What They Won't Say

In midst of a breakup you think its you and only you in the world going through this pain and if you could just have that person back you could make things work because you think the devil you know is better than you don’t and im here to say…theyre not

it’s not your responsibility to be accountable for someone else, what they do is up to them and if they wanted to change they would…but they don’t. its a toxic cycle you've chosen to be in, but is it time to walk away?

time. my fathers always told me that time is a theif and in my younger years i thought he didn’t know a thing. friends came and left, people passed away, and while day to day nothing changed i look back on my life and nothings the same.

is God not listening, or are we calling on Him when things are bad? is He not answering us, or does He not want us to walk away when we get what we've asked for....ponder that

I recently heard Mel Robbins talking about the “let them” theory…and I felt like it was the most relatable thing ive heard in a while. Its not the most complicated idea, and most people probably use it MOST of the time…but its something I think we should learn to use all of the time.

We often times wait till the next time we speak to someone to fix a problem or situation...but the truth is, we don't know that the next time will ever come

After enough time away, and going through an intense form of therapy to fix myself before continuing to preach about healing, and all things life - im back

the power of a mother...and the list of her responsibilities is endless. its a 24/7 job. a job after the 9-5. be kind to our mothers.

we only get the things we're meant to when its our turn...& not a minute before 

inequitable relationships are everywhere...do we keep them?...or do we cut them off?

as our parents age...acknowledging them becomes more important 

the resolution is more important than the problem...understanding the problem, is more important than an apology.

finding the one is difficult...limiting yourself to only ever finding one gives you a snowballs chance in hell's level of success. 

Apologies are one of the most powerful healing measures, both, for yourself and the apology receiver. 

living on the edge of fear...confronting our fears is exactly what we must do to grow.

We are taught our whole lives to "find our other half"...but are we half of anything? or are we whole on our own?

Finding your life purpose is difficult...but not impossible, its inevitable 

forgiveness doesn't mean reconnection - forgive people for you, forgive so you can move on. 

our parents came here for an opportunity...or they came here so we'd have one. my parents never wanted me to be like them when I got older, they wanted me to be better.

October is Mental Health Awareness month, so this short is for you. Take the time to change your vantage point by writing out your struggles, by analyzing your approach to sensitive topics, and be more aware of your own feelings - forget what others tell you, hold your own hand 

you don't have to keep anyone around longer than you want to...so sometimes you have to do a clearing in your life, to get to where youre going and have your energy cleaned for the opportunities ahead. call it...spring cleaning