, catfishing, and dating apps. If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

A single lady shares her experience about what she went through being cheated on and what advice she has for others who have gone through a similar situation. Topics: Cheaters, manipulators, and trusting your gut. Book mentioned: "She's Still there" If you'd like to be a guest on my show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me...

A guy shares his experience as a single dad and we also discuss relationships and childhood trauma. Topics: Relationships, childhood trauma, narcissists, and co-parenting. Newdayservices.org If you'd like to be a guest on my show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

A single mom shares her experience dating with young children. Topics: dating guys for their personality, funny/crazy matrix, and dating with children. If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

A single mom shares her experience dating with young children. Topics: Who pays on dates, staying friends with an ex, and dating with children. If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

A single guy shares his dating journey and how he's working on being able to communicate more effectively. Topics: Speed dating, communication, friends with benefits, and guys that hit it and quit it. If you'd like to be a guest on the show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/64340634395...

You can never be too careful meeting up with someone on a first date. A single lady shares her experience and gives some insight into how she tries to stay safe while dating on dating apps. If you'd like to be a guest on my show please email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can join my private FB group and send me a message at: https://www.facebook.com/groups/643406343952205/

Part 2 - Adam continues sharing his ups and downs in dating and how he's turned his life around. For confidential support for suicide crisis or mental health-related distress dial or text 988 or visit https://988lifeline.org/?ref=w3use If you'd like to be on the show email me at yourmessormine@outlook.com or you can comment or message me on my private FB group. https://www.facebook.com/gro...